It is important for each of us to detach from our own self-centered demands and expectations if we are to grow in humility and patience. It is perhaps hardest to show patience when we are criticized by persons we think highly of, but it can be an opportunity to grow in love and patience. The bottom line is we have to detach from our own impatient reactions to all people and let go of our expectations and judgments, for it all goes back to pride.
The key to responding to others with patient love is a willingness to suffer with them. That also helps release the power of love into their lives. When our will is in alignment to God’s will, we will be better able to bear the pain and testing of others, for we are dead to self and want what God desires. Catherine of Siena said, “Your humility is tested by the proud, your faith by the unfaithful, your hope by the person who has no hope.” We all need the power of God’s love to respond in patience and love to others. Let us trust God in the people and circumstances He sends into our lives to teach us to be more like Him.
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