Canaan’s Rest represents a quiet place “set apart” for the purpose of hearing God's voice, growing in intimacy with the Lord, and being renewed in soul and spirit.

Month: February 2011 (Page 3 of 3)

Feb. 7th

Devotions from James Smith’s book, The Good and Beautiful Community.

The good and beautiful community is a generous one but sometimes we miss out because we hold false narratives. One such narrative is “God helps those who help themselves”. That is not Biblical but said by Ben Franklin who was a deist. This narrative works against generosity, and somehow it seems to get us off the hook to help someone else in need.  It is not that God helps only those who pull themselves up and get their act together and work hard.  In fact we are told in scripture not to judge those in dire straights. Even if they have bad habits and are lazy or make bad decisions, they may not always be responsible for their situation. What makes us think that our good condition is tied to our good works and that we deserve it? The truth is that God helps those who cannot help themselves.  We are all broken and helpless and we are all in need. We may work hard to earn a living and buy a home but we are still helpless. We must rely on the mercy of God every moment and He is so gracious to us.

Unaffirmed men

One of the issues related to ministry with men that is not given enough attention is the affirmation that every man needs regarding his masculinity.  Richard Rohr who has worked with men all over the world has observed, “in almost all cultures men are not born; they are made.”  “Masculinity” maintains Leanne Payne, “is a quality that is bestowed.” My own journey into greater integration with my masculine soul has involved affirmation of who I am as a man.  I remember in the early 80’s reading about depravation that occurs in the soul.  I had not ever been exposed to such a concept.  At first it was uncomfortable for me to face my own depravation.  It was like a hole in my soul.  But slowly by the grace of God I came to see my emptiness.  I was in deep need of affirmation as a man.

My story is typical of many men in our culture.  I received little affirmation from my fatheror any other significant male in my formative years.  This left a void in my soul causing me to go searching for affirmation from others and hoping to receive affirmation in what  I did.  I had to come to the realization that I was seeking  affirmation from those around me and what I was able to accomplish.  But this did not fill the hole in my soul.  My greatest help come from Leanne Payne.  She clearly has shown men that they can receive the affirmation they need from their heavenly Father.  We have a Father in heaven who delights in us. I began to learn that as I looked “up and out” Icould receive the healing, affirming word that was coming to me from my Father.  I began to see myself as God’s beloved.   

As my soul was  healed I found strength to move from a strong center within into the truth.  Without a strong, secure center within men will have difficulty to move forward in the truth.  We will either compromise the truth or just remain silent.  Leanne Payne makes a statement that I think is very significant in addressing  men’s ministry today.  “The crisis in masculinity is a crisis of the unaffirmed masculine and the inability to initate and stand for the truth.  For the power to honor the truth, to speak and to stand for the truth is at the heart of the masculine”  I am convinced that the unaffirmed masculine is one of the vital keys in restoring truth and integrity among men in the church today.  Men are being asked to do what they have no inner strenght to do.  Men are being asked to believe aspects of being a man that they cannot fully integrated because of the hole in their souls. 

For any man reading this post today, who knows that he has a hole in his soul, because his masculine soul has never received the healing word of affirmation, my best and simpliest advise is to just sit in the presence of God and learn to receive His word of affirmation for you.  Remember you can’t earn your affirmation.  You don’t even deserve affirmation.   It is purely a gift of grace coming from the heart of a heavenly Father who simply thinks you are worth loving for just who you are.  The words of the Father to Jesus are good words to continually to meditate upon until the truth reaches your heart.  “This is my Son, whom I love, with him I am well pleased” (Matt 3:17).

Feb. 5th

Devotions based on James Smith’s book, The Good and Beautiful Community

The Good and Beautiful Community is not afraid to hold us accountable. To hold someone accountable is not easy and we must do it with discernment.  In I Thess. 5:14 it says “We urge you, beloved, to admonish the idlers, encourage the faint hearted, help the weak, be patient with all of them.”  To admonish means to warn, to watch out for and to give guidance to another. When we open our lives to others, we expect they will tell give us a word of warning if we need it. But with love!  The author himself gave an example when he took on too many speaking engagements and his small group stepped in and told him he needed to cut back. We all need someone to watch out for us and also to encourage us when we lose sight or strength, when we fail or are disappointed etc. Encouragement is an important part of accountability. So often we may think of accountability as something negative but has to do with encouragement as well as keeping high expectations. We do need other Christians in our lives who are convinced that we can do great things, applauding us when we succeed or pulling us up if we fail. May we stand with each other in prayer and be encouraged, challenged, and accountable!

Feb. 4th

Devotions from James Smith’s book, The Good and Beautiful Community

In the good and beautiful community we are asked to reflect the glory that is ours as His children. This involves encouraging one another, admonishing and watching over one another in love. Also to become involved in specific activities on a regular basis that are growth-producing….like time alone with God, to making friends outside our comfort zone, to meeting regularly with an encouragement partner etc. The Spirit will help us and lead us to use our unique abilities and gifts to bless others. As we offer our gifts and resources to help others, this is a natural outflow, not a law. We are being given opportunities to live out our calling and we can do so with joy and excitement. Paul says, “Let us consider how to provoke one another to love and good deeds, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another.” Heb. 10:24-25   Let us think of how we can encourage others to love and good deeds and be close to others who do the same for us.

Feb. 3rd

Devotions based on James Smith’s book, The Good and Beautiful Community

To be both a comforting and challenging community at the same time we must remind each other of who we are, show each other what we can be, and have the courage to hold each other accountable.

Our identity is one who is loved, forgiven, cleansed, and destined for eternity. As we gather in His name we are set apart from worldly ways to be a light to the world.  In a sense we are already holy and yet we’re still learning how to be holy. We are holy yet broken, and yet a carrier of His presence and power. Some churches stress holiness in terms of behavior and get the focus on rules and not on Him. Others may not hear the message of holiness. So we need a balanced awareness that we are holy and we are broken. The author tells about a church called Claypot Church that breaks a clay jar and gives each person a piece. When the jar is reassembled it is not perfect as no church is but it contains the treasure, which is Christ.  His light can shine out of our brokenness, when we have allowed Him to heal and restore us.  Let us remind each other of who we are!!

Feb. 2nd

Devotions based on James Smith’s book, The Good and Beautiful Community

Sometimes we may think that the community exists to serve me and my needs, and that they should not tell me what to do. We live in a consumer culture and it leads us to believe we are entitled to have all of our needs met. Narcissism is present in our churches as well, and when we church shop we want one that makes us feel comfortable…one with low expectations of us as participants. But the good and beautiful community wants more… it exists to shape and guide our souls, to provide encouragement and accountability that we need. Isn’t it better to have a community that is not afraid to ask us to make a commitment to our own spiritual growth and service to others? Who offers us a pattern of transformation?  One who challenges us to become who we already are? ( One in whom Christ dwells)   Who watches over us with love, offering comfort but also warning so we can grow in Christlikeness?

As we gather together to worship we are being shaped into a people being transformed by God and being sent out to change the world.  When we leave worship as all new people, we are inspired by our connection to one another and the old old story to bring the aroma of Christ to the world.  Isn’t that awesome?

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