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Bible Sales Up

Bible sales rose 22% through October of this year compared to the same period last year.  This is from data released by Circana Bookscan. This surge in Bible sales, happened while the total U.S. print book sales was up only by 1 %.  Print Bible sales hit a five-year low of just under 8.9 million in 2020,  But sales began to tick upward again.  Sales surpassed 13.7 million in the first 10 months of this year.  

This increase in Bible sales has happened even as polls show a decline in religiosity across the country. The number of Americans who identified with a Christian religion hit a low of 68% last year,  according to Gallup.  A half a century ago, 87 adults in the U. S. identified as Christian, according the the polling of Gallup.  According to Pew Research, 28% of American adults are now religiously unaffiliated.

In the opinion of Bishop Robert Barron, bible sales is evidence of “a renewed search for meaning, purpose and value.” He points out the Bible in Western civilization has been, “the main source of meaning, purpose and value.”  He goes on to say, “I think people are turning back to the Bible in greater numbers” because they’re looking for meaning, purpose and value and they sense they will find it in the Bible.  Barron added that he hasn’t been surprised by rising rates of depression, anxiety and suicidal ideation among young people.  “That’s what happens,” observes the Bishop, “when you say there’s no meaning or purpose.”

The Bible surge could be a natural consequence of a general feeling of anxiety in our world, since our foundations as a nation are based on Scriptural principles.  Could we be living in the days when  Amos prophesied,  “The day are coming,” declares the Sovereign Lord, “when I will send a famine through the land – not a famine of food or a thirst for water, but a famine of hearing the words of the Lord” (Amos 8:11).  He portrays people desperately searching for the word of the Lord. “Men will stagger from sea to sea and wander from north to east, search for the word of the Lord but they will not find it” (Amos 8:12).  Jesus reminds us, “It is written: ‘Man does not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God'” (Matt. 4:4).  

As I look back over my life as a follower of Jesus, I am very thankful for God’s grace  experienced in my journey, enabling me to be a faithful workman who is not ashamed.  I identify with Paul’s exhortation to young Timothy, “Do your best to present yourself to God one approved, a workman who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth” (II Tim. 2:15).   I have always believed in the efficiency of God’s Word to inspire and do the work of formation in the lives of those who hear and respond to Scripture.  “All scripture, breathed as it is by God, is useful for teaching, for rebuke, for improvement, for training in righteousness, so that people who belong to God may be complete, fitted out and ready for every good work” (II Tim. 3:16-17 Wright). 

Scripture can be seen as God’s “love letter.”  Our culture is desperate to hear some “Good News.”  God tells us that he loved us so much that He sent His only Son to die for us (John 3:16).  Scripture tells us of being made in God’s image.  He has created us uniquely to serve him (Eph. 2:10).  His love letter tells us all he has done for us,  while carrying us to the end (Is. 46:4).  He is preparing a homecoming for us (John 14:1-4).  

 

The Incarnation and a Disembodied age

During this Christmas season, we are celebrating the Incarnation.  In Hebrews 1: 2-3, we read, “And now in these final days, he has spoken to us through his Son.  God promised everything to the Son as an inheritance, and through the Son he created the universe.  The Son radiates God’s own glory and expresses the very character of God, and he sustains everything by the mighty power of his command.”  In our day of social chaos and ideological conflict, I am stuck by the fact of Jesus, “sustaining” everything by the word of his command.  Col. 1:17 declares, “He is before all things, and in him all things hold together.”

Imagine this marvelous reality: The one who hold and sustains all of creation together, came into this world to live among us.  This is “Good News” in a world where we feel disconnected from reality. The disciples of Jesus were earnest in  wanting us to know their first hand account of the incarnation.  “From the very first day, we were there, taking it all in  – we heard it with our own ears, saw it with our own eyes, verified it with our own hands.  The Word of Life appeared right before our eyes: we saw it happen! And now we’re telling you in most sober prose that what we witnessed was, incredibly, this: The Infinite Life of God himself took shape before us” (I John 1:1-3 – Message).

There were no cameras to document the appearance of the Son of God.  The disciples preserved the incarnation  in “sober prose.”  “We heard him, we saw him, we even live close enough to touch him.  It actually happened!  We are witnesses of this fact! The incarnation took place right before our very eyes.”  Leanne Payne exhorts 21st century believers to have faith in “the incarnational reality.”

C. S. Lewis believed that the Incarnation is at the very center of God’s redemptive plan for the world: “The central miracle asserted by Christians is the Incarnation.  They say that God became Man.  Every other miracle prepares for this, or exhibits this, or results from this.”

Lewis goes on to maintain that without  the incarnation, there would be no Jesus story: “Just as every natural event is the manifestation at a particular place and moment of Nature’s total character, so every particular Christian miracle manifests at a particular place and moment the character and significance of the Incarnation.  There is no question in Christianity of arbitrary interferences just scattered about.  It relates not a series of disconnected raids on Nature but the steps of a strategically coherent invasion – an invasion which intends complete conquest and ‘occupation.'” 

I suggest that we use the word “occupation” in visualizing God invading “enemy” territory here on earth as the Son of God.  Let us celebrate anew the Christmas story as in invasion.  Breakpoint observes, “It’s a mystery…..but as humanity journeys further into this digital age, the idea of incarnation will only become increasingly strange.  This virtual world of high-speed internet, social media, smartphones, and the cloud is increasingly disembodied…….It is essential to dive as deeply as possible into all of the implications of the Incarnation, not just in making sense of Christmas, but also responding to the challenges of our disembodied age.”

Jesus became a man and lived among us.  When I feel detached and separated from the reality of my life, I can gaze on Jesus, knowing he has gone before me and faced all of my obstacles and struggles.  “We must look ahead, to Jesus.  He is the one who carved out the path for faith, and he’s the one who brought it to completion” (Heb. 12:2 – Wright).  

 

 

December 26, 2024

Dear Ones,
Hope each of you had a wonderful day yesterday to Celebrate Jesus’ birthday. We enjoyed time with many about 40 relatives here at the hotel with sharing, lots of food, games and fun! We are going to see my brother and sister-in-law’s apartment this morning and then more relatives coming by in the afternoon and pizza and games tonight.
Devotions from Judy’s heart
How many of us find it difficult to say “no” to others and wind up being overcommitted and pressed for time and even “burned out.” Maybe we think as a Christian it is unspiritual to say no when others have expectations of us but that is not so. If we say yes to all the demands of others, we will end up like the pastor Craig Cooney who was diagnosed with low-level burnout and depression and almost destroyed his ministry… but he got help. I want to share some of his practical wisdom and if you are in such a similar situation, you may want to read his whole article. He learned he could set boundaries and when needed say NO!

All of us should choose our friends wisely as we aren’t able to spend time with everyone, and sometimes we need boundaries even with those who become close to us. When they are taking up too much of our time, and we are getting stressed we can speak up and make changes. We can offer to get together every other week instead of every week or tell them you only have so much time and then end it, at the set time. I use to have someone call every morning for an hour and it became too much as I was a busy pastor’s wife. Back then I didn’t know how to limit it without hurting her feelings. We don’t need to apologize or give long explanations but rather that we feel the Lord is directing us in a certain way. Of course, we can’t control how others will respond ether but we can keep boundaries as a form of selfcare: we can’t give to others if we are worn out and our bucket is empty.

Boundaries help us to be physically, emotionally and spiritually healthy so we can serve God best and most effectively. If others don’t respect our boundaries, we may need to put firmer ones in place or it may even get to removing ourselves from a relationship. Coonie writes that boundaries are a sign of maturity and self-respect. They give us direction and protection so we don’t live according to the demands of others but help us be healthy and fruitful. Then we can be more intentional about seeking the Lord, reading the Word and enjoying His presence.

Challenge for today: Don’t get distracted by relationships that consume your time but set boundaries and make changes so you have time and space to focus on the Lord.
Blessings on your day and prayers and love, Judy

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The Transition to Ambivalent World

“The transition to Ambivalent World” is the title of an article in World Magazine by pastor Seth Troutt.  It got my attention.  As the teaching pastor at Ironwood Church in Arizona, I think this young pastor is alerting us to a shift in our culture.  “The vibes have shifted and young men in America are more open to the gospel than they have been for decades, and we mostly have podcast culture to thank for that.”  I for one, as an “old timer” do not listen to or pay much attention to the cultural influencers on the internet.  But the thought of an “Ambivalent World” got me wondering.

Troutt makes the argument that we are moving out of the negative world (2015 – present).   From his point of view, ” [A] Negative World is already disintegrating and giving rise to a fourth epoch: Ambivalent World.”  He sees this shift as fragmented since it is gendered and generational.  “While young men are breaking conservative and religious – even more religious than women for the first time ever – young women are increasingly identifying as liberal.  This means we aren’t returning to a Neutral World, but we’re wading into a split world filled with mixed emotions and divergent plausibility structures.”  

Troutt describes ambivalence as “the coexistence of conflicting feelings.”  “America today,” Troutt believes, “craves moral coherence and resists it, it seeks transcendence while reveling in immanence.  Troutt mentions “Reality Respecters (Joe Rogan) and Meaning Makers (Jordon Peterson).”  He goes on to observe, “Those who respect reality won’t stand for the erasure of biological facts, and the Meaning Makers won’t settle for nihilistic existential answers to questions about meaning.  They’ll have libertarian instincts as it relates to authority and traditional assumptions about gender.  They’ll be open but cautious about the Bible.”  It seems to Troutt that those most likely to covert are “fleeing reality denying epistemologies by yanking the wheel to the right.” 

Troutt give this caution.  “Churches must recognize that no matter what, their rhetoric will alienate some while resonating deeply with others, but churches that want to reach the next generation of young men should orient their communication and missional emphasis in such a way that the Reality Respecters and Meaning Maker (i.e., people who listen to Joe Rogan and Jordon Peterson) will feel understood and seen.”   We need to be paying attention.

Pastor Troutt has certainly made me more aware of shift taking place in our culture, especially among young men. As a elder I need to be open minded.  It very well could be that we are headed into a time of confusion and uncertainty, rather than the assumed negative stance to the “Good News.”  Here is what I must pay attention to in the days to come.

First, this shift is “gendered and generational.”  The voice of Scripture will be met with mixed responses.  Yet we have lived for years under a cloud of suspicion regarding God’s design for male and female.  Men can be exemplars of God’s intentions .

Secondly, pay attention to the influence of the “reality respecters” and  “meaning makers.”  Men are hungering for reality and meaning, in the midst of “coexistence of conflicting feelings.”

Thirdly, we live in a time when young men are struggling with identity (reality) and wanting to know the best way to journey through the confusion of our time.  Could it be that God is opening a door for the “Good News.” “See, I have placed before you an open door that no one can shut” (Rev. 3:8). 

Fourthly, while I am in the “fourth quarter” of my journey, I desire to be a voice crying in the wilderness, for men to come home to Jesus.

 

“Toxic Femininity”

Mark Hemingway wrote a insightful article in the Federalist entitled, “We need to have a national conversation about ‘Toxic Femininity.'” While the author agrees that male violence and misogyny need to be addressed, the rise of internet culture has given rise to “toxic” masculinity.  By “successfully branding men as toxic,” Hemingway point out,  “no one hesitates anymore before disparaging men, whereas huge swaths of Americans are loathe to criticize feminism or make generalizations about women. Even when we can say that feminism has become, very literally toxic.”  

Hemingway maintains that many women don’t fully understand that everything is not about them.  “I don’t doubt,” he notes, “that years of reflective belittling of men affected the way they voted in this election.”  He goes on to say, “Men between ages 18-29 shifted a staggering 30 points to the right (and, worth noting women in the same age cohort also swung right, albeit less dramatically).” But he does not think “men voted for Trump to intentionally to spite women, or that they were susceptible to political programming.”

He points out that it is the women who have been radicalized.  The “discourse” has for a long time been  focused on men being inherently bad.  Many women have forgotten that, “men have their own needs and aspirations that don’t resolve around accepting a lowly place in an intersectional hierarchy.”  

Hemingway then makes a statement, which I can embrace.  “The problem is that healthy masculinity is best realized not by erasing the distinctions between men and women or catering to one over the other, but by embracing the complementarity of the two sexes.  Whether they resent this being mansplaining or not, women have a responsibility to be the nurturing and moderating influence on men the same way men have a responsibility to channel their aggressive tendencies to provide for and defend women.”  

He concludes by saying, “I don’t have any ideas about how to go about helping these women find peace, but the conversation we need to have can’t begin and end with threatening men, ceding to radically left-wing political demands……For now, the first step is to admit you have a problem, and toxic femininity is a real thing we’re going to have to confront and deal with before it drags the whole country over the edge.”

Again, I am politically neutral, but I do believe that this past election cycle indicated a widening gap between man and female attitudes about the sexuality, especially the younger population.  I desire the courage to address the damaging effects of “toxic femininity,” while keeping a focus on the failure of men in our culture.  I want to speak up for men, while admitting the toxicity of both men and women.   Here is what it means for me.

First, live informed by a  Christian worldview.   I have assurance in being created in the image of God as a man.  God declared, “Then God created man, he made him in the likeness of God.  He created them male and female and blessed them.” (Gen 5:1-2).   This is God’s design for human relationships. 

Secondly, my affirmation as a man, comes from my heavenly Father,  As I receive assurance of my masculinity, I can walk in integrity and not apologize for being a man,  be simplify myself, secure in my masculinity.   This has been a lifelong journey, often very painful and confusing.   

Thirdly, I will humbly walk out the implication of being a man, while acknowledging the harm done to women. Because of sin, both male and female can be “toxic.”

Fourthly, I will celebrate the need of the feminine in my journey to wholeness as a man. Thank God for my wife of 59 years. 

 

The Gender Gap Exposed (#4)

Richard V. Reeves, who has become an outspoken voice for boys, had some insightful observations about the election, in his blog  entitled, “Memo to Dems: Don’t blame sexism,” with a subtitle, “Or it will be longer than four years in the political wilderness.”  He is rather blunt when he points out, “If the Democrats conclude that sexism propelled Donald Trump to victory, their spell in the political wilderness will last a lot longer than four years.”   Reeves believes, “There is no strong evidence that young men are turning against gender equality.”  But Reeves does believe, ” they [young men] have turned away from the left because the left has turned away from them.  The problems of young men are not the confections of reactionaries.  This is a story of elite neglect, not voter chauvinism.”  

Then Reeves recites a litany of issues regarding men and boys as he  called attention to: “Suicide rates among men under 30 have risen by 40 % since 2010 and are four times higher than among young women.   Male suicide accounts for as many deaths as breast cancer.  Men are less likely than women to go to college or buy a house.  They are more likely to be lonely and are more vulnerable to addiction.  Young white men from lower-income homes are worse off than their fathers on almost every economic and social indicator.  There is a bigger gender gap on the campuses today than in 1972 – when the government passed Title IX to prevent sex-based discrimination in education – but today the disparities in college enrollment and performance are the other way around.”

In Reeves’ opinion the Democrats and progressives have “a massive blind spot” with male issues.  “Men are seen not as having problems but as being the problem.”  Young men have resisted terms like “toxic masculinity” and “patriarchy” specially as they struggle to find their place in the economy.  “For too long,” observes Reeves, “the gender debate has been trapped in a zero-sum frame.”  “Policy makers have overlooked the challenges that are increasingly affecting boys and men, seeing them as somehow in conflict with their efforts on behalf of girls and women.”

The results of the elections should bring about a new approach to boys and men and the issues they care about.  Reeves closes with this observation.  “Voters are capable of holding two thoughts in their head at once: that there is much more work to do for women and girls, and that we must also pay more attention to the  challenge facing boys and men.  In the end, we rise together.” 

Here are some of my thoughts after digesting Reeves’ blog:

1. It seems Reeves has become more outspoken for men and boys.  I believe the time has come for the rest of us to dare speak up for a Christian model of man and wife, going back to creation. “He created them male and female, and blessed them” (Gen. 5:2).  We can grow in “speaking the truth in love” (Eph 4:15).

2. My wife and I, have lived with a complementarity view of marriage for almost 60 years.  I am calling men back to consider anew the challenge of Jesus. “Haven’t you read that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female'” (Matt. 19:4).  Lord, help me be a good example.

3.  There is a desperate need for older men, like myself to reach the younger generation.  I am grateful and humbled at how God has carried Judy and I over these years. “I will be your God throughout your lifetime – until your hair is white with age.  I made you, and I will care for you.  I will carry you along and save you” (Is. 46:3b-4).  

 

 

 

The Gender Gap Exposed (#3)

John Halsey Wood Jr. from Wake Forest University wrote an interesting substack on the recent election, exploring how traditional gender dynamics influenced the 2024 presidential election, noting that “Masculinity [was] indicted by association.”  He goes on to offer his hypothesis: “The political differences between men and women in the ’24 election stem from the different social proclivities of men and women.”  Wood agrees there is agreement concerning men and women in our cultural narrative, but significant disagreement between good or bad. 

Wood astutely points out the differences between male and female in course of the election cycle.   The differences, “suggest that men tend to be more outward-directed and women tend to be more inward-directed.  The masculine ethos tends to emphasize mission, defiance, and action, while the feminine ethos tends to emphasize consensus-building, relational connection and joy.  Women are centripetal and men are centrifugal, and somehow, together they keep the plants in alignment.”  The differences seem to be in our souls, having penetrated deep into our “cultural imagination.”  The differences can lead to a conflict between, what Wood refers to as the, “mission and manor,” that is, being either outward or inward orientation.

Wood believes the Trump campaign “felt more masculine” while Harris campaign “felt more feminine.”  “Harris’s campaign foregrounded the feminine consensus-building impulse by her appeal to joy.  Trump’s power lay in his appeal to difference, his willingness to buck the system, drain the swamp, and his repudiation of established political mores.”  Wood points out the  gender differences in the supporters of both candidates, especially the extreme ones.  “When Trump lost, his most extreme supporters went out and rioted….Trump provided them with a sense of mission even in defeat.”   However, “when Harris lost, her most extreme supporters stayed in and took self-care days.”  

Anthony Bradley, in response to this article, offers the following, “Wood cautions against oversimplifying these dynamics, emphasizing that while gendered differences are real, they are not inherently good or bad.  Instead, they reflect complementary approaches that, when balanced, can enrich social and political life. For instance, men’s outward focus on leadership and mission pairs with women’s inward emphasis on relational cohesion to create a fuller picture of human engagement.”

Wood gives an example from his marriage.  He reflects how his wife tells him to turn left out of the driveway, even though it is familiar to him.  He muses, “If I tell her to turn left it’s because I am conveying information.  If she tells me to turn left it’s because she is building consensus.  She’s maintaining contact.  Directions are a means to that end…….If I don’t know where I am going when I exist the driveway, as the proverb goes, any road will get me there.  She’s there to make sure we arrive together.”

What is  interesting to me, is the response of my wife and myself, as we watched both of the candidates giving their “stump” speeches.  My wife saw too much feminine inwardness, while I respected Trump for his strength, looking for more humility and  compassion.  My wife and I are committed to the complementarity model, with the husband as the head and the wife as the very necessary helpmate.  It seems the election revealed deeper societal patterns rooted in historical and cultural perceptions of masculinity and femininity.  

I believe one of the most effective model in the day to come will be our marriages.  I will be tested for my part in marriage.  I heed the words of I Peter 3:7 “Husbands must give honor to your wives.  Treat your wife with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you, but she is your equal partner in God’s gift of new life.” 

 

 

The Gender Gap exposed (#2)

The recent election has exposed a gender gap in our culture.  Mary Eberstadt wrote a very concise article in First Things on this subject.  She begins by observing, “Red and blue Americans are locked in a hostile custody battle” with an awareness that”the gender gap has never been wider.”  The Wall Street Journal reported in July of young men leaning more rightward than young women.  She noted the influence of online “alpha males” where young men hear, “the song that today’s young men sing among themselves sound the same – and only the political right seems to be listening.”  

“The Intellectual Dark Web”  is populated by men finding a fusion between repudiating identity politics and standing for freedom of expression.  In regards to identity politics, there seems to be a “synergy between enthusiasm for sports and contempt for political correctness.”  The doomed 2023 Bud Light ad,  united bros found a “cause that their enlightened betters couldn’t shut down,” in a rebuke of gender bending.  Forbidden wisdom can be heard on the Web: “men and women are different, sterilizing kids is wrong, marriage and family are the way to go.”

Eberstadt observes, “Today’s New Right, like today’s populism, is powered in large part by a search for male authority, direction and amour propre – a triad visible to anyone who can spell ‘Jordon Peterson.'”   “Today’s young men,” believes Eberstadt,  “don’t need another nanny……. they need something…….lacking at home and searching for in politics.” They need a “daddy.”  She observes in our day, “superior players haven’t a clue anymore about what makes young men tick – whether it’s driving fast, failing to ask strangers for directions, treating Sunday football like church, or saving a subway car full of strangers from disaster……these players haven’t only lost the script about young men.  They’ve unlearned the alphabet of human nature.”

Eberstadt notes the need for “male self-respect.”  “It’s grounded in the belief that rules exist and retain their authority, from baseball to church to war……The real mystery in the political sex imbalance isn’t about boys and men, but girls and women.”  Since the 1960’s we’ve heard the same message, “men are bad; the future is feminine, career first, egg-freezing next; the best ending after falling for someone and making a baby together is to get rid of it.”  

Eberstadt ends by noting how the creation story has been passed over by seeing men and women as  “minor anatomical variations.”  “If that were true, the gender gap wouldn’t exist in the first place.  Politics didn’t create this divide.  But in the political quarterbacking to come, its real origins demand a closer, more empathic look than they’ve yet gotten anywhere.”

Wow, I rejoice in a strong Catholic woman saying what I’ve needed courage to say.  Our culture has, “not only lost the script,” but we have “unlearned the alphabet of human nature.” The real origins of male and female will “demand a closer, more empathetic look then they’ve yet gotten anywhere.” I began writing this blog in the summer of 2009.  That is 14 years ago, when I was 68.  Through the 70’s into the confusion of our day, I have attempted to help men with their masculinity.  In 1968 the gender issue was not such a hot topic as it is today.  I have watched male issues change and evolve.   

The exposing of the gender gap, at least for me, is a wake up call to continue with the “wild man journey.”  I ask all who read this blog to join the struggle.  “Therefore, my beloved brothers, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that in the Lord your labor is not in vain.” ( II Cor. 15:58)

 

 

Exposing the Gender Gap (#1)

As expected there has been a great deal of discussion regarding the results of the election.  Personally the results have confirmed views I have expressed on masculinity.  Of special interest to me are the voting trends of young men and male minorities.  While I have remained steadfast in my neutrality, due to the deep political divide in our culture, and my commitment to Jesus and his Kingdom as the ultimate answer, I find the “gender gap” phenomenon of great interest.  There is much that is insightful for the “wild man” journey.

I must confess, bringing clarity to the discussion is not my strength.  However, there is so much which is obvious that I feel I can share.  Much of what I have absorbed, as a elderly, white, Christian male has been reinforced by my wonderful wife of 59 years.  I consider our deep discussion on gender roles a valuable point of reference for younger men, trying to make sense of “the gender wars” of our day.  So this could lead into a series of blogs. 

First, Aaron Renn’s observations.  He observes, “As had been said by others, there’s a difference between being a good man and being good at being a man.  Masculine virtues and expectations are not exactly amoral, but can often be expressed in both good and bad ways.”  Using the attempted assassination of Trump and his now iconic shout of “fight, fight,”  Renn believes “Trump’s courage under actual fire helps to explain his appeal to men, especially young men.”  For me personally, while acknowledging Mr. Trump’s moral flaws and lack of Christian character, I raise up in admiration when He want to fight for “the little, forgotten guy” and the neglected American.

Renn, using anthropologist David Gilmore’s work, notes, “Trump, for all his flaws, models many traditional masculine attributes that young men would do well to adopt.”  The former president is “high energy” and competitive, challenging young men who are getting launched.  He is “in the arena” willing to take substantial public risks.  He is capable of what Gilmore calls “absolute freedom of movement,” that is, he will press on despite overwhelming opposition.  And as Renn notes, “He even went back to hold another rally at the place where he was shot.”  Older and younger men, who are followers of Jesus need to be “engaged,” “in the arena” and willing to “press on” no matter what the cost.  As a man I admire Trump for this tough-nosed qualities.

Here is some sound advise from Renn.  “Young men must wed Trump’s masculine attributes to greater moral integrity and a mature style…. assertive manhood is not inherently toxic.  Even conservatives have too often equated being a good man with being a dutiful doormat.  Healthy masculinity is agentic, aggressive, competitive, courageous, and generous, productive,  moral and dignified.  Men need not consider these values to be in conflict.”

As a senior, who has lived through the cultural wars of the 60’s down through the present age, I know from personal experience of Gilmore’s conclusion that “cultures generally define manhood as an earned status.”  My favorite way of expressing masculinity in our day, is for men to see themselves as both “the lion” and “the lamb” (that is, tough and tender).  Jesus was the perfect lamb sacrificed for our sin, yet he is “the Lion of the tribe of Judah” (Rev. 5:5). The Revelation declares the Lamb as overcoming. “They will make war against the Lamb, but the Lamb will overcome them because he is Lord of Lords and King of King” (Rev. 17:14).  We are his followers are learning to tough and tender.

 

 

There Will Be No Delay

Chapter 12 of Ezekiel records two dramatic prophecies.  The first (3-16) is an enactment of God’s people going into exile.  The second (17-28) dramatizes the stress that is experienced by the impending disaster.   In verse 18 the Lord informs Ezekiel, “Son of man, tremble as you eat your food.  Drink your water with fear, as if it were your last.”  Ezekiel was to give this message to the people because, “they will eat their food with trembling and sip their tiny portions of water in utter despair, because their land will be stripped bare on account of their violence” ( 19).  God was asking Ezekiel to roleplay a captive in Jerusalem at the time of the siege on the city.  God was giving fair warning regarding the stress and anxious in the days ahead.  Could this apply to our nation?  Will we experience a collective collapse emotionally and spiritually?    

Then in verses 21-28 the prophet warns the people that judgment was about to come.  Less than six years after these warnings were given, Jerusalem would be captured.  The people had come to believe an often-quoted proverb, “Times passes, making a lair of every prophet” (22).  But Ezekiel was to give a new meaning to the proverb, replacing the contemporary proverb. “The time has come for every prophecy to be fulfilled” (23).  God does not favor all “the false visions and misleading predictions about peace in Israel. (12:24).  The Lord declares, “For I am the Lord!  What I threaten always happens.  There will be no more delays, you rebels of Israel!  I will fulfill my threat of destruction in your own lifetime” (25).

The Lord spoke further about the apathy of the people.  “Son of man, the people of Israel are saying, ‘His visions won’t come true for a long, long time'” (27).   But God wants them to know there will be, “No more delay! I will now do everything I have threatened! I, the Sovereign Lord, have spoken.” (28). There was a dismissive attitude about the words of Ezekiel, in which the people acknowledged the prophet’s words, but really wondering if his timing was off.  The people could not fathom the fall of Jerusalem.  In effect, they were saying “Right word, but wrong timing, Ezekiel.  Good try!” But the Lord who gives the word will also bring it to pass, without fail.   

Recently my wife and I were on a spiritual retreat with another couple we have known for many years.  We had plenty time alone. During one of those times, I felt I was being asked to answer three questions.  Each of these relate to this passage in Ezekiel.  1) Are you ready? 2) How are you preparing? and 3) Are you willing to suffer?  I would like to reflect on each three questions for men in the light of our cultural propensity to avoid the thought of God’s eminent judgment on our nation.

First, are we ready.  Jesus warns us, “So you also must be ready, because the Son of Man will come at an hour when you do not expect him” ( Matt. 24:44).  We are not the follow Jesus as “part-timers.”  We need to be all in for the long haul.

Secondly, are we prepared?  Remember the story of the ten virgins?  Only the virgins who had enough oil in their lamps were able to meet the bridegroom.  Men, do we have enough “oil” in our spiritual lamps for the days to come?

Thirdly, are we willing to stand and suffer.  Jesus warned, “All men will hate you because of me.  But not a hair of your head will perish.  By standing firm you will gain life” (Luke 21:17-19). Our confidence is in Jesus, but the coming days will bring stormy weather.

    

 

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