Category: Sister Judy (Page 31 of 278)

Psychologist, Bob Enright, pioneered a study on forgiveness and wrote, “true forgiveness goes a step further, offering something positive -empathy, compassion, understanding-toward the person who hurt you. That element makes forgiveness both a virtue and a powerful construct in positive psychology.” As Christians we are to “be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave us” (Eph. 4:32) We are to want the best for others, even those that have hurt us, and not to keep track of wrongs done to us, for the Lord wipes out our record of all wrongs. As I read this I was convicted of someone I had forgiven long ago but I had to admit, I didn’t wish her well or prayed for the Lord to bless her life. So I had to stop in the writing of this and pray and just do that.

Forgiveness process starts by uncovering our negative feelings about the offense done to us, and then we have to decide to forgive. But we need to go on towards understanding the offending person and have empathy and compassion for him or her. We begin to see the other person as someone wounded. Forgiveness won’t necessarily bring them into close relationship with us in every instance and may not always be wise. But we are to walk in love and forgiveness

Challenge for today: If the Holy Spirit convicts you of someone you need to forgive, pray:

As an ambassador, our aim is not to serve ourselves but to represent the one who is Love. We are meant to be a light to help show the way. In our world today, we see so many people who are lost and lonely and may not even be sure of what they are looking for. We all have that empty place that is within us that only the Lord can fill. Until we receive the Lord, that hollow feeling will persist and we find ourselves searching and incomplete. But then one day an ambassador comes along, could be a friend, a pastor or even a stranger, who shares that we can know the Lord personally and all we have to do confess our sins and open our hearts to receive Him. Once we take that step, we are never the same again, for now we live life together with the Lord who not only loves us but directs our lives and gives us purpose.

We might say for now we live in a foreign land and how can we expect our world to understand if they do not know Him. Let us live as His ambassadors and become like the One we represent. Ambassadors should be peacemakers and respectful, bringing a message of love and peace even in dangerous places. We are not to be self-seeking but serve Him who sent us. May we stand firm and represent the Lord everywhere we go!

I was reading a book by Joyce Meyers, and she writes about how Terah was going with his son Abram and his daughter-in-law Sarah and his grandson lot to the land of Canaan. But it says in Gen. 11:31 that when they got to Haran, they settled there. I always wondered why they didn’t go all the way. Why did they settle and miss the blessings the Lord had. When Terah died Abram and family finally moved on to Canaan, the land flowing with milk and honey but why did they wait so long.

The big BUT is that David had faith and trusted the Lord and asked for His help. He looked to Him as his safe place, his rock and fortress. His strength is in Him and David asks for His guidance and protection. He knows the Lord can keep him from hidden traps of the enemy and He renews his trust in the Lord to keep him safe. He said in verse 14-16 “But I trust in you, O Lord I say, ‘You are my God.’ My times are in your hand; deliver me from the hand of my enemies and persecutors. Let your face shine upon your servant; save me in your steadfast love.”  His confidence is where it should be, in the Lord.  Just like us when in tight places, we may not know how the Lord will protect us, but we can put our life in His hands and ask for deliverance and trust Him. We can be honest and tell Him the situation as we see it and then give it to Him. We are not to make the mistake of taking it back into our hands but leave it with Him.

Some following words of David in the Message translation that are good for our ears, “What a stack of blessings you have piled up for those who worship you, ready and waiting for all who run to you to escape an unkind world. You hide them safely away from the opposition…Love God, all you saints; God takes care of all who stay close to Him…Be brave. Be strong. Don’t give up. Expect God to get here soon.” ….

I can’t help but note that Peter himself has been radically changed by the Lord from an impulsive man, prideful and confident in himself, is now humble and dependent on the Holy Spirit and concerned for others to live out their days pursuing the Lord. He tells them in Chapter 4 to pursue what God wants instead of being tyrannized by what they want and learn to think like Jesus, as they are being weaned from the expectation of getting their own way.

In our day, how do we live carefree before God rather than living for ourselves and doing whatever we feel like doing? What does a life shaped like God look like and how do we practice it in our everyday life?  What first comes to mind is to forgive like Jesus who freely forgives us. We don’t need to keep rehearsing in our minds what someone else did to hurt us but to let it go and forgive without giving thought of how to get even. When we trust God to handle the situation and pray for those who have wounded us, we are living carefree in His grace. Another way may be to have a heart of gratitude. We take time to recognize how much the Lord has blessed us instead of thinking what we don’t have or wish we had. We can show our gratitude with praise as we express thankfulness all throughout our day. That entails looking for good things throughout our day and thank those also who the Lord may be using to bless us. We also will live life carefree when we live in awe of His presence and recognize His mighty power as we fully trust Him. Let us enjoy the Lord each day and live carefree knowing He loves us, listens to us and is waiting to help us draw closer to Him.

Thank you for your prayers for Susan as I was able to talk to her yesterday. Her nurse dialed the phone for her and so we were able to talk a long while. She is thankful for your prayers and sounded happy and just great. She voiced that she had the best nurse ever, care was wonderful, food good etc. I still don’t have the name of the hospital or her room number, but she will let me know by the next call. Right after her call friends knocked on our door with a bag of groceries of just the things we were running out of. Infact, I had finished the broth Ann made for me in the morning and then we got delicious soup, salad, fruit etc. If that wasn’t enough our son called after that, so it was raining blessings all afternoon. 

There are many sayings in our culture that are not based on the Word of truth like “If it feels good, do it!” If you have tried that you know it can get you into a lot of trouble. Or what about “Follow your heart!” Sounds nice but our feelings and desires are not always the best guide for what we should do, and often it can be the opposite. Or how about the one that may be the most misquoted, “Money is the root of all evil.” No, it is not wrong to have wealth but is the love of money that can come before the Lord.

Let us live our lives based on the Word of God, not our feelings or our culture, and be done with partial truth.