There are times when I would like to include sports in blogs, but I don’t want to be over zealous in my interest of sports.  However, the following note in the Daily Caller, prompts me to comment on PJ Jules, a safety who survived the mandatory roster cut for the Cincinnati Bengals.  I am always looking for clues about the character of a player, who realizes he has been given a gift from God, as an athlete.  Even the NFL football commentators speak of players being “a character guy.”  Many have had an impact on the locker room by the way they live their life.  I imagine being a player with “high values” can be quite a challenge.    

Anyway, I sense from Jules’ post that he is a character guy.  For the whole 2024 season, Jules was a member of Cincinnati’s practice squad.  The team had signed him as an undrafted free agent.  He had played college football at Southern Illinois, where in the  2023 season he became a first-team FCS All-American.  But that all changed in 2025 when he landed a spot on the Bengals roster.  In a post, after he had received confirmation, Jules sent out a message in which he talked about his father. 

“I made the team, I’m active.  Thank you Lord for the opportunity.  I miss you so much Dad.  Wish you was here to see me.  You believed in me.  I know you watching.  I do this for you, from nothing to something.  This [is] just [the] beginning of something great.”

I, of course, don’t  know PJ Jules.  I  take at face value, what he is saying is from his heart in his excitement of making a professional football team.  After being cut the previous year, he is now celebrating his accomplishment.  I want to comment on his post. 

In relief after his disappointment of not making the team, he notes, “I made the team. I’m active.”  Then he thanks the Lord, “for the opportunity.”  It seems that this young man knows that he had the Lord’s help in his opportunity to play on a professional football team in the NFL.  He knows that life is bigger than his own success.  God has given him the platform to excel in his God given abilities.  

But most telling is how in this moment of success as a young football player, the young man speaks of his  departed father.  He evidently had a bonding relationship with his father.  He writes, “I miss you so much dad.  Wish you was here to see me. You believe in me. I know you watching.  I do this for you, from nothing to something.  This [is] just [the] beginning of something great.” 

Every young man needs to know his father is in his corner, cheering him on in life, as he seeks to make his mark as a man.  To say publicly in this moment of celebrating, that PJ had a father who believed in him, is very telling.  Many young men are fatherless and lonely.  Living without guidance and not knowing what it is to be a man.  Jules, in my discernment, is thanking his father, for helping him become a man.  When he says, “from nothing to something” he is realizing his dream of playing pro football, even when he wanted to quit.  It takes a father cheering on his son, for his son to make it.

For PF, ” This [is] just the beginning of something great.”  This young man  had the modeling and support of a Dad who believes in him.   Becoming a man is more caught than taught.