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Month: May 2024 (Page 3 of 4)

Why Marriage Matters

Daily Citizen recently published a good article on marriage entitled Why Marriage Matters: Understanding its place in the beauty of the Christian story.  The article encourages us to appreciate how profound marriage is in God’s story, especially since marriage is undervalued in our culture.  Quoting from Genesis, Paul wants us to see marriage at the heart of God’s divine plan to save us.  “‘Therefore, a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.’  This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church.” (Eph. 5:31-32). 

Back in Genesis 2:24, God declares his intention for humanity and marriage.  The first thing God does with Adam and Eve is create them male and female so as to complement and complete each other.  Then he joins them together as husband and wife.  First, Adam and Eve bear the image and likeness of God as male and female.  Then, after their creation, they are made husband and wife. In Genesis 1 we read, “God blessed them and said to them, ‘Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it'” (Gen. 1:28).  As the article states, “God performed their wedding … called them to live as husband and wife, be fruitful, start a family, fill the earth, and engage all of creation.” 

Later in Genesis, Adam declares the beautiful advent of women, “This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called ‘woman,’ for she was taken out of man” (Gen. 2:23).  Then God declares what Paul quotes in Ephesians 5: “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh. ”  The article’s takeaway is this: “Marriage is central to God’s plan for humanity and his divine purposes … What God created in marriage from the start for man and woman is also intimately and mysteriously related to the beautiful truth of Christ and His Church.”  As Paul himself states, “This is a profound mystery – but I am talking about Christ and the church” (Eph 5:32). 

Marriage is thus central to the whole story of the Gospel from Genesis to Revelation.  In the prophets God pursues his unfaithful bride.  The Song of Songs is an allegory of the marriage relationship with Christ and his Church.  Jesus tells us He is the bridegroom, seeking His beloved bride.  Revelation speaks of the wedding feast of the Lamb. “Our marriages have been an imperfect signpost pointing to this glorious nuptial truth of Christ and his Church.”

The article ends with this: “Marriage is a beautiful thread running consistently and significantly through God’s divine narrative from the first page to the last … it is true that one cannot really tell God’s story of his divine plan for humanity and the Gospel itself without speaking deeply and intimately of marriage.  Marriage does matter, more than we can ever know.”

This article impacted my thinking of marriage in several ways:

  • Marriage is central to God’s intentions for the inhabitants of his creation.  Marriage has not  evolved by human necessity or thought; rather, it is at the heart of God’s story and plan for the men and women.  I dare not tamper with his intentions.
  • Marriage is the greatest gift given to us, other than God’s salvation in Christ.
  • Marriage has survived the ups and downs of history.  God’s intention is for our marriages to reflect his glory in the earth.
  • Because of this, esteem and honor marriage.  The enemy our our souls, Satan himself, wages constant warfare on our marriages.  

 

May 11, 2024

Dear Ones,
Happy weekend to you! Hope you can celebrate Mother’s Day tomorrow remembering your mother and her influence on your life. Today I plan to clean and pack the car and then tomorrow we will be going to Hackensack for church and then on to the Lake to celebrate with Ann’s family. Very early on Monday we leave for N.C.
Devotions from Judy’s heart
Mother’s Day is a special day for each of us to remember the mother that God gave us. Mothers come in all size and shapes and personalities and yet, I like to think that God knew the exact right one for me. I didn’t always think that way, as I wondered when I was young why God didn’t pick mine to be warm and fuzzy and have a desire to spend lots of time talking about feelings, for I am a feeler and she a thinker. But God knows best and later I understood that she was what I needed in my life to spur me on, to help me to know truth and not to compromise, to seek what is most important and not care what others think. She was continually serving others and without thinking of the cost of her energy. She wasn’t one that wanted to be up front giving a talk, but behind the scenes serving in a selfless way. She pushed me to believe I could do things before I thought I was ready and taught by example. We never missed church and she had me in Sunday school when I was only two.

Your mother may be totally different than mine, and some of you reading this had moms who may have been absent. One thing we all know is that our mom’s loved us enough to carry us in her womb for 9 long months and like David said of the Lord in Psalm 139:13, For you did form my inwards parts; You did knit me together in my mother’s womb.” If we were fortunate our moms also nurtured us, supported us, loved us and guided us, even when we were selfish and   didn’t give back. I’d like to share a poem I read and the author is unknown.

“There is no love, like a mother’s love, no stronger bond on earth…
  like the precious bond that comes from God, to a mother, when she gives birth.
A mother’s love is forever strong, never changing for all time…
and when her children need her most, a mother’s love will shine.
  God bless these special mothers, God bless them every one…
  for all the tears and heartache, and for the special work they’ve done.
   When her days on earth are over, a mother’s love lives on…
through many generations, with God’s blessings on each one.
  Be thankful for our mothers, for they love with a higher love…
from the power God has given, and the strength from up above.”

Challenge for today: Thank the Lord for the mother who gave you birth and if your mom is still living, thank her for giving you life.

Blessings on your weekend and prayers and love, Judy

May 10, 2024

Dear Ones,
Happy weekend to you! Lots of flowers being delivered this weekend and I see boxes of them outside the doors here to honor mothers. Today I plan to start my packing for our trip to see Mark’s family. Sadly, rain is predicted most every day, but our purpose is to see them, and the weather is very secondary.
Devotions from Judy’s heart
  Do we sometimes put God in a box and think He needs to act or respond in a certain way. We must always remember God is sovereign and He is in charge, not us, and we are not to take control of things that are His. Uzzah learned a hard lesson about that and lost his life.
  Maybe you remember the story of how David was bringing back the Ark of the Covenant that had been captured by the Philistines 30 years before. The ark was very important to the people of God for it held Aaron’s rod that had budded, a jar of manna and the 10 commandments on tablets of stone. These things reminded the people of how God was with them through the wilderness, provided for them and saved them. King David wanted to bring the Ark back to Jerusalem for it had been in the house of an old priest all that time. His two sons, Uzzah and Ahio were to deliver the Ark and David was planning a celebration. Uzzah, being a priest, would have known that the Ark was not to be touched but only carried by poles inserted through rings attached to the Ark; but he put it in a cart pulled by an ox. The Ark started to fall off the cart and he put out his hand to keep it from falling and God smote him and he died. (II Sam. 6:7) That seems severe for disobedience. David called off the trip and came back 3 months later to bring the Ark in the prescribed way and he danced before the Lord with all his might and wrote Psalm 132.
  Maybe we all question why God did this, and I read what Eugene Peterson had to say that helped give possibilities and understanding. He relates that Uzzah tried to take charge of God and take over His work. He may have thought the ox cart would be easier and more efficient and took matters into his own hands and disregarded what was holy. He was trying to manage God and like Peterson said, “We don’t take care of God: God takes care of us.” We may start out well and change our habits, grow in the Lord, and then sometime down the road we take over for God and even for others, telling them how they should live. We find that in the process we lose our zeal for the Lord and our love for Him dries up. But David had an open heart to the Lord and didn’t try to manage God, but worshiped and danced and was attentive to the Lord.                                            Let us not put God in a box and try to direct things but have an openness to Him and let Him lead us in His most perfect way.
Challenge for today: Instead of telling God what He should do, pray your concerns and let Him direct the results.
Blessings on your weekend and prayers and love, Judy

 

May 9, 2024

Dear Ones,
Hope you wake up knowing that God can use you today in a wonderful way.
I am going to make Al’s favorite cookies while he is at Men’s group early this morning. When he returns, donuts and coffee await him and later is Bible Study here.
Devotions from Judy’s heart
God uses ordinary people to have extraordinary influence, and how He uses each one is often a surprise to us and others. However, if we look to the experts, the professionals with degrees who have influence in the world, to direct our lives, it doesn’t always work out. Think of how we have turned our bodies over to the health experts and look what has happened. We are worse off today and our life expectancy has decreased 3 years. Or maybe we expect Psychologists to cure our hurts and yet there has never been so many lonely people and those committing suicide. We must not even look to our pastors to recharge our spiritual batteries, for we are the ones that are responsible to have faith and find our peace in God.

 I am reading Eugene Peterson’s book on David, and who would have thought that the youngest boy of Jesse would perk the interest of the prophet Samuel?  Samuel came to Jesse’ farm and was looking over all his sons to find God’s replacement for King Saul. But it wasn’t any of the first 7 sons, though they may have been tall and handsome, but he chose the youngest son, a shepherd boy name David. No doubt his brothers must have been shocked when Samuel anointed their young brother and passed over them. David was God’s pick and he became a man after God’s heart.
God uses us as He wills and we must not believe we have to be important or hold degrees for Him to use us. In fact, Peterson was at a dinner party and the host asked them to share about a person who had made a difference in their life and shaped them in a spiritually formative way? Not one of them chose a professional, a pastor, a missionary, or a CEO, but someone who motivated and encouraged them and gave guidance, though may not stand out in our society.
Let us not think that God can’t use us right where we are at, for He has a calling for each of us. We are successful if whatever we do we do for God and bring Him glory. He puts His desires in our hearts that will befit us and bring deep joy.

Challenge for today: Seek to hear the Lord and fit into the plan He has for your life.
Blessings on your day and prayers and love, Judy

May 8, 2024

Dear Ones,
Hope we wake to a day of sunshine after the rain yesterday. Al will be preaching next door this morning and I have my Exercise class and Crafts and later Bible Study.
Devotions from Judy’s heart
As things get worse in our culture, we will all have to decide where we stand. Will we just go along with those things that violate what scripture says or will we take a stand for what is right before God? At first, we may be tempted to compromise in little ways, but before long we will realize we have strayed far from what God says. It is a slippery slope, and we need to be careful not to water down what the Word says, for it will lead us to a place of compromise of our faith.

Jeremiah spoke to the people what God gave him and didn’t compromise the truth. Most often they didn’t listen and heed the message and suffered for it. Even though the people had been freed long ago from bondage in Egypt, they got tired of living by faith and didn’t acknowledge God’s ways. As a result, they were taken to Egypt where there were set rules and worship of idols. Jeremiah detested the place, but his city had been taken over by the Babylonians, just as he said would happen, and he was put in chains and on his way to Babylon. It was a 700-mile journey in the heat but only a few miles out of the city, the Babylonian captain stopped and spoke a word to Jeremiah from King Nebuchadnezzar. He gave Jeremiah a choice of going there to Babylon or staying behind in his own country with a few of the weak and poor people left behind. He either had to stay in the place where he was made fun of, put in a cistern to die, and ridiculed or go to a foreign country where God is not honored. His chains were cut off and he had to decide between the hard life of staying behind or going to Babylon in protective custody of the king, Life in Babylon would be easier by far and he would be protected and have a pension and not have to even work. The choice was his. He chose to live by faith and stayed in Jerusalem with the poor, believing God would one day restore his remnant people into a holy nation. He rejected the easy life in a place where God was not recognized, to live a hard life where faith was built in God.

I believe in the days to come we are going to have to make decisions if we stand: for God and His kingdom or for our culture that rejects God. Just like Jeremiah, if we choose the Lord, it won’t be easy and we may be made fun of and suffer and be persecuted as He said we would. But do we want to live by faith in God, or do we want to bow to the evil of our culture. Let us choose wisely and He will give us the courage and strength to stand.

Challenge for today: Ask the Lord to give you strength and courage to stand firm in Him and not compromise.
Blessings on your day and prayers and love, Judy

 

May 7, 2024

Dear Ones,
Hope you wake up Emojiready to do some hidden actions today out of gratitude for what you have received. Today I plan to spend some time in the kitchen baking and then Women’s Bible study and this afternoon we are invited to friends for sharing and prayer.
Devotions from Judy’s heart
I love when deeds of kindness are done out of compassion of the heart and not for the purpose to be seen by the world and put on Facebook, but simply for the Lord. Just recently on May Day, I opened our apartment door with a bag in hand to be deposited in the garbage, and I was met with not just one but 3 May baskets full of candy, all of which had no name on them. Two of them I could figure out but the third one is still a bit of a mystery. They were in front of all the doors so even the newest residents felt special and cared for. Those who prepared the baskets didn’t do it to be recognized but did it in secret during the night.

I happened to read Delano Shefield from Fuller Seminary who writes about how our silent labor resonates. We don’t have to make a big deal in our work or deeds of kindness but let it speak in the silence, knowing the Lord sees. All that we do should be for the audience of One and that is the Lord. Delano gives the example of the suffering Christians in Thessalonica that received Paul’s message and lived it out in their lives. It was in a quiet way but spoke volumes to others. In I Thess 1:8 Paul says, “But in every place your faith in God has become known, so we have no need to speak about it.” Their faith was evident in what they did so there was no need to say anything. The Christians were doing their ordinary work in a quiet way and it spoke loudly to everyone around them. Paul had established this church on his second Missionary journey and now he was writing to encourage them. He commends them for their faith in action as they followed the teaching he gave them.

Even when our work is very hidden and no one else sees us, God does, and He is our audience! We can become the message just as the people in Thessalonica, as we live our lives for Him.

Challenge for today: Do something for someone else today in a hidden way and experience God’s applause.
Blessings on your day and prayers and love, Judy

Checklist for an Older Man

Some time ago, I read an article by Matt Fuller entitled “Reclaiming Masculinity.”  I took some notes as he expressed in the article that men should “take responsibility to lead, be ambitious for God’s kingdom, use your strength to protect the church, serve others, invest in friends and raise healthy ‘sons’.”  As I read Fuller’s challenge anew, I found myself being inspired to finish strong, but also feeling regret for missing the mark way too often over 60 years of trying to follow the Lord. 

So, I went over Fuller’s checklist to see how I have developed as a man.  After 58 years of marriage, I tried to be honest as I looked in the rearview mirror:

1) Men and women really are different – but not THAT different.  I had no idea what I was getting into when I got married.  I failed miserably, not appreciating the strengths and abilities of my wife.  I have learned a lot about being married to a “woman.” God has given me a great treasure in Judy; “she is far more precious than jewels” (Prov. 31:10).

2) Take responsibility.  Being a firstborn son, I carried the world on my shoulders. So, early on I was more concerned about “saving the world” than being present for my wife and children.  My spiritual life begins at home. 

3) Be ambitious for God.  As a pastor, I have always been “all in” for God’s kingdom.  I knew I was called to this ministry.  But I prioritized this too much, and didn’t place my wife and family first.   

4) Display thoughtful chivalry.  It took me years to really practice chivalry and truly honor my wife.  She is my “lily among thorns” (Song of Songs 2:1).  Opening doors, giving eye contact, seeking her input, and speaking well of her in public – these I had to learn.  I’m still learning to “cherish” Judy and practice chivalry. 

5) Use your strength to protect.  I assumed the role as head and protector quite naturally; I was the one who “drove the train.”  But in the process I was not sensitive to the needs of my wife and children.  I had to learn to humble myself, put their needs before mine, and ask for forgiveness when my ego got in the way of my family’s needs.

6) Invest in friendships.  Being a heart guy, I have always been relational by nature.  But when it came to developing closer relationships with other men, I had little to go on.  In my later years, I have come to value closer male friendships that make me more accountable.  I am very thankful to have Dan and Bruce in my life.

7) Raise healthy ‘sons’.  I raised two sons and have mentored other young men. They are very different  from me and from each other.  I should have listened more intently, asked better questions, and given them more of my time.   

My wife did much better in her role as my wife.  She put up with my preaching for 40 years.  And she did it wonderfully.  She is a “total, natural woman” – integrated and authentic.  She has aged much better than I, while I’ve been more like a yo-yo: up and down. 

Despite all this, I’m grateful for God’s grace in my life.  And I take heart in Paul’s struggle with his “thorn in the flesh.”  For the Lord told him, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in your weakness.”  I, like many of us,  can respond like Paul, “Therefore, I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me” (II Cor. 12:9).   

  

May 6, 2024

Dear Ones,
Hope you had a wonderful weekend. I know I enjoyed the beautiful Spring Tea with all the gals in hats and a good message by one of the gals. Today I plan to do food prep, exercise class, shopping etc.
Devotions from Judy’s heart
It is good for us to do an attitude check throughout our day as we can let our circumstances determine our outlook and become negative. Sometimes it seems to sneak up on us as one thing happens after another, and we feel ourselves slipping on a downward spiral. But we can prepare ahead of time so our response at such times will remain positive no matter what. We can only do that because God’s presence is always with us and more than sufficient! When we know He is with us in every circumstance we can view the outlook as positive. Even if things come crashing down, we can focus on the good things God is going to do in our lives through it.

I must confess when I was without my computer for 2 weeks while it was getting fixed, I wondered what good was going to come if I couldn’t my devotionals out to you who are reading this now. But Al let me use his computer to put new daily devotions on our blog site, although I couldn’t get to those individual ones of you that depend on me to send it direct. Each day it took more time than normal and some devotionals I had to write more than once as they disappeared. But I found out that I had more time, since I didn’t surf the web or play scrabble online and was able to do more studying in some great Christian books. When I did finally get my computer back, I had a great sense of gratitude and felt I had grown through this experience.

Paul sure had a good attitude when he was writing his letters in prison. He could have complained that he was doing the Lord’s work and look how it ended up. But no, he used it as his time to write and encourage others and bless them. We might say it was his pulpit to get the Good News to others, only through the written mode. Let us learn how to stand strong in adverse circumstances and maintain a positive attitude. May we not excuse ourselves and say we can’t do anything about our thinking. We can decide that even ahead of time for the Lord can give us victory over negative thinking and actions if commit ourselves and our thinking to Him. One positive thought will lead to another. A verse I learned as a child is from II Tim 1:7, For God did not give us a spirit of cowardice, but rather a spirit of power and love and self-discipline.” Let us discipline our thoughts to be positive and confident in the Lord.

Challenge for today: Catch yourself when you think negatively and turn your attention to the Lord and His power and simply trust.
Blessings on your week and prayers and love, Judy

May 4, 2024

Dear Ones,
Hope you wake to a day of sunshine and joy! Today I plan to clean and go to a Women’s Spring Tea at church with hats and white gloves!
Have you read or been told a story that seemed to speak to your heart and maybe even changed your life? Sometimes telling a story can also say what is in our heart in a way others can take in. Have you been touched by a special story that caused you to see in a new way?
Devotions from Judy’s heart
Doesn’t everyone love a good story and it can be recalled again and again. When babysat by my grandma when we were young, she always had fun stories to tell us and definitely with lots of expression. My siblings and I especially liked stories about her four mischievous nephews that were always getting in trouble and did things we had never even conceived in our minds. Our mom often read stories to us, not just from the Bible, but stories that taught us about honesty and integrity and selflessness and getting along with our siblings. Stories have much to teach us all.

I am reading another book by Eugene Peterson, Leap Over a Wall, and he uses the stories of David’s life, his victories and failures, his strengths and his flaws to teach us. Although the Bible is full of prayers, sermons, genealogies, letters, poetry etc., Peterson said our scriptures are primarily written in the form of story. Jesus was full of stories and so was Moses and others and they help reveal to us who God is. The Bible is not just a book of spiritual principles or moral guidelines but reveals God to us in ways our hearts can take in. Peterson writes, “Story is the gospel way. Story isn’t imposed on our lives; it invites us into its life.” Stories tell us how primarily how to relate to God, and I never realized it before but “the David story is the most extensive narrated single story in this large story. We know more about David than any other person in Holy scripture.” David takes up a lot of space in the Bible and shows us much of dealing with God.

When we read stories of David, we see his humanness and have to admit he was not the best father or faithful husband, but we also see how he relates to God. I often find myself praying the prayers he prayed and memorizing many of them, like Psalm 5:1-2 when I have need of forgiveness. “Have mercy on me, O God, according to your steadfast love; according to your abundant mercy blot out my transgressions. Wash me thoroughly from my iniquity, and cleanse me from my sin!”

Challenge for today: The next time you read a story in scripture, ask the Lord what He is teaching you through it.
Blessings on your day and prayers and love, Judy

May 3, 2024

Dear Ones,
Happy weekend. More rain and each day I see more buds and blossoms out my window. Ann and Leif came for coffee yesterday on their way to the cities and today I am going to do food prep and study and correspondence.
Devotions from Judy’s heart
Most days I wake up and wonder what is it that the Lord want me to write about. Sometimes everything I read from scripture in my personal devotions follows a theme, even though I read from several parts of the Bible. Today it was all about love and how we can to show His love to others. Love speaks volumes, far more than our actual words for if there isn’t love behind our words, we are just a clanging symbol! I read of a pastor with a worldwide ministry and was sharing on a TV network recording. One of the producers there told him afterwards how he could feel the love of God emanating through him as he spoke. It wasn’t his words!

 It is the love of Jesus that draws people and Paul writes in Romans 12:9-10, “Don’t just pretend to love others. Really love them. Hate what is wrong. Hold tightly to what is good. Love each other with genuine affection and take delight in honoring each other.” We are to weep with those that are in sorrow or hard situations and we are to rejoice with those who are happy and celebrating. Sometimes God wants us to love by meeting tangible needs of a person struggling, but how do we know how to do that without getting in the way of what the Lord may be working in their lives?

Before we do anything, we need to pray. Ask the Lord to show us their real need and sometimes even to check with the person, because it may not be how we see their situation. Recently a need came before Al and I and we wondered how we could help. We prayed and an idea suddenly popped into mind of how we might help in a tangible way and with it such incredible joy. We asked permission and it was granted and now we pray for more people to be aware of the need and desire to also help.

Love needs tangible ways to be expressed and let us give freely as the Lord directs.

Challenge for today: As the Holy spirit directs give to the needs of others, whether it be sharing a scripture or prayer, listening, or sitting with them as they wait for the Doctor’s report etc.
Blessings on your weekend and prayers and love, Judy
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