I did not realize this before, but Jesus never had anyone come to him and ask forgiveness. No one said, “Jesus, will you forgive me!” But He forgave and often said to others, “Your sins are forgiven”. His life is the greatest example of unilateral forgiveness as He was crucified for our sins on the cross and asked the Father to forgive us. “While we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.” (Rom. 5:8) The Lord also expects us to unilaterally forgive all those in our life or we won’t be forgiven. It is hard when the other person doesn’t even acknowledge that they may have hurt us, but we still are called to freely forgive. God is the judge, and we are not, so let us leave the judgment up to Him and forgive, forgive, forgive.
Christianson gives an example when Corrie ten Boom met the nurse who had cruelly treated her sister when she was dying in a concentration camp by the Germans. Corrie’s first response was hatred and bitterness, but she confessed it to the Lord and asked forgiveness. She also invited the nurse to a meeting where she was speaking and afterwards led the nurse to the Lord. In a sense, both were set free. As we forgive unilaterally, we find it opens the door for God to deal with the other person’s heart. Let us be forgivers, not judges and leave the rest up to the Lord.
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