Smedes goes on to say that forgiveness gives the power to move us away from the past pain, and to free us from the endless chain of reactions, thereby creating a new situation where both the wrong doer and the one wronged can begin a new way. They have an opportunity to be reconciled and end the cycle of hate. Yes, forgiveness seems unfair to the people doing the forgiving, but we lose when we play the “get even” game, the game that will only cause the hurt to stay with us longer. Redemptive remembering is a healing way. We keep a clear picture in our mind of the past, but it then shifts our focus on love emerging from the ashes and hope for the future. Jesus said in Luke 6:37, Forgive and you will be forgiven.”
Category: Whispers (Page 59 of 164)
Devotions from Judy’s heart
He wants our receptivity to listen to Him as He speaks, to let Him love us and also love others through us. If we are His sheep, we should be listening for His voice but often we have unbelief that blocks His voice to us. Perhaps we find ourselves cold or aloof to the sound of His voice because we are listening to the music of the world in our ears. We miss out on so much of what the Lord desires to give to us.
I’m sure we have all had times we are sharing our hearts with a close friend or spouse and find that they are not really listening. Their mind is off somewhere else, and they are missing what we are trying to communicate. Think of how often the Lord is wanting to pour out His love on us and we disregard what He is saying because we are not really listening. There is a whole spiritual world about us and we often choose to ignore it. I read today a quote by Nathaniel Hawthorne, “Christian faith is a grand cathedral, with divinely pictured windows. Standing without, you see no glory, nor can imagine any. But standing within, every ray of light reveals a harmony of unspeakable splendors. “
Let us not stay aloof but draw close to the Lord and experience the reality and splendor of His presence. As it says in James 4:8, “Draw close to God and He will draw close to you; Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded.”
A prayer I read recently from writer Ashley Moor as she wrote about joy as she shared from Psalm 16:11, which is one of my favorite Psalms. “You make the path of life known to me. Complete joy is in your presence. Pleasures are by your side forever.”
Dear Lord,
Perhaps O Holy Night will be sung at your church service on Christmas eve or perhaps we have it playing on our phones, but may the words written in the 1800’s penetrate our hearts at this Christmas time:
As a result of His coming we can, like the shepherds and wisemen, bow low before Him in beholding our King. He breaks our chains and lifts our oppression and forgives our sins and is our friend, and Savior and King. He teaches us to love one another and to proclaim His glory and power to all. “Thanks be to God for His inexpressible gift!” II Cor 9:15. Let us share the good news!
I was reading a devotional by Rick Renner on crosswalk.com., who reminds us of the real meaning of Christmas. We first think of the manger and celebrate Jesus coming as a baby…but there is much more. We need to include the cross, for Jesus’ purpose in coming was to die for each of us that we might have salvation. Paul writes in Philippians 2 how Jesus humbled Himself and became obedient to the cross for that is why the Father sent him. Paul also says that Jesus was found in fashion as a man and Renner goes on to tell us that the Greek word for fashion is used to describe a king who for a brief time exchanged kingly robes for the clothing of a beggar. It was part of God’s plan for Jesus to do this and He willingly obeyed His Father and stepped down to earth and suffered the most excruciating death for us.
After reading this devotional I was left with a new awareness of Christmas and the tremendous gift given to me and all of mankind who will receive. Yes, Jesus came as a baby but ultimately to die for me and each of you reading this. I will close with the prayer by Renner:
“Lord, I thank You for coming to earth so You could redeem me. When I think of the extent to which You were willing to go in order to save me, it makes me want to shout, to celebrate, and to cry with thankfulness. You love me so much, and I am so grateful for that love. Without You, I would still be lost and in sin. But because of everything You have done for me, today I am free; my life is blessed; Jesus is my Lord; Heaven is my home; and Satan has no right to control me. I will be eternally thankful to You for everything You did to save me I pray this in Jesus’ name!”
Challenge for today: Put a cross somewhere near the nativity as a reminder of the cost of Jesus coming to earth.
Well, that says it pretty plainly. We don’t have to play Holy Spirit for others, but carefully listen to what the Lord may be speaking to us. Paul says to welcome even those who we don’t agree with and not to refuse our association with them. As in verse 4 he says, “If there are corrections to be made or manners to be learned, God can handle that without your help.” (Message translation)
It is so sad to see families split over differences of opinions, and it is a win for the enemy who loves to see Christians divided. We need to respect one another enough to let each one have their own opinions and not insist they see things the same way we do. One day Paul says, we are going to kneel side by side in the place of judgment, facing God and give account for our critical and condescending ways.
I like to read up on things from sources I trust, and ask the Lord for direction. Of course, the best source is the Word, but we may not always see the exact solution to the situation we are involved in; but we can pray and see that we have the right kind of attitude and respond in love, no matter what. So let us all tend to our own knitting!
“Be good friends who love deeply; practice playing second fiddle. Don’t burn out; keep yourselves fueled and aflame. Be alert servants of the Master, cheerfully expectant. Don’t quit in hard times; pray all the harder. Help needy Christians; be inventive in hospitality. Bless your enemies; no cursing under your breath. Laugh with your happy friends when they’re happy; share tears when they’re down. Get along with each other; don’t be stuck-up. Make friends with nobodies; don’t be the great somebody. Don’t hit back; discover beauty in everyone. If you’ve got it in you, get along with everybody. Don’t insist on getting even; that’s not for you to do. l’ll do the judging,’ says God. I’ll take care of it.’”
A word to us is that we are not to push our self-importance but be willing to be secondd as we love deeply and show honor to one another. We need to be full of the Spirit as we serve one another as unto the Lord. If someone gets under our skin, we don’t give up but pray harder and exercise patience even as the Lord is patient with us. We are to help provide for their needs and show warm hospitality…not how long are you going to stay?!!! Even if they are sarcastic towards us, bless them and don’t curse them. Share their joy and also their griefs as some will come with heavy hearts. We are to try our best to live in harmony and not be exclusive but include them. Even if they speak against us, let us not respond back or try to get the upper hand…pray for them and leave the judging up to the Lord. Ask God to show us beauty in them, and to help us get along with them. Let us do our part to live in harmony with one another.
Yesterday we were to meet friends who we haven’t seen for a while at a restaurant we have been to many times before. We arrived at the parking lot at the same time and after greeting each other went to go in; only the door was locked and as we peered through the glass door, we noticed no lights and a sign that said they were closed on Tuesdays. What a bummer and why on Tuesdays, rather than a Monday when some establishments are closed after a busy weekend. We got suggestions of where to go and ended up at a Mexican place where the food was great, we were in a corner away from people, and since it wasn’t busy, we could stay as long as we wanted, which we did! It was really perfect and we could be free to share, and I smiled as I thought, “Lord, you had this place in mind all along. Thank you!” That was a minor little situation and yet God had something better for us as we waited. I also was reminded that I had a gift I ordered for our friends, and didn’t know if it would arrive in time; but only a few minutes before we were to leave to meet, it arrived in the mail. Yes, His timing is perfect!
We need to be free in the giving to the needs to others and also receiving so we can grow in grace as mutual needs are met. We find that the sharing with others involves both our weaknesses and our strengths. Where we are inadequate and lack strength, someone else is strong and can minister to us. And where they are weak, we can help share their burdens. No one has it all together, even if they think so, they will discover it is a lonely life not to need others. If we selfishly sow to the flesh, we will use others around us to validate us and tell us how good we are doing. But if we sow to the Spirit and help and serve others, we will experience the freedom of mutuality and living freely.
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