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We may want to ask the Lord for some specific ways we might put Him first and draw closer to Him. Many of you responded with a specific word for the year such as Quiet, Stillness, Silence, Authenticity, Truth, Focus, Study, Restoration, Deep, Trust, Reorganization, Rekindle etc. Each one of us can ask the Lord to show us how we can grow and keep on track. King Solomon says in Proverbs 3 to take to heart what God has told us so we can live a long full life well. Then goes on to say, “Trust God from the bottom of your heart; don’t try to figure out everything on your own. Listen for God’s voice in everything you do, everywhere you go… Don’t assume that you know it all. Run to God! Run from evil!…Honor God with everything you own; give Him the first and the best.”
One of the ways I believe the Lord is prompting me is to fast at certain times. Years ago, Al and I fasted every Tuesday but it’s been a long while since I have done that. Maybe the Lord is suggesting to you to give more, to show hospitality, to memorize scripture, to have a sabbath rest, etc. Let us be open to whatever He shows us so we may live well, with purpose and with eternity in mind!
We may want to ask the Lord for some specific ways we might put Him first and draw closer to Him. Many of you responded with a specific word for the year such as Quiet, Stillness, Silence, Authenticity, Restoration, Deep, Trust, Reorganization, Gratitude, etc. Each one of us can ask the Lord to show us how we can grow and keep on track. King Solomon says in Proverbs 3 to take to heart what God has told us so we can live a long full life well. Then goes on to say, “Trust God from the bottom of your heart; don’t try to figure out everything on your own. Listen for God’s voice in everything you do, everywhere you go… Don’t assume that you know it all. Run to God! Run from evil!…Honor God with everything you own; give Him the first and the best.”
One of the ways I believe the Lord is prompting me is to fast at certain times. Years ago, Al and I fasted every Tuesday but it’s been a long while since I have done that. Maybe the Lord is suggesting to you to give more, to show hospitality, to memorize scripture, to have a sabbath rest, etc. Let us be open to whatever He shows us so we may live well, with purpose and with eternity in mind!
I have found Anthony Bradley to have keen insights on the struggle of men in our culture. He has recently published a study in Exodus. In a recent blog he notes, “In the grand spiritual war against God’s people, the enemy’s strategy is both ancient and terrifyingly consistent: to dismantle the Church, and attacks its men. This is a demonic tactic, aimed at severing covenant confidence, breaking the chain of leadership, and leaving God’s people exposed and defenseless.” Bradley goes on to argues, “the life of Moses, detailed in Exodus, serves as the ultimate case study, revealing the mechanics of this demonic assault and more importantly God’s powerful counter-strategy for forging the kind of faithful manhood that can withstand it.”
His use of Exodus has been informative. “The assault begins with Pharaoh’s decree to kill all Hebrew male infants, an act of political brutality that is at its core a spiritual objective,” observes Bradley. “The devil, seeking to prevent the rise of a prophesied deliverer, finds a willing partner in a ruler consumed by what psychoanalyst Karen Horney identified as ‘neurotic pride.'” Neurotic pride exposes Pharoah as being vulnerable, causing him to response in rage. This psychological fragility is called by scholar R.J. Rummel, “democide:” the murder of a people by their own government.
Bradley maintains, “centuries later, the devil’s playbook is run again with chilling precision. When King Herod hears of the birth of a rival ‘king of the Jews,’ the same neurotic pride is wounded. His response is the identical demonic strategy: kill the boys of Bethlehem to eliminate the infant Christ ( Matt 1:18-2:23). This recurring pattern confirms a demonic agenda, not a historical anomaly.”
Desiring to take my place in our culture, as a man committed to the Lord, I need to be forewarned that as a nation we are under spiritual attack. Being under spiritual attack is often overlooked, when we consider the breakup of the family. Patriarchy – the leadership and headship of men is under attack. Various radical movements, according to Mary Eberstadt exposes “the threefold crisis of filial attachment that has beset the Western world for more than a half a century. Deprived of father, Father, and partria, a critical mass of humanity has become socially dysfunctional on a scale not seen before.” Young men, today, “have been left alone in the cosmos with nothing to guide them, not even a firm grasp of what constitutes their basic humanity, and no means of finding the way home.”
I look back with some regret at the first hears of my marriage (marriage -1965). I did not comprehend my role as husband and father, while wanting to follow and serve Jesus. I was ordained as a pastor, before scripture helped me see my place as man of God in my family. The turning point was the reading of Larry Christianson’s book “The Christian Family” (1970). I read Larry’s explanation of Eph. 5:25, “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.” I have never read anything as convicting since those days in the early 70’s.
As a result, only by the grace of God and my continually crying out for his mercy, I have remained faithful in my role as husband and father since reading Larry’s book over 60 years ago. For me, it has meant the following. First, I have not abandoned my post, even though I have wanting to give up responsibility. Secondly, I have kept at my post in the continual battle with the enemy. And thirdly, I am thankful that God has carried me this far. I want to help others to stay at their post.
I recently got a phone call with the news that my dear friend Susan, who so many of you have prayed for over the years, died suddenly. We went to see her three days before Christmas as she was in the hospital in Brainerd with a broken leg and had been recovering from Covid. She was still upbeat and thankful that all her needs were met, for she had many physical needs. She hasn’t walked for many years and was wheelchair bound; she was hard of hearing, legally blind and had a special cup for her coffee since her hands were so gnarled by arthritis. She listened to tapes each day and didn’t feel sorry for herself when there were things she couldn’t do. Susan was a light shining just where the Lord put her as she witnessed to those around her.
I learned a lot from Susan, for she was so thankful and appreciative even though she had so little in worldly goods. Her son and grandson lived far away and rarely came to see her, but she still wanted to buy them a gift each Christmas and we would look for that special something at the Art Fair. She thought she had the best room in Birchwood and often remarked, “How could it be any better?” Each time I visited, she shared any concerns and we prayed over them. She loved when I brought chocolate cake with lots of frosting and cookies on a stick, and she spared some for her closest friends. She loved to give to others, even though she had so little.
I could go on and on, for God brought Susan into my life to help me rejoice in all circumstances, to trust in deeper ways, to not focus on material things or even on one’s health, but to be thankful, to give and that even the smallest gifts can bring joy to others. It’s not to say I haven’t shed tears as I miss her, but I rejoice for her that she is now with Jesus and can walk and leap and hear and see and know how much she is loved.
Challenge for today: Use the opportunities each day to share Jesus with others and learn along the way from those whom He sends into your life.
During Christmas our son, Kurt, felt led to invite a neighbor family to church for the Christmas Eve service. The mom was raised as a Buddhist. They not only went to church, but Kurt made them a steak dinner and they stayed and talked until 10:30 p.m. I’m sure they will have more interactions with them in the future, but what a perfect time to share Jesus.
Our hearts need to be always open to share Him with others. It could be just a simple comment to the cashier when shopping, praying at a restaurant, bringing soup to a sick neighbor, or giving someone a ride to a medical appointment. Our actions should shed light on the fact that we know and love Jesus. He also said we are to be like salt in our world. “You’re here to be salt-seasoning that brings out the God-flavors of this earth. If you lose your saltiness, now will people taste godliness?” (Matt.5:13) Let us live with passion that others would want to taste and see that the Lord is good!
When we know the Lord we are no longer to live for ourselves, but for Him. We have purpose and a we have an eternal destiny. Let us not miss the opportunities the Lord sends.
Challenge for today: Ask the Lord to make you aware of openings in your conversations to share Jesus.
But how do we put Him first? I memorized Psalm 27 where David is saying that he will seek after the Lord all the days of his life and with his heart He will seek His face. He asks God to teach him His way and lead him. It is a good recipe for our lives as well. We are to pursue God and seek to know Him more and more. Each day spend time talking to Him, thinking about Him, reading the Word and letting Him be in first place.
We don’t need more things, we need God’s presence. It’s so wonderful we don’t have to earn His love, but rather receive His love and find our value in Him and not what we do. Some of us might feel we have to perform well for Him to love us, but that is not the case. He loves us even when we blow it and He gives us a clean slate when we ask forgiveness. None of us deserve His love, but by faith we receive it and let Him change us to be the person He created us to be. Let us walk in His love and put Him in first place in our lives daily.
1. What do you need to leave behind in 2025? (Toxic mindsets, sin patterns, addictions, toxic relationships, etc.)
2. What word or phrase is going to define 2026 for me? (Spend a great amount of time on this one.)
3. Jesus, what do you want my spiritual life to look like in 2026? (Time in the Word, prayers and church)
4. Jesus, how can I better steward my soul this year? (Emotional health and hobbies)
5. Jesus, how can I be a better steward of the body you have given me this year? (Health and fitness)
6. Jesus, what does relational health look like for me this year? Who do I need to invite in and where do I need to put up boundaries? How can I better steward my marriage?
7. Jesus, how can I be more generous with what you have blessed me with this year? (Commit to tithe, give to missions, serve, etc.)
8. Jesus, how do you want to use me this year at work and in my sphere of influence?
I hope you will spend some time with these questions and begin the New Year with anticipation for what the Lord will do in you and through you.
Then it is good to leave behind the work and have a little playtime and unstructured time to relax and enjoy life. All work and no play is not good for our souls, and each of us may find different ways to find balance. Just like children who are in school all day and hear the bell to go home: they switch gears and begin enjoying some fun free time. Some people even write “Play Time” into their datebook to be sure to rest from their work. I often refer to free time as my reward time when I sit down and play a Scrabble game online after cleaning or working a long while in the kitchen. A time away from work actually makes us more productive and frees our mind to think more creatively.
We need to acknowledge the Lord in all we do, and as it says in Proverbs 3:6 & 8: “Listen for God’s voice in everything you do, everywhere you go; He’s the one who will keep you on track…Your body will glow with health, your very bones will vibrate with life!” Throughout our day let us acknowledge the Lord and at the end of the day, let us give thanks.
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