Devotions from Mark McMinn’s book,  Finding Our Way Home

All of us have been wounded by others and we have done our share of wounding also. Some would tell us to forget about it, to put the past behind us. But the path to peace and forgiveness is not found through forgetting, but through remembering. Henri Nouwen writes, “If God is found in our hard times, then all of life, no matter how apparently insignificant or difficult, can open us to God’s work among us. To be grateful does not mean repressing our remembered hurts. But as we come to God with our hurts-honestly, not superficially-something life changing can begin slowly to happen. We discover how God is the one who invites us to healing. We realize that any dance of celebration must weave both the sorrows and the blessings into joyful step.

Forgiveness is never easy when the pain runs deep.

The first step in forgiveness is to deliberately recall the hurt and feel the wound and the pain, all the  time acknowledging our anger. Pain opens us up if we stop and listen to it. As we remember the incarnation and realize all that Jesus went through, we know that He understands every throb of our broken hearts. He is with us and turns us toward healing and hope.

“Our greatest health-physically, spiritually, relationally, and emotionally comes from unpacking the satchel and choosing to remember, inviting God to be with us in our pain, honestly looking at our own shortcomings as we consider how others have failed us, and ultimately releasing the pain by forgiving those who have wounded us. The process of forgiving and remembering may take a long time, but it leads to Shalom.”

Devotions from Mark McMinn’s book, Finding Our Way Home

Each of us is individually valued by God. God views us collectively but also individually as He knows and understands each of us.

He knows every doubt, every longing, and every fear we have.  He is not shocked by our behavior. Because He knows and understands then we can live authentically with one another too.  We can struggle together in honest relationship, and together look at the messes and struggles of the pain of life and death.
Each of us wants to be loved, to be the apple of someone’s eye. God’s love is at the center of everything, and the rest of these expressions are just ripples of the greatest love of all.

Fear is the enemy of love and we try to be good enough to earn love. Fear prevents us from being authentic with one another, blocking us from the depth of pure love.
He invites us to leave our fears behind and grasp the truth that we already have a home in Him.

Devotions from Mark McMinn’s book, Finding  Our Way Home

God remembers us first, even before we can utter our first words or cry for help. He knows and cares about our struggles, celebrates our victories and grieves our sorrows and holds us in his arms of love.

God knows us by name and chooses to love us.  He not only remembers us but bursts into human form, and lives with us-Emmanuel whose birth we just celebrated. 

In the incarnation, God becomes someone who can be touched and whose touch can heal. He wants to soothe and heal the sicknesses of our soul.

Because we see His utter love and care that God showed in living with us on this earth, we can reach out to others in their pain with His love.

 Everyone of us is His priceless masterpiece. We are noticed and have His attention, and can never lose it.
Let us carry that thought with us today and it will change how we perceive all that comes our way.

Devotions from Mark McMinn’s book, Finding Our Way Home

Spiritual remembering often gets lost with the routine of daily life. As we go to bed at night, we may find we forgot to remember God in the midst of our life’s daily demands. We can get caught up in schedules, expectations of others, without stopping to reflect on the most important matters of life. 
The spiritual life calls us to slow down and create space to remember God in the midst of our lives. We become deeper, more reflective when we contemplate, sit still, pray, meditate or just take a nap. All these practices help us slow down and become more present to God, ourselves, and each other. The antidote to our superficiality is not to do more but in doing less and finding our spiritual center in the midst of life’s busyness.

The world tells us to speed up and step up and keep up. God whispers an invitation to slow down, to sit down, to center, to remember, to be bathed in grace and love, and to keep Him close to the core of our lives.

Jesus came to bring abundant life; we find abundance not by doing more things but by resting in the center of God’s love.
We have very little control over what happens in our lives, but we have a lot of control over hoe we integrate and remember what happens.

Let us remember God who is always with us and always will be!

Today rather than thoughts from a book for a devotional , I just want to share a thought that came to me.   On cold winter nights we gradually let the fire die before we go to bed so we don’t get too hot during the night. It use to be when I got  up in the morning the house was pretty cold and I had to often use a fire starter to get a roaring fire going. But one time when I got up in the wee hours of the morning, I decided to put a log into the stove where it just settled in and gathered embers. Then when I got up in the morning it took only a second for it to ignite when I opened up the draft. Before I knew it, I had a crackling, warm fire. I wonder if sometimes we feel like we don’t really make a difference or that we don’t have a lot to offer the Body of Christ. Maybe we are in a place where there are luke- warm Christians or where they have been turned off completely to the Lord. But we do make a difference!   As that one log laid there gathering up coals and embers, it was ready to ignite other logs when I put them in. It was just what was needed to get the fire going..

It reminds me of the old song, “It only takes a spark to get a fire going…and soon all those around will warm up in its glowing. That’s how it is with God’s love, once you’ve experienced.”
May we be that spark that helps others to know His love and warms their hearts.

A blessed Christmas! It may not see that this devotional is appropriate for  Christmas but perhaps it is since most of us will be with relatives and reviewing past experiences.

Devotions from Mark McMinn’s book  Finding Our Way Home

Today’s devotional is on looking back. As we do that we begin to see patterns. Yesterday’s roles get replayed in today’s relationships. None of us was loved perfectly and we need to forgive others but also to be forgiven.

We often confuse the limited human love we’ve known with the limitless love God offers us. We can look at our old “scripts” and evaluate them only after we discover them. It is important to recall the painful things of the past so we can learn to free ourselves from their grip, and to turn our pains and struggles over to God. As we look back we are put in touch with our stories and it helps us connect the past and present, allowing us to disentangle today from the scripts of yesterday. It frees us to face an uncertain future with self-awareness and confidence.

One of the most important things we can do is to build bridges of reflection and continuity between the past and the present. If we do this well, it draws us close to others.

“We can choose to turn humbly in the direction of the past to find meaning in the present and hope for the future.”

In remembering, we create space for God to meet us in our journey, and we allow our lives to be centered in the security of God’s love.

Devotions from Mark McMinn’s book, Finding Our Way Home

In our human relationships we see a mirror of God who is divinely relational. We instinctively reach out to build families and friendships because” we have God’s joy in our blood.”

If it were not for God’s love we would be forever stuck in the vicious cycle of looking for love in all the wrong places.  But in His presence we are surrounded by hope for He is always loving us and creating a desire in us for home.

“Home is not merely and inner state of peace but a relationship of secure love with a transcendent God who loves us first, pursues us, draws us close.”

We can rest in the embrace of a loving God. The world is a broken place and we struggle but with God’s help we keep on the journey and He is able to turn our mourning into dancing.

May we find time to sit quietly and listen to “home” calling.

Devotions from Mark McMinn’s book, Finding Our Way Home

There is a rhythm to life of venturing out in an unpredictable world, being footloose, and then coming home to safety and comfort. 

When we try to insulate ourselves with a predictable life, our plans invariably fail because life is not predictable.. We cannot know what will happen tomorrow. IF we fail to see life as adventure, then we are going to  be disappointed.

The unpredictable life may have losses but it also brings spontaneous joy and good things.

We are looking for something deeper than we know. If we set aside the clutter of life and quiet ourselves long enough to hear the rhythm of our souls, we will see that we are searching for something deeper than a promotion, something richer than more material possessions or more entertainment etc.

Deep in our being we are called to settle back into a place of secure love. None of us have seen God, yet we are called by the promise of secure love into a relationship with the Divine.

We are frail and sinful and often fall down, but each time we choose to give up or to struggle back to our feet and head toward home, toward God, once again.

God always welcomes us home with open arms, regardless of the paths we have traveled …He just wants us home!.