Some fathers just want to rest from their responsibilities, their jobs, other’s expectations and simply take a guilt-free break. They might want to sleep in, relax, and set the agenda for the day, but they get to decide. Instead of a house full of company, that they have to cook a dozen burgers for on the grill, they may choose a quiet day with only family and time to watch sports.
Some dads may want simply to spend quality time with family and to have a relaxed day like going fishing, watching a movie with family, going out for ice cream, biking on the Paul Bunyan trail, and playing board games etc. Dads can just be carefree and enjoy relaxing surrounded by family.
Jennifer also mentions that dads like recognition and appreciation for their role as dad and all he does for the family. Often, we fail to put it into words, but we not only can say it with a card but speak affirming words of our love and admiration for the sacrifices he makes. We need to make it a habit to give him recognition, as we show appreciation for the big and small things he does.
Lastly, we can give a gift that encourages his strengths and interests. If he is into jogging, maybe give a devotional book for athletes, or if he is into old cars, buy him a ticket to a vintage car show etc. Whatever it is he enjoys, give something in line with his interests.
I will close with the prayer by Jennifer: “Lord God, please let this Father’s Day be special for every dad. No matter what gifts they receive, help them to feel loved and celebrated for the amazing men they are. Provide time for families to rest and be together, to appreciate one another, and to exchange meaningful gifts their dads will truly enjoy. I pray these things in Jesus’ name, amen.”
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