I recently read an article by Chris Poblete, editorial director for Christianity Today pastors, and he writes on my favored view of sharing across the generations. I believe we too often separate people into peer groups rather than having them mix together. But don’t we learn and grow by others different from us: some who are ahead of us in our spiritual journey and some to whom we can serve as an example as they are only beginning their spiritual journey? A Barna Report last year showed that only 18% felt that their church helped them connect across the generations.
We are united by the Lord and He is our common denominator. Think of some lonely teen that might just be helped most by an older couple taking him under their wing and inviting him to enjoy some special times with their family. Or God using a Christian to speak into the life of a younger person who has tuned out their parent but is open to another voice. It takes courage on the part of both young and old to be open to others in a different stage of life. How many seniors would be thrilled to have a young person show them how to navigate on their computer after they share a meal together? And what wouldn’t a young adult give to just have someone listen to them, and encourage them to help find answers on their journey.
Like Poblete wrote, church shouldn’t be like a buffet where we choose what is familiar and favor what confirms our instincts as we connect with peers who share our same stage of life. When we do that, we miss having others stretch us and help us mature in our spiritual walk. Jesus prayed in John 17:21 that we may all be one, just as He and the Father are.
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