“In answer to your question, one of the very first individuals that comes to mind about self-sacrifice is my oldest sister Ruth. She took on an enormous weight of responsibility when our mom was going through cancer treatments for the first time in 2001. Ruth sacrificed her childhood to care for an ill mother and 7 younger siblings.
She cooked, cleaned, and cared for us younger siblings. She was a young adult being in a parent role at the age of 16. It was a weight she should not have had to carry all by herself, but she did a great job, not perfect, but she did it to the best of her abilities. Even coming to care for our Mom when we could no longer care for her needs at home, Ruth and her husband Martin drove from Alaska to MN to help mom transition to a care facility and help clean and sell her home as required by the state to cover her facility costs.
The name Ruth means beautiful friend and that is who my sister Ruth is! She loves like Jesus and goes the extra mile. She is prayerful and her children already love the Lord by the example of Him they see in their mom.
I am doubly blessed to have a sister in the Lord who is also my biological sister. All the memories of childhood intermingled with the valleys and mountaintops of our faith in Jesus makes our bond so much dearer and stronger than most relationships I have. When I look at my sister Ruthie, I see a beautiful friend, a prayer warrior, and an example of a true follower in our Lord Jesus!! She laid aside her life to serve our mom and us younger children, and I am so grateful for her friendship in this life!”
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