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1. What do you need to leave behind in 2025? (Toxic mindsets, sin patterns, addictions, toxic relationships, etc.)
2. What word or phrase is going to define 2026 for me? (Spend a great amount of time on this one.)
3. Jesus, what do you want my spiritual life to look like in 2026? (Time in the Word, prayers and church)
4. Jesus, how can I better steward my soul this year? (Emotional health and hobbies)
5. Jesus, how can I be a better steward of the body you have given me this year? (Health and fitness)
6. Jesus, what does relational health look like for me this year? Who do I need to invite in and where do I need to put up boundaries? How can I better steward my marriage?
7. Jesus, how can I be more generous with what you have blessed me with this year? (Commit to tithe, give to missions, serve, etc.)
8. Jesus, how do you want to use me this year at work and in my sphere of influence?
I hope you will spend some time with these questions and begin the New Year with anticipation for what the Lord will do in you and through you.
Then it is good to leave behind the work and have a little playtime and unstructured time to relax and enjoy life. All work and no play is not good for our souls, and each of us may find different ways to find balance. Just like children who are in school all day and hear the bell to go home: they switch gears and begin enjoying some fun free time. Some people even write “Play Time” into their datebook to be sure to rest from their work. I often refer to free time as my reward time when I sit down and play a Scrabble game online after cleaning or working a long while in the kitchen. A time away from work actually makes us more productive and frees our mind to think more creatively.
We need to acknowledge the Lord in all we do, and as it says in Proverbs 3:6 & 8: “Listen for God’s voice in everything you do, everywhere you go; He’s the one who will keep you on track…Your body will glow with health, your very bones will vibrate with life!” Throughout our day let us acknowledge the Lord and at the end of the day, let us give thanks.
Anthony Bradley continues to be an insightful source of material for my blog on masculinity. He recently post a blog entitled, “Secularism lied to boys and men.” He notes how Gen Z men are running back to church for the truth they were denied. “The boys and men in the West are not alright,” warns Bradley, “adrift in a culture of digital distraction, economic volatility, and profound loneliness, a generation of young men is waking up to the fact that the secular world has broken its promise. Secularism doesn’t work. It was all a big fat lie.”
Bradley references the recent data from the UK showing a quiet but powerful current that seems to be pulling a growing number of young men toward an ancient faith. There is a conscious rebellion or as some call it “a quiet revival” against a trivial society. It is “a search for an anchor in the form of a rigorous full fat orthodox Christianity.” Bradley asks, “Why are the lost boys of the secular age finding their way back to God, and what does their journey tell us about the future of the West?”
Gen Z is a generation whose consciousness has been shaped by perpetual crisis, economic precarity, and the hollowing out of communal life. It has produced a generation of spiritually destitute young men. “Disenchanted with the the triviality and banality of a screen-addicted society, young converts are searching for transcendence – for something beautiful, awesome, and enduring.” Young men are being drawn to a robust, full fat orthodoxy and the stability of its deep historical and institutional roots. They is a search for “rediscovery of an inheritance.”
Gen Z is experiencing a crisis of meaning. The structural failure in culture has created a new demand for the Christian message. Young men are being drawn to Christianity because of its “truth claims.” “The Christian faith,” notes Bradley, “is not being adopted as a mere therapeutic tool but as a comprehensive framework for a flourishing human life…..The church is functioning as it was designed: as a community of belonging and purpose, offering a coherent answer to the alienation that plagues the modern West.”
Young people are rejecting a “half fat” gospel in favor of the “full fat” orthodoxy of historic Christianity. They are drawn to the radical, counter-cultural, and comprehensive claims of the gospel. Bradley wonders, “What is happening in the UK should serve as a sober-minded and encouraging case study for the church in North America. It suggests that as the secular narrative continues to exhaust itself, opportunities will emerge. The question is whether the church will be ready with a compelling, orthodox, and deeply communal expression of the faith that offers a true alternative to a world that has lost its way.”
The last sentence in the previous paragraph presents, in my opinion, a challenge to the men of my generation. Do we have a compelling story of the good news that will speak to generation Z? Do we have a full fat orthodoxy or is it a “half fat” message? I accept this challenge from Bradley. Young men are searching for an anchor in their lives, living in a secular culture that seems to be exhausted?
As the writer of this blog, I have not changed in my convictions. Articulating the truth is vital. Jesus said, “You will know the truth, and the truth will set you free” (John 8;32). I believe in a “full fat” orthodoxy. I have continued to cry out for older men, like myself, to mentor and gather with younger men. Masculinity is “caught more than taught.” Finally, I need to act like a real man.
Isn’t what everyone is really looking for: to know they matter and are loved? In the book of Ephesians, it seems Paul has concern that those in the church would know this also, for in Eph. 3:17-19 he says when he prays, “that Christ will live in you as you open the door to invite Him in. And I ask Him that with both feet planted firmly on love, you’ll be able to take in with all followers of Jesus the extravagant dimensions of Christ’s love. Reach out and experience the breadth! Test its length! Plumb the depths! Rise to the heights! Live full lives, full in the fullness of God.”
To know and experience His love is simply wonderful but it is not to end there, for we are to overflow in love for others. Jesus especially loved and identified with the poor, ministering to them, and when we reach out to them, we are His hands and feet. Recently, Al and I visited a person who has so little in the world’s goods but rich in faith, we went away realizing we are the poor ones. May each of us experience the deep joy of sharing what we have with others.
Jesus knew what it was like to be rejected, but His security and acceptance was found in the Father only. I was reading in John recently that after Jesus cleansed the temple, many people entrusted their lives to Him, but others rejected Him. It says in John 2:25, “But Jesus didn’t entrust His life to them. He knew them inside and out, knew how untrustworthy they were. He didn’t need any help in seeing right through them.“ Jesus was hated by many without any cause though He lived a perfect life.
We are to believe what God says to us about who we are, not what others say about us. He looks beyond the outside and knows what is in our hearts. Do we accept that He says we are His beloved child, or do we continue to go by what the world around us says? The Lord is for us and wants to love and care for us. Like the song says, “Be not dismayed, whate’er betide, God will take care of you! Beneath His wings of love abide, God will take care of you. Lonely and sad from friends apart, God will take care of you! He will give peace to your aching heart, God will take care of you!”
I wonder if I have mentioned to you of the night I was soundly sleeping and woke in the middle of the night, unable to go back to sleep. A message came to me of something that I had never thought of before or considered, and it was a bit puzzling. It still is. At first, I wondered where it was coming from and wanted to ignore it, but yet it was so unexpected and definite. I asked the Lord if I was hearing right, gaving it thought and prayer for three hours. I could not go back to sleep until I said yes to the Lord. Even if I don’t understand the why, I know that when and if He desires, He will let me know. His will is always best!
Later, a friend sent me a message of the story of Samuel as a young boy who heard a voice in the night three times and thought it was Eli calling him. (I Samuel 3) But the priest realized it must be the Lord and told him to answer, “Speak Lord for your servant hears.” Samuel did exactly that and was open and willing to hear what God said.
Sometimes a word may come to us that does not fit our expectations or what we want to hear. But may we be like young Samuel and embrace whatever it is.
We will be packing up and driving to the cities for two nights and spending time catching up with many relatives. At our Christmas meal tonight each family shares what has happened over this past year in their family.
Christmas Light Eternal
In the hush of winter’s night,
A star breaks through the veil of sky,
Guiding hearts with gentle light,
To where Love’s promise will not die.
No gold, no crown, no earthly throne,
Just straw and breath, a manger bare,
Yet Heaven’s gift is fully shown—
God’s own heart, laid open there.
So let the world grow still and hear,
The whisper born in Bethlehem,
That every soul, both far and near,
Is cradled in His diadem.”
On this Christmas day, may we look beyond the glitter and gifts we will receive and celebrate the greatest gift of all: Jesus and the revelation of His love for us and His presence with us.
1. O what a wonderful, wonderful day, day I will never forget;
After I’d wandered in darkness away, Jesus my Savior I met.
O what a tender, compassionate friend, He met the need of my heart;
Shadows dispelling, with joy I am telling, He made all the darkness depart.
Chorus
Heaven came down and glory filled my soul, (filled my soul)
When at the cross the Savior made me whole; (made me whole)
My sins were washed away and my night was turned to day,
Heaven came down and glory filled my soul! (filled my soul)
2. Born of the Spirit with life from above into God’s family divine,
Justified fully thru Calvary’s love, O what a standing is mine!
And the transaction so quickly was made, when as a sinner I came,
Took of the offer, of grace He did proffer, He saved me, O praise His dear name!
3. Now I’ve a hope that will surely endure after the passing of time;
I have a future in heaven for sure there in those mansions sublime.
And it’s because of that wonderful day, when at the cross I believed;
Riches eternal and blessings supernal, from His precious hand I received.
May you know for certain the joy that comes from knowing the Lord. If you are reading this and have never received Him, on this Christmas Eve day confess your sins and invite Him into your heart. He will wash away all your sins, giving you joy, hope and a future in Heaven.
One morning, Al left before 7 a.m. for the men’s group while I baked some cookies, filling the apartment with aroma. I had my devotional time and decided to just sit in the dark with only our little Christmas tree lit up and have time with the Lord. I had just read about the shepherds who were interrupted in their night watch by light from heaven and an angel who announced good news of Jesus birth, accompanied by a host of angels giving glory to God. The shepherds were not too busy to quickly go to see Jesus, returning full of joy and praising God. What if they had felt they were too occupied to go? Just think of what they would have missed!
Jesus waits for us every day and desires to spend the day with us, but how much we miss when we hurry by and don’t give our attention to Him! What if we slowed down our pace and let lesser things go. I had just read an email from a friend who was excited to be going to go to a praise service that afternoon, and had also been fellowshipping with a new Christian. She was on God’s time! As I sat in the dark my focus went to the cross on the wall and the words to a song came to mind that gave words to what was in my heart. “How can I say thanks for the things You have done for me? Things so undeserved, yet You gave to prove Your love for me. The voices of a million angels could not express my gratitude. All that I am and ever hope to be, I owe it all to Thee. To God be the glory…”
Let us slow down, enjoy His presence and listen to Him speak to our hearts.
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