Canaan's Rest

Canaan’s Rest represents a quiet place “set apart” for the purpose of hearing God's voice, growing in intimacy with the Lord, and being renewed in soul and spirit.

May 12, 2026

Dear Ones, Hope you have a wonderful day! Every day I see changes out my window as buds are coming out on the trees, flowers planted along the service road, and everything is coming alive! I plan to study and do some writing today, and maybe try a new recipe.
Devotions from Judy’s heart
I suspect we all tell lies to ourselves without even realizing it. Sometimes our remarks to others sound rather humble, but bottom line: it could be a lack of faith. I read an article from author Steve Backlund that is rather convicting. Maybe God is calling us into a ministry, and we respond by saying that we are just being realistic and looking at the facts, for we don’t feel qualified. But think in scripture of all the men like Moses or Gideon who didn’t feel qualified, and yet God used them mightily. We are all called to walk by faith, not by sight. (II Cor. 5:7) Backlund writes that “Faith doesn’t deny reality, it simply refuses to let it have the final word.” If it is God’s will, then He will put within us what we need.

Maybe we hang on to the lie that we tried something before and it didn’t seem to work, so we refuse to enter into what God has for us now. Underneath we are afraid we will be disappointed again, so we are not willing to try; but how much better to listen to what God is saying to us and experience the new thing He has for us.

Some of us may guard our hearts and say we ought not to get ahead of ourselves. In other words, let’s lower our expectations so we won’t be disappointed. But God can do far more abundantly than we can ask or think. (Eph. 3:20) Let us live in hope, rather than regret that we shrunk back to avoid pain.

We probably all have used the excuse, “Someone else could do it better.” Though it sounds humble, we are not to think less of ourselves but agree with the Lord. Certainly, if He calls us to do something, He will equip us and give us what we need to carry it out. We bring honor to the Lord when we trust in Him to use us as we depend on His grace.

Let us not believe the lies of the enemy, but go forward boldly in what the Lord is entrusting to us.

Challenge for today: Don’t shrink back from all that God has called you to do, but believe and trust in Him.
Blessings on your day and prayers and love, Judy

Be A Man

“Be a Man!”  These were  words I keep hearing within me, as I was alone on my daily walk.  Judy was not along,  so I took the time to reflect on my  spiritual journey and my relationship with my wife.  My heart was troubled  because of the frustration and confusion I felt in the verbal interaction with my wife.  There are times when I feel like I am in “a relational fog,” unsure my responses. I am learning to go below the surface to understand my feelings, not wanting to blame my wife.  I need to stay in the moment as a man and not react as a rebellious boy.  

As I walked and prayed a challenging thought came to me.  “You are going to have to humble yourself before your wife.”  I did not relish the prospects of being humbled.  However, I began to see I was not behaving  like a man, who had been married for over 60 years.  As I pondered my responses to our interaction , I could trace my feelings back to those of my childhood home environment, where I felt confused and misunderstood as a boy. 

I have been willing for the Holy Spirit to go deeper into my inner life.  The awareness of a wounded boy, kept coming into my awareness. My wife was not at fault for my reaction.  Judy, responding to me as my wife, was only triggering a response that made me feel like a young boy interacting to my mother.  It was indeed humbling for me to admit I was acting like a frightened  boy.  But that boyish response was not a healthy response, in a adult dialogue with my loving and caring wife.  I had to admit my anger, frustration and most of all alienation.  I had to own those feelings which caused me to  react in a childish manner.

I share this vulnerable moment in the hope that it might help a reader of this blog.  Here are some “helpful tips” for your ongoing journey with your wife, from someone who still has a lot to learn after 61 year with a woman who is one of the most consistent and spiritual persons I know. Remember, it take “two to tango.”  My growth is often reflected in the growth  taking place with “my bride.”

First, we  are learning to give each other emotional space to fail.  For me this means  my wife accepts my failings, while “hanging in there” as I come to awareness of my sinful patterns.  Please, remember all the will power and mental gymnastics will not get to your deeper responses.  I thank God, for the space my wife gives me.

Secondly, please remember, as the man, you need to humble yourself first.  This is how you take the lead.  You clear the air, admit your fault, ask for prayer and cherish your wife.  Period!!

Thirdly, don’t be afraid of “the inner journey.” If your gaze is on the Lord and you are  committed to Scripture as your frame of reference, be a man and face the dark secrets hidden in your heart.  Don’t try to tough it out.  That is  weakness.  A strong man can humble himself when it is necessary.

Fourthly, make a commitment to the Lord and your wife  to “Cherish” her, which means you will protect and care for your wife, even  when those times of “relational fog” set in. 

We read in I Peter 5: 5-6, “‘God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.’  So humble yourselves under the mighty power of God and at the right time he will lift you up in honor.”  

 

  

May 11, 2026

Dear Ones,
Hope you had a wonderful weekend. We enjoyed going to hear Leif preach and then to the lake for big yummy steaks that he grilled which is my favorite of all. We had games and fun and a wonderful Mother’s Day. Today I am going to make cookies and go to Aldi’s and Exercise class etc.
Devotions from Judy’s heart
How often do we judge others and later find out what we thought was true was not reality at all? Outward appearances aren’t always as they seem, and we may presume things that are not so. Sadly, it can cause others to have the wrong impression of a person if we let our judgement be known. One day, I remarked to Al that someone I just met was a little hard to figure out. I had talked with her a while and welcomed her, but wondered what I was missing, for her responses were not typical. Others may have wondered the same, but we all received her and she often remarked how loved she felt. Later we found out the answer, as she had cancer and had brain surgery prior to our knowing her, and suddenly it all made sense. What if we had judged her and talked negatively about her?!

What does the Lord have to say when we judge others? He is very clear, as He said in the Sermon on the Mount, “Judge not, that you be not judged. For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you.” (Matt.6:1-2) We studied this passage in our Wednesday night Bible study and discussed why we shouldn’t judge. The Message translation says, “Don’t pick on people, jump on their failures, criticize their faults—unless, of course, you want the same treatment. That critical spirit has a way of boomeranging.”

The only time we are to judge is when those within the church are in sin, as Paul said in I Cor. 5:12. But before we do, we need to first pray and examine ourselves as David did in Psalm 139:23-24, then ask the Lord to cross-examine and test us, and see if there is wrong-doing in our hearts. After we have examined ourselves, we also need to be sure we bring truth and not just gossip we may have heard. Usually it would be the pastor and elders that would go to the believer in love, confront him and bring discipline. We must guard our own hearts, that we don’t harbor a judgmental spirit, but speak truth in love.

Challenge for today: When you have judged someone else in your heart, confess it to the Lord and pray for the person, and leave the judging up to the Lord.
Blessings on your week and prayers and love, Judy

May 9, 2026

Dear Ones, Hope you have a wonderful weekend! I plan to clean the apartment today and tomorrow we will be going to hear Leif preach and then on to the lake for Mother’s Day dinner with family. Emoji
Devotions from Judy’s heart
We all need hope, to believe that God is good, and we can confidently put our faith in Him. He is our source, and if we place our hope in any other we will come away with disappointment, for no person can live up to our expectations. But God is all-powerful, all-knowing, and can do more than we ask or even think. (Eph. 3:20) When we wake each morning, our hearts can be filled with anticipation for what the Lord has planned for us. By faith we place our trust in Him and that His plan is good, the best!

Let us not be doubters, but believe what the Word says. We can ask anything in His name and He will answer us according to His perfect will. That is best, because many things we might ask for are not good for us and could bring ruin. I often ask for something and then say, “Only Lord if this is your will.” Many times, the Lord has us wait, but in the waiting it is a chance for our faith to grow. I’m sure we can all think of an instance right now that we would like changed and for the Lord to open the door, but so far nothing has happened. It is in these very things we need faith to believe that God loves us and has a purpose, even though we may never understand.

Our hope is built on the Lord, and not that we get the specific answer to prayer that we would like. Wise King Solomon said to his son in Proverbs 3:5 (Amp), “Lean on, trust in, and be confident in the Lord with all your heart and mind and do not rely on your own insight or understanding. In all your ways know, recognize, and acknowledge Him, and He will direct and make straight and plain your paths.”

Maybe we have a loved one who lives in pain and we are praying for healing. “Lord, why don’t you answer now?” We may not understand His ways, but we pray in faith and hope. I love the story of the water-bearer who carried a pole on his shoulders with a large pot hanging from each end. One pot had a crack in it, and water dripped from it so when the water-bearer got to the house, it had only half of the water that was in the other pot. Of course, the cracked pot felt bad until shown that because of the water leaking out of his pot, there were beautiful wildflowers that grew up on the side of the path. Every day these seeds were watered, and now those flowers graced the Master’s table. We often don’t know how even our weaknesses may bring glory to the Lord.

Challenge for today: Let hope arise in your heart, even though at the present time you may feel weak, for your strength is in the Lord.
Blessings on your weekend and prayers and love, Judy

May 8, 2026

Dear Ones, Happy weekend to you! Hope you have time to relax and get refreshed. I plan to make Swedish meatballs and do other food prep. Your question this week is, Do you feel you are growing in your life with the Lord? Is it your desire to mature and be fruitful or do you feel like you are stagnant? What things seem to hold you back?
Devotions from Judy’s heart
Every morning as I have my quiet time with the Lord and write a daily devotion, I look out my window and see growth on the tree before me. What struck me one day was that I am like that tree, and my hope is that I am growing daily and not being stagnant in my Christian life. Not long ago, I noticed the branches on the bare tree started budding, and though it was barely perceptible at first, gradually I saw a little green begin to show. It wasn’t much, but definitely changing and I had hopes of what it would look like when it fully blooms.

When we are new Christians, we are grafted into the Vine which is Jesus and we become a new person. We begin to sprout, and are meant to mature and bear fruit. It doesn’t happen overnight, but gradually we receive the sunshine and rain, and changes start taking place. People around us may notice that our reactions are not the same as those of the old person we were. Then blossoms appear, and our family may notice we are caring and willing to serve others and not quick to get upset. More growth takes place, and the tree starts filling out and looking lush. This tree flowers with big white puffy flowers on the branches, that to me looks like a bridal bouquet. People walking by oh and ahh over its beauty. We might feel we are in the limelight with our new faith, but that phase doesn’t last forever. We come to realize that all glory goes to the Lord. Soon we are willing to decrease that He may increase. That is not always easy but the more we come to love the Lord, the more we realize it is not about us, but is all about Him.

The white flowery puffs give way to green leaves that blend together, appearing as one and providing shade for all who live here. It is a lesson to me as I see the phases of the tree before me, that I want to be continually growing in the Lord, welcoming new believers and blending into the Body of Christ, that we may become one beautiful tree that welcomes others to rest in its shade. Jesus said in John 15:5, “I am the Vine, you are the branches. When you’re joined with me and I with you, the relation intimate and organic, the harvest is sure to be abundant. Separated, you can’t produce a thing.”

Challenge for today: Live each day in close relationship to the Lord, and let Him produce fruit through you.
Blessings on your weekend and prayers and love, Judys

May 7, 2026

Dear Ones,
Hope you have a day of blessings. Al will soon be off to Men’s group and then he and I have an appointment this morning as our one on Tuesday was canceled. This afternoon is Bible study and we had a large group last week.
Devotions from Judy’s heart
I hope we all want to finish well and that demands perseverance all along the way. When we commit our lives to the Lord, it isn’t necessarily a one free of pain and suffering. In fact, we are promised we will go through trials and suffering for His sake, but the Lord promises we won’t have to walk alone but He sees us and will be right there by our side. I heard from many of you who gave a scripture that helped you go through some very challenging times.

It’s good to have some songs and Scripture verses committed to memory as they will be right there when we need them the most. The beloved disciple John’s said in I John 2:2, “And now, children, stay with Christ. Live deeply in Christ. Then you will be ready for Him when He appears, ready to receive Him with open arms, with no cause for red-faced guilt or lame excuses when He arrives.”

We have work to do as we wait for His coming but we want to be prepared. None of us knows what our personal future may hold and who in our family may go first. My childhood girlfriends and I got together many times in years past but back then we had no knowledge of what the future would hold. We didn’t know who would leave this world first but two of them are now in glory. Recently a joyful friend from our present Bible study class shared how ready she is to leave our world and be at home with the Lord. Until our Homecoming Day comes for each of us, may we ask for His guidance and strength for each day and that we would fall deeper into love with the Lord.

 Challenge for today: Be watchful as you wait for Jesus coming and keep your heart open and focused on Him.
Blessings on your day and prayers and love, Judy

May 6, 2026

Dear Ones,
May you be mindful of the Lord throughout your day. I plan to do food prep, go to exercise class, Crafts and later Bible Study. The Women’s Bible study yesterday was especially good and many new thoughts.
Devotions from Judy’s heart
What do we focus our minds and attention on during the day? What we think about will determine what kind of person we will become. If we think only about ourselves, our world becomes very small and we may become anxious or angry. But if our minds are on the Lord and our dependency on Him, our day will be one of peace. Like it says in Isaiah 26:3 “You will keep in perfect peace all who trust in you, all whose thoughts are fixed on you!”

Maybe we wake in the night and think of a presentation we have to give, and we start mulling over feelings of failure. What if we get questions we can’t answer, etc.? Soon we get anxious, and God is left out of our thoughts. How much better if we are aware of the Lord’s presence, ask for His wisdom and guidance, and thank Him that He will go before us and prepare the way!

We hear a lot about mindfulness today, and we need to be aware of what is happening in the moment. That means we pause, become still, listen and we are present. What helps us do this so we are more conscious of God’s presence with us?  First of all, we can pray before we even get out of our bed in the morning. Thank the Lord for the night and that He will be with us during the day. Then during the day, we can have conversations with Him as we drive to work, and any time during the day. We just lift short prayers, asking Him to direct our thinking even as we work. When we are home, we can meditate on Scripture and ruminate on what we read. Then as we reflect on it, ask the Lord to help us respond to it by seeking to do His will. He will tell us what we need to do next and give us power to carry it out.

Challenge for today: Start your day by fixing your thoughts on the Lord, and invite Him to direct your day.
Blessings on your day and prayers and love, Judy

May 5, 2026

Dear Ones,
Hope you have a great day. Al and I have an appointment this morning and if we are done in time I plan to go to Women’s Bible study. This afternoon we are invited to friends for coffee and fellowship. Emoji
Devotions from Judy’s heart
How is your responsibility button? Do you feel like you need to keep the peace and take responsibility for others? An article from Elijah House addresses the problem of feeling responsible to take on burdens of others and attempt to fix things for them, but that is not our role. We were never meant to hold things together, for that is God’s job and not our burden to carry. We have only a limited view of what will help others; God is the one who sees the whole picture and has the power to carry what is too heavy for us.

We are to love others, listen to them, pray for them and show kindness, but not to the point of taking control and losing ourselves with the weight of their burdens. If we are weary from feeling like that was our responsibility, then the Lord wants to lift that burden from us and set us free. Many children feel that their world at home is unstable and ready to fall apart, so they step into a role of keeping the peace and trying to fix things. But that burden is too heavy as that is the place only the Lord can hold.

If this was a pattern in our life, that we felt it was up to us to hold everyone together, then it is time to get released from it. God wants to free us and give it all to Him. Peter said in I Peter 5:7, “Casting the whole of our care (all your anxieties, all your worries, all your concerns, once and for all) on Him, for He cares for you affectionately and cares about you watchfully.” We can trust Him with the care of others and the weight of their problems, and know that He is sufficient, He is the One who holds it all together, and not us. Let us release the weight of those burdens to Him, love others and pray for them, and trust the Lord to fix what needs fixing.

Challenge for today: Give the burden of your loved ones to the Lord, and faithfully pray knowing that He cares for them more than you do.
Blessings on your day and prayers and love, Judy

I Just Want To Go Home

At the recent White House Correspondents Dinner, there was an assassination attempt on our President.  The gunmen never made it into the actually ballroom in an attempt to kill the President,  but was thankfully stopped before he could have caused harm.  It created a lot of fear, confusion and anxiety among those in attendance. 

I was struck by the response of Charlie Kirk’s widow, Erica.  She was overheard on a live mike, “I just want to go home.”  This  framed for me what has lead up to this moment in the history of our nation.  Civility is fractured today.  I have personally  committed myself to speaking in a civil and dignified manner in any public discourse I am involved in with those of a different opinion.  Civility in our speech can help change our present wilderness into a safe and secure place – more like home we all long for.  

Robert George, a Harvard law professor said the following in the aftermath of the assassination attempt. “Please, can everyone, right or left, MAGA or anti-MAGA, Republican or Democrat, stop catastrophizing and  trying to get everyone on your side worked up into a rage? ……..Our fellow citizens with whom we disagree are not devils or incarnate or personifications of evil.  We need to argue with our political adversaries – passionately perhaps – but with respect for their humanity and dignity.  We don’t need to destroy them.”

In the days to come, the rhetoric could very well become more heated and destructive in relationships, even within families.  As followers of Jesus, we have a firm place to stand.  It is Jesus, His Word and His kingdom, expressed clearly in Jesus’ words to Pontius Pilate.  “You say I am a king.  Actually, I was born and came into the world to testify to the truth.  All who love the truth recognize that what I say is true.” (John 18:37).  We have “Good News” for our confused and anxious nation.  It is all about Jesus and His kingdom. 

Eric’s deeply felt sigh of wanting to go home is a great metaphor for our nation at this time. Here are some of my reflection on “home” for all who live in this land.

First, the longing for home is innate to every human being.  God made us for fellowship with him.  Ever since the garden, man has longed for home.   Jesus tells us, “My Father, will love them, and we will come to them and make our home with them.” (John 14:23)  

Secondly, our world is a fearful and dreadful place. God calls us sheep.  We are dependent and vulnerable.  Jesus is the Good Shepherd.  He warns us, “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy: I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.” (John 10:10).  Jesus will keep us safe in this uncertain time.

Thirdly, as darkness descends on our nation,  the Christian has absolute confidence of being home in the arms of the Good Shepherd.  This is wonderful “good news.”  Jesus knocks at the door, “If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with that person and they with me.” (Rev 3:20).  

Fourthly, I want to live out the last days of my life, pointing people to the Good Shepherd.  It is a great time to share His story.  Many feel  abandoned and far from home.   Jesus in response is accused of welcoming sinners and eating with them, He is acting as the shepherd, who goes out to find the one lost sheep.  The shepherd celebrates in find the lost sheep.  “Rejoice with me; I have found my lost sheep.” (Luke 15:6). 

May 4, 2026

Dear Ones, Hope you had a great weekend. Weather was so beautiful!  We had reception for new members at church yesterday and more added to our church family.
Devotions from Judys heart
Perhaps we are all in denial to a certain degree, even though we are willing to deal with some obvious things in our lives. We may give those things to the Lord and actually not do them anymore, but there can be baggage left behind like our negative thought patterns, pride, defensiveness or self-pity. We can’t deal with the weeds all at once in our lives, as it is like tearing up our whole garden. God shows us where we have need to change and knows what we are ready for. If we deal with those things, He is gracious to show us more.

Let us understand that God is not just wanting to deal with wrongs we have done, but wants to help us with what is really going on underneath in our thoughts, feelings and attitude. We may say we forgive someone, yet wish something terrible would happen to them to teach them a lesson, rather than praying for them to find the Lord. Our words often say one thing, but our thoughts and feelings may be those of judgment and even hate.

John Ortberg writes some helpful things that can help set us free to live in forgiveness, and begins by telling us to make a list of those we have hurt in an emotional sense, spiritually, physically or financially. Then we ask, how can God help us repair the damage so bitterness doesn’t grow in our own heart. Of course, we would rather make the list of those who have hurt us! But we are responsible only for ourselves and our hurtful words, etc. and must be willing to make things right, as we try to see our behavior through the eyes of the other. It helps to follow through by naming what we did, and give decisional forgiveness that agrees to not get even or hold their mistakes against them. When we put ourself in their place, we can better understand the situation from their perspective. Then Ortberg suggests offering forgiveness as a gift from the heart, for they are another person for whom Jesus died. In the long run, we may even see this situation helped us grow.

Challenge for today: Think of someone who hurt you and put yourself in their shoes, then ask the Lord to help you forgive them from your heart, even as He has forgiven you.
Blessings on your week and prayers and love, Judy

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