When Al and I came home from our 60th anniversary party, our hearts were overflowing with gratitude. We sat down with a cup of coffee and just shared together the blessings of the wonderful day of celebration. Our kids and their families had sacrificed to set the day apart: one son delaying surgery so they could be there, another family traveling from N.C., others who changed work schedules, etc. But PTL, our immediate family was all together and we were thankful. They put themselves out with my favorite meal of enormous steaks, and so many delicious side dishes, two cakes, banner with our wedding pictures, golden balloons, gifts including a picture painted by our artistic grandson, and meaningful cards. They gave time for Al and I to share about God’s goodness in giving them to us as our children with their specific gifts and personalities, wonderful spouses and grandkids. It was good to review how each one is special and placed in our family by our loving Father. We concluded the time with praying for each couple and passing on God’s blessings through our family line. We came home so full of praise and gratitude to the Lord.
But what happens to our hearts when we are ungrateful and pessimistic? I read recently how destructive it is to our whole being and results in resentment, envy and hopelessness, etc. Experimental trials have shown however, that people who experience gratitude enjoy greater health, for they are better able to deal with stress and recover more quickly from illness. They also sleep better and are also more optimistic about their lives. I suspect they are easier to be around, for they are more other centered and have hope.
Let us remember Paul’s words in I Thes. 5:18, “Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.”
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