We should be open to deep emotions and welcome tears that surface. David had tears, as expressed in Psalm 30 when the temple was dedicated. He said in verse 8, “Weeping may tarry for the night, but joy comes with the morning.” Tears are often present when we are experiencing new beginnings…like the birth of our first child or a marriage ceremony of friends. But as many wonderful experiences we have, we are not meant to live on spiritual highs, but also to experience the closeness of the Lord in our trials and desert places. In Psalm 63:1, David says he thirsts for the Lord in a dry and weary land where there is no water. Those times help us to grow in maturity as we turn our hearts to the Lord and feed on His promises. We are reminded how empty we are apart from the Lord and how much we need Him. We need the Lord whether we are on the mountain top or in the valley, for He is always there, always present for us.
Just like my marriage to Al, we don’t feel continual ecstasy, but enjoy the moments of being together and sharing our lives in openness and honesty. We recognize one another as God’s gift to us until death do us part. Sometimes there are tears and sometimes laughter, but we want to keep growing closer to each other and ever closer to the Lord. The Lord is always with us through the ebb and flow of life.
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