Canaan's Rest

Canaan’s Rest represents a quiet place “set apart” for the purpose of hearing God's voice, growing in intimacy with the Lord, and being renewed in soul and spirit.

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In the “emotional storms”

Richard Bode in his book “First you have to row a little boat” has this to say about life, “The day will come when I will die.  So the only matter of consequence before me is what I will do with my allotted time.  I can remain on shore, paralyzed with fear, or I can raise my sails and dip and soar in the breeze.”  I shared this quote along with two stories of Jesus in Mark, one with him in the boat and the other with him on the water, with some spiritual companions last Saturday.  It seemed to have spoken to the fear and uncertainy of some on their spiritual journey.

I have been thinking about this quote for myself as a man.  I don’t think that I am alone in my reluctance to get  in the boat and go out to sea.  I prefer the shore where it is safe and I am in control.  Getting in the boat means a lot of uncertainty.  One way I would like to suggest that we as men need to risk getting in the boat is in regard to our relationships.  You see we can stay on the shore, be uninvolved emotionally, especially with our wives, attempting to stay in control and make rational sense of the storm.  It just will not happen.   

What God is wanting us to do is to get out there on the sea, that is, the sea of emotional turbulance, when we encounter an “emotional storm” with our wives.  For most men, this is a fearful event, since we have no idea how or when the storm will ease up.  But our task, as men is to stay in the boat and ride out the storm.  Now take the two stories of Jesus found in Mark 4:35-41 and Mark 6:45-52 and apply them to our being in the storm.  In the first passage, Jesus in asleep in the boat with his disciples.  So I can take heart that He knows my fear and uncertainty.  In The Message the disciples are addressed by the following words, “Why are you such cowards?  Don’t you have any faith at all?”  I can easily be a coward when I emotionally turn away from the storm.  Jesus wants me to have faith not in my ability to endure the storm, but in His presence with me.  I am not supposed to avoid the storm, but stay in the storm, learning how Jesus wants me to respond.

In the second passage, Jesus comes walking on the water during a storm.  The text tells us, “He (Jesus) intended to go right by them.”  Jesus know full well their fear of the storm.  He wanted them to notice His presence in the storm.  But they thought it was a ghost.  So He tells them, “Courage!  It’s me.  Don’t be afraid.”  Wow, this is a good word for us as men in the emotional storm.  Far to often we think we are all alone in the emotional storm, trying to figure out how to get throught the turbulance.  But Jesus is right there saying to us as men, “Courage!  It’s me.  Don’t be afraid.”  In other words, he is saying, “I know how you feel and what you are going through emotionally.  I’m really here with you.  Look to me for help to know how to respond properly in the emotional storms.  I’m not a ghost.  I am here for you.” 

So men take courage and be willing to endure the emotional storms in your relationships, especially with your wives.  Jesus’ presence is with you.  He will help you with the right responses.  He will give you the grace and emotional strength to endure and learn from the storms.

Oct. 6th

Devotions from Lisa McMinn’s book, The Contented Soul

“Our ultimate happiness is not found in external circumstances but in a trust that we are made for eternity.” God is present with us now but one day we will be brought into His direct presence. In the meantime we may go through suffering which may allow us to identify with His suffering and the pain that exists all around us. When we experience these times we learn the sufficiency of His grace and come to know Him as our ultimate source of peace. This life is only our beginning and what a future we have to look forward to. We can choose to live joyfully which takes some courage. Henry Nouwen said that the reward of choosing joy is joy itself. If we choose to claim joy hidden in the midst of suffering, life becomes a celebration.  “Joy never denies the sadness, but transforms it into fertile soil for more joy.”  We don’t’ deny the darkness, but we can choose not to live in it. Even a little bit of light can dispel a lot of darkness.

Let us choose joy and a willingness and desire to pursue contentment in spite of our circumstance.

Oct. 5th

Devotions from Lisa McMinn’s book, The Contented Soul

 “Life is not about my happiness but about the joy of recognizing that we all emerge from one source-and that source is God who loves us.” 

Contentment is rooted in remembering.  But often we have twisted memories when it comes to wrongs others have done to us or wrongs we have done to others.  We need to remember our mistakes, to note our sins, and to repent or we live in shallowness and discontent.   “Contentment born of humility recognizes that we belong to God and to each other, allowing us to confront our sins, to learn from our mistakes and to remember who we are.”  God is faithful and gives our hearts the opportunity to turn back to His loving embrace.  Let us remember what He has done so that we know we are forgiven and that we belong to Him and not ourselves.  Let us remember  God who remembers us!

Oct. 4th

Devotions from Lisa McMinn’s book, The Contented Soul

Memory holds our experiences together so that we re not disconnected souls living without connection to our past or our future. As Christians we remember Christ’s death and resurrection and look forward to what is ahead. We remember that we are not alone and that God was always present with us and will never forsake us. He calls us by name to remember who we are. We can recognize that we are both great and small.  Sometimes we focus so much on our imperfections that we don’t embrace them as part of the process in which we are brought to God. As we know our littleness and emptiness it gives God space in which to work. Even though it is a gift of grace to know we are little we must keep pushing on to claim our greatness. We are pure capacity for God and can be more!  Some of us think too highly of ourselves, others think too little, but most of us think too much about ourselves.  But let us remember Whose we are and walk contentedly.

Oct. 2nd

Devotions from Lisa McMinn’s book, The Contented Soul

Some profound moments of contentment come as we recognize that we are part of and belong to something bigger than ourselves.  On the other hand we find ourselves living in discontent when we live in isolation, as though we belong to no one or nothing. When we are more concerned about our own personal agenda and rights it diminishes our sense of community and  duty to look out for the well being of others. We can get overly focused on ourselves and become unhappy and lonely people.  Of course, to belong to something bigger than ourselves, we must give up some measure of control over our circumstances.  It often means we must decide not to choose something that we think may harm others or creation.  As we stop thinking of our community and the earth as existing for our personal convenience and well-being, we begin to see how we are part of a greater whole. As we live in harmony with others and with our world we come to peace and a sense of belonging. We can bless and serve others by volunteering at a soup kitchen or a youth ministry, Food shelf etc. And as we show care for others and creation, our own souls grow and stretch. “In serving we receive blessings because we are made for relationship, for community, and to do good.” Let us find contentment as we love Him and serve and bless others.

Oct 1st

Devotions from Lisa McMinn’s book The Contented Soul

Do we live as though the earth belongs to us or as though we belong to the earth?  Another way to say it, do we view the earth as primarily a resource to harness and use or as a gift put under our stewardship to protect, conserve and preserve? The earth is a sacred space for it is God’s creation.  “Contentment is a byproduct of living rightly, properly understanding our obligatory relationship to creation.”  Our technological advances and consumption of resources need to take into account the impact and implications of our choices. In the U.S. it takes 24 acres of land and water to support what one person uses. There are only 4.5 productive acres per person in the world, and we need to learn how use less in sustaining our lives.  When we truly appreciate the gift of creation and its blessings, we will want to walk gently and leave a small footprint, to use resources carefully. There are so many wonderful things about creation that give us pleasure and cause us to praise and honor God.  Let us leave a legacy that shows we have walked respectfully of the earth, mindful of those who came before us and those who will come after us.

Men and their Sons

For the men who regularly read this blob, you are aware that I missed a week.  I was gone for a couple of weeks with “my bride”, visiting our two sons and their families in Kansas City and Colorado Springs.  For me as a Dad, it has been rewarding  to watch both my sons grow in their calling to service the Lord.  I rejoice likewise in seeing my daughter grow and mature into a wonderful Christian woman, who is an example to me of a dedicated mother of three grandsons and a wife of a service man (Leif is a Chaplin in the Air Force).  Since my recent experience has beenwith my sons, I have been doing some reflecting on my relationship with both of them.  The following is for the “whatever is worth department.”  (If you read this post, Ann Marie, be assured I find it a similiar privilege to “speak into your life.”)

I have had the privilege now, for several years of “speaking  into the life” of my two sons, regarding their careers and personal life.  This has been a deep joy for me.  I am aware that there are Dads who are not able to do this.  As for myself, I cherish this privilege.  I have had to earn this position by believing in my sons and knowing that God can use them in significant ways. For me it has meant practicing three thing; visualizing growth, encouragement, and clarifying.  For the sake of any Dads reading this post, who are wondering how they can help their grown sons, I would share these three practices.  Notice they have  nothing to do with correcting, instructing or directing.  It is all about having your son come to an awareness on his own as to how God is both leading him and forming his life. I believe it is imperative not to be “direct” but to be “indirect.”  Help you son see for themselves.

 Visualizing growth  is simply pointing out  how they are growing in their profession and personal life.  Often it is through the difficult times that the most growth takes place.  Since a Dad knows his son fairly well, pointing growth can be very obvious.  It might not be to one of my sons, but for me as “Dear Old Dad” the growth in confidence, maturity and character formation can easily be recognized because I know them very well.  Dads, don’t miss the opportunity to visualize growth.  I never had a Dad who did this for me.  I was left to “measure” my own life without the voice of my Dad.   Help your son “measure” his growth by your caring, loving and thoughtful insights.  Remember these are not directives. 

Encouragement can like a deep drink of fresh spring water in a dry and difficult season.  As your son grows in his personal live and career, he will need “cheerleaders” in his corner.  There is no one more important then Dad, cheering him on.  Again, I had very few words of encouragement from my Dad.  He just was not very good in those kind of conversations.  I longed for my Dad’s approval, but I never heard it from him.  I think he thought I turned out alright, but it sure would have been refreshing to my soul to here it as I struggled in my early years of manhood.  Dads, don’t waste or neglect the times you will have to encourage your son in his journey into manhood.  The voice of Dad is very important.

The third practice is that of clarifying.  Since I know both Mark and Kurt so well, I can help them clarify what is going on in their lives.  I don’t necessary tell them directly, but help them to see what is going on in their circumstances and how it is effecting their individual lives.  I know when I was their age, life could get pretty confusing and uncertain at times.  How I wish I could have heard the loving, caring voice of Dad helping me have a better perspective on my journey.    So Dads, when you have the opportunity to give clarification to your son, take that opportunity as a privilege.  Your son would like to know what you think.  Don’t go silent on him.  Pray for guidance and direction as to what to say.

Sept 30th

Devotions from Lisa McMinn’s book, The Contented Soul

“Sipping and savoring life is and act of worship. Contentment comes as we relish the mercies God pours out in daily life.” The food we eat, the sleep that renews us, work, play, and  celebrating etc-all these gifts call us to praise and worship God.  You may not think that listening to music, writing poetry, painting etc can all be acts of worship but they are if we perform them with a sense of awe for our Creator. Caring and loving others, being God’s hands and feet of mercy to stranger, is often our highest act of worship. Worship is a way of life, not just something we do for an hour on Sundays.   As we go through our day let us choose to be mindful of the wonders around us, even when we have disappointments. Let us extend kindness in listening to each other, bear each other’s burdens, play whole heartedly etc. As we actively engage with the world we are God’s image bearers called to love and walk humbly with God. We are also called to come together corporately in worship and to encourage each other toward a life of hope, love, and thanksgiving. Let us come together regularly for we will be strengthened as we do this.

Heb, 10:23-25

Sept. 29th

Devotions from Lisa McMinn’s book, The Contented Soul

We don’t have to change careers and downsize our life to begin to attend to rhythms in our lives.  The author writes about sleeping, eating, seasonal rituals and the Sabbath as examples of established rhythms of rest from daily life.

1.Sleep is necessary and good for us!  Most of us are sleep deprived and it affects our productivity and relationships. Depriving the brain of sleep is not healthy and affects our mental sharpness and kind responses to daily living.. Sleep is a gift-a daily reminder that we are frail humans that need rest.

2. Eating nourishes our body while satisfying our palate.  We need to “slow down and to choose what we eat with intention, and to gather with family and friends as we nourish our bodies with food.”.  Eating can become a meaningful part of our day as we use it as an opportunity to slow down  and to build fellowship into our eating. As we eat together it reminds us that we belong to something bigger than ourselves. Let us sip and savor our meals.

3. “ Seasonal rituals call our attention to the present and encourages us to be mindful of the underlying activity of a particular season.”  For the author her favorite Fall activity was to go into the forest on a windy day and let the trees rain down their leaves on her. It was a reminder to her to let go and trust that the work she had down was sufficient. Sometimes we engage in community-held celebrations and we pause from work and become aware of the season we are in.

4. Saving the Sabbath is to acknowledge our dependence on God who sustains us. This day invites us to pause, to reflect on where we have been and where we are going. Sabbath is a day we may walk in the woods, sit by the lake,

or anything that encourages us to be free from our usual tasks. “Sabbath rest is one of God’s good gifts, a discipline intended to bless.”

Sept 28th

Devotions from Lisa McMinn’s book, The Contented Soul

Each moment in our life is sacred and can be savored for what God is doing in it.  “There is a time for everything, a season for every activity under heaven,” says King Solomon in Ecc. 3.   We are given bitter and sweet moments in our lives and he concluded that we should be happy and enjoy the fruits of our labor as gifts from God.  Perhaps he is suggesting that whatever our circumstances in any given season, we stop, calm ourselves and look around for gifts from God.  Maybe when we have had a frantic day we can just stop and focus on the goodness of life itself and the miracle of life.  That means slowing down and learning to just BE without having to DO!  If our job at present is demanding and extremely busy, we can try to balance it out with slowing-down periods through out the day. The author is a busy professor and some days instead of grading papers during lunch at her desk, she just went through the park and walked to a coffee shop. Such things help refocus our desire to live in the present and to slow us down. Let us all look for ways to build margins  around our lives and to seek rest and stay open to the wonder of the moment.

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