In our family birthdays have been important as a day to celebrate the honored person as God’s special gift in our lives. We are thankful to the Lord for them and we want to let them know they are loved. When the kids were young, we invited the whole neighborhood of kids to their parties but now it is mostly just family, since we live in a small place. Recently I was getting ready to celebrate Ann’s birthday and had much joy as I blew up balloons, got the meal ready, presents wrapped, and wanted Ann to know how much we love her. When she and Leif came their arms were full, and at first, I thought they were bringing groceries in from their truck so they wouldn’t freeze while we celebrated. But I was wrong, and they said it was all for me. Guess what it was! I couldn’t believe it, but buckets of cards that had been Leif’s mother, who recently died. She was like me and loved to give cards and now I was the recipient of her treasure. I was so blessed and happy that as soon as I cleaned up after the party, I sorted through the many cards, until bedtime. I thanked the Lord over and over for this unexpected gift and thought of Jesus words for truly abundant gifts were poured out upon me in overflowing measure!
May we not hold back when it is in our power to give and serve others, for the Lord is waiting to release abundant gifts to us, but more importantly to open our hearts to Him and to others.
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The enemy uses many devious ways to get at them and one of the biggest ways is to attack their self-worth and even give them suicidal thoughts. One friend wrote recently that her granddaughter has tried suicide unsuccessfully 5 times. Satan tells them they are not loved and a negative message on Facebook can tip them over the edge. But we can share with them how much they are loved by us and especially by the Lord, and let them know they are not alone.
The enemy sends temptations of all kinds their way. He may tempt them with riches, causing them to feel deprived if they don’t have as much as others. We can point them instead to the riches they have in the Lord and share what is truly important. They can also get confused by the influence of ungodly friendships whose values are of the world. Gangs may also seem an answer to their loneliness and we need to pray for friendships to influence them for God’s kingdom instead. The enemy uses technology in a big way and children become dependent on their phone messages to know their worth.
But we can pray much for them to have strength to resist the enemy’s tactics and as it says in James 4:7, “Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you.” It’s important that we faithfully hold them up in prayers to say no to the enemy and yes to the Lord. Let them know God will provide a way of escape when they are tempted and He will help them to follow and obey the Lord.
As I was reading, I thought of the correlation with us when we are uprooted with job changes, life circumstances, health problems and everything is changed overnight. We can spend lots of energy complaining or we can accept what is, and grow and spiritually prosper as we learn from it. Feeling sorry for ourselves will not change the situation, and if we are always looking back on what was and is familiar, we will miss the present blessings God is sending our way. We must focus on the Lord and where He has us right now, and do our best in the circumstances we are in. The Lord is always with us, and He will help us adapt to what is in the present. When we accept the new place He has for us, our energy will be put into our present work and we will grow in new ways.
Change shakes us out of our comfort zones and helps us be totally dependent on the Lord and we can leave the excess baggage behind to be more focused on Him. Let us not complain when we feel like we are in exile but get busy planting seeds that will grow beautiful fruit in our lives and in others.
Each day the Lord speaks to us and wants to use us and as John Wesley said (1713-17 91)
“Do all the good you can,
By all the means you can,
In all the ways you can,
In all the places you can,
At all the times you can,
To all the people you can,
As long as ever you can.”
May our lives count for the Lord for all the days we have on this earth and one day we will join Him forever in glory.
I am reading the book of Jeremiah and he wrote down what God spoke to him to preach to the people for 23 years. They were not good listeners for they had wandered away from God, and Jeremiah was scoffed at and put in prison. Even then he had his friend Baruch write down what he dictated to him and it could be read to the people. Earlier when Josiah became King of Judah, he had the Book of the Law read to him. He tore his clothes in repentance when he realized how far they had strayed from God and even worshiped other gods. He humbled himself before the Lord, repented and then read the Book of the Covenant to the people. He promised to keep His commandments and statutes with all his heart and soul also and covenanted before the Lord to follow His ways.. (II King 23) The people all joined in as well.
But Josiah’s son, Jehoiakim, did not respond in the same way when he became king. When itt was told him that Jeremiah’s scroll had been read by Baruch, he commanded that it be sent for and read. But His response was one of ridicule and he took his penknife and every few columns read he would cut them off and toss them into the fire. He didn’t take the word seriously and joked and ignored the truth of the words. As a result, God spoke that his corpse would be thrown in the street and left unburied, exposed to the sun and freezing night. (Jer. 36)
What a difference in the responses made to the Word! Josiah obeyed and helped the nation return to God and they were blessed. Jehoiakim scoffed at it, and died as the nation went into exile. God’s word is powerful and it can’t be suppressed, discarded or destroyed and it is living and active and sharper than any two-edged sword (Heb. 4:12). May we not make light of the Word but read and meditate on it and let it do its work in our hearts,
I read a devotional by author Alicia Searl who writes on how we can be generous in the new year. When we give to others we are blessed as well as the receiver, and our hearts enlarge as transformation takes place in us. She writes about ways we can be generous and first names generosity with our time. That may be the more difficult one, as needs come up that aren’t always at a convenient time, and we have to drop what we are doing. It could be only taking time to listen to someone who has lost a loved one, or inviting someone for coffee that is going through a hard time. But the Holy Spirit will direct us, and we need to respond as He prompts us.
We also need to be generous with random acts of kindness to others. It can be little things like a smile to the tired cashier at Target or bigger things like serving at a soup kitchen. Each act of kindness not only meets the needs of others, but also fills our hearts with joy.
Alicia also writes we need to be generous with our gifts and talents that the Lord has given us. We have all been given gifts at birth and as we flow in them to others, we feel fulfilled ourselves. It can be the gift of speaking truth to others, serving them, teaching, encouraging, giving, leading, and showing mercy. (Rom. 12:6-8) May we let the Lord reveal our gifts and then put them to use!
Another way to give is often a struggle for many but it is giving of our means, our money, our tithe! We may be the answer to another person’s prayers when we respond to their need when led by the Spirit. Let us not withhold when we have the power to give and have been given everything we possess. Let our eyes be open to the needs around us and may we be cheerful givers and also grateful receivers when we have need.
Aaron Renn wrote an op-ed recently in the Wall Street Journal wondering why men turn to online influencers instead of traditional institutions and authorities. He pointed out five ways this is taking place:
- Online influencers (OI’s) are men speaking to men, whereas many (if not most) mainstream figures writing on men’s issues are women;
- OI’s treat men as ends, not just means… viewing men as important in their own right;
- They also provide an aspirational, appealing version of manhood in ways mainstream figures don’t;
- OI’s give practical, actionable advice to help men improve and attain their goals;
- They create community.
Renn believes traditional institutions can re-create the online influencers’ success: “They can have men talking to and about men. They can acknowledge that men are important in themselves… They can craft an aspirational vision of manhood that includes elements of sacrifice and service. They can build men up with practical insights and advice, even when the truth is unpopular. And they can crystallize community around them. None of these things are objectively hard to do.”
In my passion to speak to the masculine soul, I take to heart Renn’s comments that men are not merely a means to an end (godly husband and father) but also as an end in themselves (being a man of God). It seems that many of the messages men get from the dominant media come primarily from women. Men are told that their roles need to be “instrumentally good” and enable women to fulfill their life ambitions. But what men sense is that “they don’t matter until they become a problem for somebody else that society actually cares about.” Renn references Richard Reeves pointing out during the UN #HeForShe Summit that men’s issues (increasing suicide rates, educational underachievement, etc.) can easily end up in grievance politics. Reeves stated that if problems like these are not addressed, “they can turn into grievances, and grievances are weaponized… We have a responsibility to take those problems seriously.”
My heart’s prayer with this blog is to speak to the masculine soul, treating manhood not just as a “means” but as an “end” as well. When I started writing in 2009, I wrote a blog entitled “Themes for the Wildman Journey” and used Prov. 4:23 as a theme verse: “Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life.” I wrote, “This simply means that wildmen have come to the point in their lives when they know they have to pay attention to their hearts (soul)… I can say with deep conviction that men need to band together to deal with their soul lives.”
On that note, is it possible that too many men have seen the media, online influencers, or maybe even their own mothers or wives unduly influence the nature of their masculine soul and shape it in an unhealthy way? I believe along with Renn that men need to build community and let the Lord define who they are. Men need “soul care” groups to find healing, support and encouragement from other men, where they can will look to Jesus for inspiration and courage as men trying to find their way in modern society.
My journey of wholeness as a man has been going for many years. I’m continually inspired by Psalm 71:18, “Even when I am old and gray, do not forsake me, O God, till I declare your power to the next generation, your might to all who are to come.” And I sincerely pray that this blog will provide “practical, actionable advice” from a man who cares about the “soul life” of men.
I am learning so much as I study the life of Jeremiah and he shares how for 23 years he got up early and listened to what God would say to him and then gave the message to the people. He was very consistent and did not bank his early rising on the response of his message to the people or he would have quit long before. But instead of sleeping in, he rose early and listened to the Lord and passed it on until late at night. (Jermiah 25:3) He was not applauded for the messages he gave, but rather abused and mocked but he didn’t let it detour him. One such time he got discouraged and God said to him if he was tired from running a footrace how would he race against horses. (Jer. 12:5) It shook him out of his funk, and he responded with “I want to run with the horses!”
1. Jesus what word or phrase is going to define 2024 for me?
2. Jesus what do you want my spiritual life to look like this year?
3. Jesus how can I better steward my soul this year?
4. Jesus how can I be a better steward of the body you have given me?
5. Jesus what does relational health look like for me this year?
6. Jesus how can I be generous with what you have blessed me with this year?
I would like to challenge each of us to ask ourselves these questions and be quiet before the Lord and listen to how He would speak to us. May we get in touch with our heart’s desire and ways we can draw closer to Him and be changed from the inside out. Lord, open our hearts to receive your love in greater measure and our eyes opened with a willingness to change!
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