Canaan's Rest

Canaan’s Rest represents a quiet place “set apart” for the purpose of hearing God's voice, growing in intimacy with the Lord, and being renewed in soul and spirit.

June 30, 2026

Dear Ones, Hope you have a good day and keep cool on this hot day. More warm weather expected for the holiday weekend. I am planning to bake early this morning!!
Devotions from Judy’s heart
The question is often asked today by parents of how they can disciple their children in this busy and electronic filled world today. It seems like there are so many soccer games or basketball practices to take the them to, church functions, work related projects etc. that leave parents feeling overwhelmed and maybe guilty too. When do they have time to teach them how to be a Christ follower? I do believe it is harder today than when we raised our 3 children. We ate meals together and had family devotions after supper together, had family night once a week to do special things, and actually talked in the car while we taxied them. Today meals are often eaten on the way to practice and schedules are filled to exhaustion. What can be done? For some it may be a simple start to have everyone turn off their phones when traveling to a game and share together while listening to Christian music.

First of all, none of us are 100%qualified to disciple our kids but the Lord will equip us and give us wisdom and we need only to ask. The church can be a wonderful support and it helps to be surrounded by a faithful community. Most churches have resources for families with books for family devotions and discussions, podcasts, programs for the youth, Sunday school, youth programs, Bible Camp. There are many great books to help us with questions and problems that arise and hopefully groups where we can discuss them with others who have navigated what we are going through.

I read an article by Abby Perry who had some good words to help parents as she encourages connecting generations at home and at church. Some churches have a meal together once a week which involves all ages. There are summer family camps and mission trips where old and young are serving together. A teen may sometimes feel more likely to share his struggles with the youth director or someone older in the church. Growth often takes place as people are in community with those older and younger and are walking with the Lord.

Challenge for today: Ask the Lord to help you disciple those under your care but openness to help others and being helped.
Blessings on your day and prayers and love, Judy

The Aimless Generation

As an “old timer,” I was moved by an article in Public Discourse written by Matthew Malec, who is of Gen. Z.   He wants the older generation to know, “Many in Gen Z don’t know what it means to win in life.  As a result  many just want to survive or escape.”  He goes on to say, “Gen Z is crying out for help in a world where traditional structures are crumbling and nothing has filled the void.  Gen Z is anxious, uncertain, and looking for something to cling to.  Show us happy marriages, rooted friendships, and the way, truth and life (John 14:6).  We were made for higher things. Show us it’s still possible to reach for them.”  

Wow!  This is coming from a young man, who is in the process of becoming a lawyer.  “We are not lazy or intentionally aimless.” He is crying out for direction. “We need to know what it means to win at life and to be supported by communities that give us a meaningful chance to do so.  This requires understanding the unique challenges we face and responding with novel solutions.” 

Malec observes “young people face collapse in three areas that older generations often take for granted.”  If older mentors are to be of help, “they must understand how the world has changed and why traditional advice often falls short.”  He acknowledges that Gen Z is responsible for its choices,  but, “many of the tools and signposts that guided earlier generations are now missing.”  Older guides are needed to point the way. 

His advice is clear. “Place an intense focus on cultivating real-world community and spaces for social interaction, don’t be afraid to try to pair people up, and most importantly, be bold in faith and show people how amazing God is, both through your words and through the life that you live in an attempt to reflect his glory.” He suggests three areas of focus: 1) shared metaphysical traditions, 2) real-world friendships and 3) family life as a normative good.

How can I point the way in the modern wilderness, taking into account the radical cultural change?

First, the spiritual component.  “Many search for meaning through an obsession with left-wing politics or embracing the ‘manosphere.’  Others simply opt out of society entirely, feeling like utter failures with no chance to turn things around.”  As a senior, who has found my affirmation as a man in Christ, I need to point other males of the Gen Z generation to the Lordship of Jesus.  Jesus is the same yesterday, today and forever. 

Secondly, friendships. Malec observes, “how starved my generation is of real community.”  His advice, “have patience with young people who are trying to put themselves out there and give them opportunities for real-world socialization.” I need to intentionally cultivate relationship with young men,  inviting them into the fellowship of their elders.  Above all, I need to be welcoming and accepting of those in Gen Z.

Thirdly, Malec believes, “Gen Z is struggling mightily as it relates to dating, marriage, and the family.  Here, the lack of traditional guardrails and the cesspool that is the modern internet work together to make family formation harder that ever.”  Those in Gen Z needs to experience traditional morality expressed in a healthy marriage and family life.  Above all, I need to see my marriage, which is a work in progress, as an example of what God has intended for men.  I need to remember, the witness of Judy and I together speaks almost prophetically in today’s confused social landscape.

“Let this be recorded for future generations, so that a people not yet born will praise the Lord” (Ps 102:18)  

 

June 29, 2026

Dear Ones, Hope you had a good weekend. Warm days are ahead this week but also lots of celebrating as the 4th is soon here. Today I am going to Aldi’s and no wound care today as the paramedic is out of town.

Devotions from Judy’s heart
Don’t we all love to be around humble people who are open and don’t think their way is the only way? Humility is beautiful for it shows strength of character with a willingness to listen, and to learn and to grow. Pride, on the other hand, shows up in unteachableness, defensiveness and a puffed-up ego. The Lord hates pride! James 4:6 says, “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.” Even a stronger word is given in Proverbs 16:5, “Everyone who is arrogant in heart is an abomination to the Lord; be assured he will not go unpunished.” We may think that pride is not a serious sin, but God sees it differently. And wasn’t it pride that the Devil fell from his heavenly angelic place?
If we think of sins in our own lives, it seems like they all go back to pride at the root. We may envy someone but we think we deserve even more than them. We complain of hard circumstances and forget that we are owed nothing for Jesus paid the ultimate price to rescue us. If we have a disagreement, we feel certain it is the fault of the other person, rather than searching our own heart.
Pride is not pretty but rather stinky!! It tries to hide and mask itself as something good. But when we look closer we realize that it is not rooted in love but in selfishness, defensiveness and fear. The Word has so much to say about our need for humility and warns us against pride. Pride certainly hinders good relationships with others and is defensive and not open to correction.
Humility, on the other hand, is so beautiful as it reveals those who know they are loved and chosen and don’t have to prove their worth. They are at home with themselves, and when they make mistakes, they thank the Lord for His grace of forgiveness.

Challenge for today: Ask the Lord to show you the places that pride is hindering your relationship with Him and with others.
Blessings on your week and prayers and love, Judy

June 27, 2026

Devotions from Judy’s heart

I would surmise that most of us don’t like suffering of any kind and would like a trouble-free life. But that is not possible for all of us will go through painful times, struggles and hardships. The key question we can ask ourselves, is how well do we do when suffering comes into our life? I was reading an article by Joy-Ann Wood who shares how Paul writes to Timothy, his spiritual son, and exhorts him to be courageous in suffering and uses the examples of a soldier, an athlete and a farmer from II Tim 2:3-7. He starts out by saying, ”Share in sufferings as a good soldier of Jesus.”

If we were in the military we would want to be strong and not distracted given our assignment. If we are an athlete, we would want to be disciplined and focused on the goal and training well. If we were a farmer we would be hard working and willing to toil in the heat and deal with the weeds etc. In other words, Paul is saying to keep focused, work hard and endure suffering courageously.

I must admit I am not excited about suffering but I am seeing more and more the benefits of suffering. As you all know, I fell and have been dealing with my injured leg and often have to go to a wound specialist at the hospital. I am excited to go in one sense, as she surveys my wound and knows exactly what to do to help it heal. But I also know when she debrides it, and removes the old dried blood and skin with several kinds of instruments, it hurts! Sometimes I close my eyes and just pray. All the while she is doing it I know it is for my good and so I thank her and call her my angel. I am thankful she is very observant and knows what to look for and detected that I had a staph infection. She gave me the necessary antibiotic and although I could have rejected her advice it would not be wise to do that or I would only have become more sick and not heal.

The last time I was there, the picture came to me of how our Great Physician is our healer, and we need to be willing to go to Him for help. Sometimes it is something very big but even in the little things that cause pain, He is the one we need to go to. If we reject his ways and don’t receive His help, we will only become sicker and deeper in despair. Yes, it may hurt initially, but in the long run it is healing. We are not to let things go, but to quickly run to Him for help.

Challenge for today: Thank the Lord when going through suffering that He is bringing healing and restoration to you, and follow His instructions.

 

June 27,2026

Dear Ones,
Hope you have a great weekend! We had a full house for the Birthday party yesterday. Today is cleaning day and Al and I will be working together to shape up the apartment.
Devotions from Judy’s heart
I believe our hearts long for wholeness, for we are made for God and made to love. We see so many books in the bookstore or online about healing and wholeness. For our physical health, we are apt to pop vitamins in our mouth, walk ten thousand steps a day, and go to the gym, but what about our souls? How can we live as God’s children, lives that are holy and whole? God is only too happy to correct us when needed, to guide us, and to heal us. He wants to restore us and transform our character to be like Him. Paul writes in a letter to the Christians of Ephesus, “Long before He laid down earth’s foundations God had us in mind, and settled on us as the focus of His love to be made whole and holy with His love.” (Eph. 1:4)
How many of us feel holy and whole? In ourselves we are anything but holy, and we can’t be whole without being holy. Would our driving habits exhibit that we are holy? How about our response when someone has stormed us with their political views? John Eldredge wrote, “He makes us whole by making us holy. He makes us holy by making us whole.” It’s in the Lord that we come to know who we are and can live lives of purpose. The Lord wants to restore us and heal those broken parts of us. He desires that we have far more than correct doctrine, for He wants intimacy with us.
How do we want to be known? Would we be called the cantankerous one or the loving one? The impatient one or the kind one? The stingy one or the giving one? We can fake things for a while, but that is shallow holiness and eventually what is inside is seen. Holiness is a matter of our hearts and the Lord knows what is going on inside of us. He wants to transform our lives, heal our souls and make us ever more like Him.
Challenge for today: Be honest with the Lord about your motives and ask Him to make you holy and whole.
Blessings on your weekend and prayers and love, Judy

June 26, 2026

Dear Ones,
 Hope you have a great weekend! We have party day here today and Ann also plans to stop by. We had a big group for Bible study yesterday and it was good to be back again.

Devotions from Judy’s heart,
I believe our hearts long for wholeness for we are made for God and made to love. We see so many books in the bookstore or online about healing and wholeness. Physically we are apt to pop vitamins in our mouth, walk 10,000 steps a day and go to the gym but what about our souls. How can we live as God’s child and a life that is holy and whole. God is only too happy to correct us when needed, to guide us and to heal us. He wants to restore us and transform our character to be like Him. Paul writes in a letter to the Christians in Ephesus and he says, “Long before He laid down earth’s foundations God had us in mind, and settled on us as the focus of His love to be made whole and holy with His love.” (Eph. 1:4)

How many of us feel holy and whole? In ourselves we are anything but holy, and we can’t be whole without being holy. Would our driving habits exhibit that we are holy? How about our response when someone has stormed us with their political views. I read a book by John Eldredge and he said, “He makes us whole by making us holy. He makes us holy by making us whole.” It’s in the Lord that we come to know who we are and can live lives of purpose. The Lord wants to restore us and heal those broken parts of us. He desires that we have far more than correct doctrine for He wants intimacy with us.

How do we want to be known? Would we be called the cantankerous one or the loving one? The impatient one or the kind one? The stingy one or the giving one? We can fake things for a while but that is shallow holiness and eventually the inside of our cup is seen. Holiness is a matter of our hearts and the Lord knows what is going on inside of us. He wants to transform our lives and heal our souls and make us ever more like Him.

Challenge for today: Be honest with the Lord about your motives and ask Him to make you holy and whole.
Blessings on your weekend and prayers and love, Judy

June 25, 2026

Dear Ones, Hope your day is full of wisdom. We have Bible study here today and it is also Donut Day. I hope to get some food prep done and catching up. I had a good report yesterday from the wound specialist and am so grateful!
Devotions from Judy’s heart
Haven’t we all wanted to be a person of wisdom, knowing what to do in situations and responding in the right ways? King Solomon had a dream and God said, “Ask what I shall give you.” He asked God for wisdom to govern the people and was given great wisdom. God was very pleased with his request and he became the wisest man ever. He applied that wisdom during most of his reign, but sadly in his last years his heart was not fully given to the Lord. Something we all need to guard against for we can start out well, but then give out.
There are those that have a lot of knowledge, but wisdom is putting that knowledge into practice and doing the right thing. What good is it if we have knowledge, but don’t follow through and act in the right way? It is easier said than done! Most of the time we don’t actually lack the knowledge of the truth of what we know we should do, but we fail to live it out. What good is that? James said in James 1:22, “But be doers of the Word and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.” The Message translation says, “Don’t fool yourself into thinking that you are a listener when you are anything but, letting the Word go in one ear and out the other. Act on what you hear!”
Of course, there may be times we aren’t sure what to do, and it may help to think of what you would tell someone else if they were in your situation. It may become clearer to us, and we see our need to do the very thing that is hard but right. It has helped me to be accountable to a friend about my desire to spend quiet time in stillness before the Lord each morning before I get into my work routine. Since I have done that, it has helped me to be faithful daily. Do whatever works for you, but don’t stop part way in just knowing what you should do, but actually do it.
Challenge for today: Ask the Lord for wisdom to know what is the right thing, and then follow through by doing it.
Blessings on your day and prayers and love, Judy

June 24, 2026

Dear Ones,
Hope you have a blessed day. Al will be off to men’s group and in home in time to go with me to the wound specialist. My wound feels better so am hoping the infection is taken care of.
Devotions from Judy’s heart
Haven’t we all been guilty of presumption? We presume to know what is best, what God may do next, what puts us in the limelight, etc. Sometimes it is in jest, but sometimes it is a matter of putting ourselves first. I read today from Mark 10:35-45, where James and John presumptuously asked Jesus to sit on his right and left hand in glory. Jesus answers cuts through their less-than-humble question saying, “But whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant and whoever wishes to be first among you must be slave of all. For the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give His life as a ransom for many.” That was not the response they were expecting or wanting.

I have a humorous example to share as our son’s family was recently here for ten days, and we had games and fun family times. At the beginning of their stay at a rental on the lake, I told them there would be a cash prize for the one who caught the biggest fish. That got their attention, and each day they spent time out on a huge pontoon boat catching fish. When the first large fish was caught, it caused some hope to fade that others would be able to top it. For a while our grandson was leading, but then our son got a bigger one, and in a jesting pompous way bragged that he would get the prize. He teased and walked around like a king pin and as if he had already won it, but I reminded the rest that they still all had a chance to win. Well, early on the final morning I got picture on my phone of our youngest grandson, A.J., with a big smile on his face and holding up his huge northern. On his second cast he thought his lure was caught in the weeds, but instead he hooked the giant fish. I couldn’t believe it. He beat his dad and was the winner and awarded $50. The rest got smaller prizes for participating, but presumption did not win.

Pride and presumption will not win in our lives either, for Jesus calls us to a life of humility and self-sacrifice, seeking the good of others.

Challenge for today: Ask the Lord to help you put Him first, others second, and yourself last.
Blessings on your day and prayers and love, Judy

June 23, 2026

Dear Ones, Hope you have a wonderful day. Last night was our last night to see Mark’s family before they go back home to N.C. We have had a wonderful 10 days with them and lots of sharing, games, meals together and we will miss them. I do already!  Today we are invited to friends for coffee and fellowship!
Devotions from Judy’s heart
Friendships are important in our lives, and if we have all the money in the world but have no friends, we are poor. Since our family has moved around as a clergy family, we have friends in different parts of the country who remain good friends for life. I am always excited when we go to see Kurt’s family, as we also stop on our way to Kansas so I can have lunch with a friend that I see only a couple times a year. I look forward to those times, counting the days and always go away from time together with a full heart.

Recently, I read what Jamon Guinasso had to say about friendship with the Lord. He doesn’t mean calling on the Lord only when we have a crisis or some specific need when we want His help, but treasuring His friendship all the time. In other words, we want His friendship more than the outcome for us. We know Moses spoke with God face to face, and Abraham was called a friend of God three times in the Bible. In James 2:23 it says,” And Abraham believed God, and it was reckoned unto him for righteousness; And he was called the friend of God.” Jesus had many names given him: He is our Savior, Lord, Prince of peace, Wonderful, Counselor, etc. We have a wall hanging given us by our congregation in Brunswick on our thirty-fifth wedding anniversary. Since then, it has accompanied us on all of our moves and hangs in our living room now. I often look at it as Al and I meet together for prayer on the sofa each morning. I am reminded of the Lord’s greatness, and yet He desires friendship with us.

Abraham built altars in pivotal places where God spoke to him as a mark of God’s nearness and friendship. We most likely will not make an altar, but Guinasso suggests recording in a journal the times God has met with us. If asked who we are, may we say with deep conviction, “I am a friend of God!!”

Challenge for today: Spend time with the Lord talking to Him throughout your day as your best friend.
Blessings on your day and prayers and love, Judy

The Quarter-zip Pullover

As a senior man, I do not pay much attention to fashion trends among men.  My wife can attest to the fact that my church wardrobe is out of style.  However, I was struck by an article at Breakpoint that got my attention.  I felt like it was worthy of a blog.  The “quarter-zip” pullover seems to be a popular choice for young men these days. Its popularity is a surprise happening.  “This preppy compromise between a hoody and a sportscoat has swept across social, racial, and cultural spectrums, from urban epicenters to college campuses.  It has even generated an unusual amount of media coverage and analysis.”

USA Today is quoted as saying, “[P]eople engaged with the quarter-zip’s popularity say it goes beyond just trends and clothes – it’s a lifestyle that reflects a commitment to sophistication.”  I thought it was interesting how the authors, John Stonestreet and Timothy Padgett, see in this popularity pointing to a trend of  young men coming back to the church.  “It is as if they want something to challenge them,” note the authors.  

The article goes on to say, “It seems as if a significant number of young men, sick of the meaninglessness of low expectations and infinite distraction, are looking for something else……Having been told for so long that they are what’s wrong with the world, that all masculinity is “toxic” and the “future is female,” they’re looking for answers in not all the wrong places.”

While rejecting the shallowness found in our culture, many young men are turning to modern forms of “Nietzschean nihilism,” found especially in the growth of “white supremacist groyper influencers,”  along with radical Islam and various expressions of woman-hating misogyny.  The article encourages us to celebrate quarter-zips as possible evidence of new counterculture.  “It would be strange,” observes the article, “if the icon of the cultural rebel went from white t-shirts with cigarettes in rolled-up sleeves to sagging, baggy pants to quarter zips.”  I especially appreciate the authors hopeful observation regarding the trend.  “But for young men recovering from “Peter Pan Syndrome” – who are done with being the “lost boys of the West” – a new kind of rebellion is overdue.”  

I for one, know very little about trends in men’s apparel.   But the fact that Breakpoint has now alerted me to the possible correlation of a fashion trend and young men being  open to the gospel, I will be alert to this possibility.  As an “old timer” I can bring a longer view on clothing trends.  As a teenager in the 50’s I was a full blown Elvis Presley fan.  I had to white suede shoes and bright colored pants, along with the proper hairstyle.  I want to be “in.”  I attempting to made a statement. I had no identity or purpose in my life.  Being self conscious, to dress in the latest fad was important to me.  Then after high school I found the Lord Jesus out in California. It totally reorientated my life at 18 years of age.   

I slowly came to know my identity was in Christ.  “My old self has been crucified with Christ.  It is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me” (Gal. 2:20).  Being a “people-pleasing” person I have had many struggles being a faithful follower of Jesus.  I am eternally grateful, knowing in my heart, that God loves me in “my stink” and that he delights in me as his son.  After over 60 years of following Jesus, along with Peter, I can say, “Lord, to whom would we go? You have the words that give eternal life.  We believe, and we know you are the Holy One of God” ( John 6:68). 

 

 

 

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