Canaan's Rest

Canaan’s Rest represents a quiet place “set apart” for the purpose of hearing God's voice, growing in intimacy with the Lord, and being renewed in soul and spirit.

May 21, 2025

Dear Ones,
Hope you have a wonderful day. We got a lot of rain yesterday so things are really greening up again. I am going to do food prep and go to exercise class, crafts and Bible study today.
Devotions from Judy’s heart
Have you ever noticed how some people think that rules don’t apply to them as they are the exception? Somehow they feel they are a little superior to others and have not yet come to the realization that they are like everyone else with sinful thoughts, weaknesses and pride. But none of us are without sin and it is humbling to let others see us as we really are without our masks; the road to humility is long.
I think we all have seen the scenario online of the gal who looks beautiful all dressed up and made up. But when she starts taking off her false eye lashes, wig and special enhancements, the guy is shocked realizing she is not who she pretends to be and proceeds to ditch her. Maybe we don’t hide our real self from others to that degree, but we may think in our hearts that we are not as bad off as someone else and perhaps a little more put together. But we won’t taste real freedom until we know our true state of heart.
Pride puts up barriers between us and the Lord. I was reading from Psalm 119 today and verse 71 says, “It is good for me that I was humbled, so that I might learn your statutes:” It is a good thing when we recognize our true state and in humility are open to the Lord to learn from Him, ready to take His words to heart. By nature, we are all self-centered, spending so much time thinking about ourselves and perhaps even having a false sense of humility. Maybe we have a role we play, but we need to live in truth and know we need God’s grace just like others.
Let us remember we are all sinful and need God’s grace while also extending that grace to others. None of us are perfect so let us not be boastful, but grateful for the Lord’s unconditional love that accepts us as we are while transforming us more and more into His image.
Challenge for today: Be humble, live in truth, and receive God’s love and grace even when you exhibit unlovely behavior.
Blessings on your day and prayers and love, Judy

May 20, 2025

Dear Ones,
Hope you have a sunny day! We are hoping for warmer weather and to see the sun today. I am going to bake and do food prep and go to Women’s Bible Study this morning.
Devotions from Judy’s heart
How do we deal with troubles and losses in our lives? Do we immediately respond by putting blame on others and God, or maybe get down and depressed? Hopefully we turn to the Lord and pray about the circumstance we may be in and ask for His help. I have been reading about Job and marvel at his response to losing his sons and daughters, cattle, and servants in one day and yet he didn’t blame God. Instead, he worshiped and said to the Lord, “Naked I came from my mother’s womb, and naked shall I return. The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord.” (Job 1:21) Wow!
We may wonder what we would do under such hard circumstances. Would we fold under the stress and give up, or would we listen to the Lord and ask Him what he is saying to us through the trying time and seek to grow through it? Recently a friend was sharing about her life and although I have known her for a long time, I did not know her hard beginnings. When she was only 4 years old her mom took her and her sister to her grandma’s house, told her she didn’t want her daughters anymore and she could have the brats! The two girls never heard from their mom after that. Later in life, my friend’s own daughter all of a sudden cut her off with no explanation, never to see her again or to let her know her grandkids. Rejection again! You would think that she might deal with depression and wonder why God allowed these things to happen to her. But that is not her response. She shares how the Lord has been with her all throughout her life, her surgeries and everyday happenings, and has been so faithful. Not a hint of self-pity but praise to the Lord. I told her I marvel at her attitude, but she responded with words of how the Lord has always been faithful to her.
It reminds me of a. song from Hillsong:
”Lord of all the earth/ How You care for me/ You have made me/ You will save and carry me always
You are faithful/ You are faithful/ You are faithful/ Your joy is my strength
Lord you are my God/ I rely on You/ I put my hope in things not seen/ Your promises all true/ Always you’re with me/ Your hand will lift me/ My trust is in your hands/ Always you’re with me/ Your hand will lift me/ My trust is in your hands.”
Challenge for today: Thank the Lord for when He has carried you through times of trouble and give Him praise.
Blessings on your day and prayers and love, Judy

The Wounds of Fatherhood

Anthony Bradley writes how pop music “cries out” regarding fatherlessness in our culture.  “For decades, popular music has served as a powerful medium for artists to grapple with personal trauma, none more resonant than the wounds inflicted by bad fathers.  From abandonment to emotional neglect, musicians have transformed their pain into melody, offering listeners both catharsis and a window into the lifelong consequences of paternal failure.  In the late twentieth and early twenty-first centuries, a wave of songs emerged that directly confronted the heartbreak of absentee or neglectful fathers, spanning genres and generations in a cultural reckoning with broken families.” 

Bradley, who obviously knows the lyrics,  gives this warning, “The voices of these artists…… are cultural testimonies to the devastating impact of fatherlessness…..The depth of rage, sorrow and longing found in these lyrics makes one thing abundantly clear: the failure of fathers is not just a personal failing, but a social epidemic with generational consequences…..The pain of these artists is not theoretical…….The sociological research confirms what the music has been screaming for decades: children need their fathers…..These songs, then, are more than expressions of personal grief.  They are warnings….a father’s absence is never forgotten.  It lingers in the lyrics, in the broken relationships, in the struggles for self-worth, in the desperate search for love in all the wrong places.”   

And as Bradley reminds us if nothing changes, “these same songs will continue to be written, decade after decade, generation after generation, an eternal echo of a crisis we refuse to confront.”   

Bradley comments on the lyrics of various pop artists.  He mentions Eric Clapton’s “My Father’s Eyes” (1998) as a haunting lament about longing for a father he never met, filled with deep sorrow.  Kelly Clarkson in “Because of You” (2004) speaks to the deep scars of abandonment.  Everclear’s “Father of Mine” (1997) rages against a father’s absence.  The song express the brutal realities of growing up without a father.  

Hip-hop has been an unflinching genres when it comes to fatherlessness. 2Pac’s “Papa’z Song” (1993) expresses longing, rage, and self-reliance at a father’s absence.  Jay-Z and Beanie Sigel’s lyrics are like a verbal assault, demanding answers for years of neglect.  Earl Sweatshirt’s “Day” (2015) suggests that some wounds will never heal.   Kendrick Lamar laments the impact of a father’s presence as a generational and cultural wound.  In “U” (2015) Lamar shares to deep self-hatred resulting from family struggles and abandonment.  In J. Coles unreleased “Dear Father” (2011) is a song about abandonment and the internal war that rages in a son left to wonder why he wasn’t enough for his father to stay.   

Many of these artists have spent their lives struggling with the question:”Why wasn’t I worth staying for?” And even more hauntingly: “Am I doomed to repeat the sins of my father?”  “Every absent father, every abusive father, every neglected father leaves a wound and those wounds do not simply fade.  They fester, they metastasize, they are passed down.  Fatherlessness is not just a private heartbreak – it is a crisis that shapes our families, our communities, and our nation. It lingers in the lyrics, in the broken relationships, in the struggles  for self-worth, in the desperate search for love in all the wrong places.” 

This article spoke deeply to my heart as a father.  I raised three children and am grandfather to eight grandchildren.  Bradley’s remarks made me reflect my fathering and the wounds I have left.  I am thankful early in my marriage for knowing God’s order for the family  I was committed to doing my best as a Dad.  For the ways I was not a good father, I have asked my children for forgiveness.     

 

 

May 19, 2025

Dear Ones,
Hope you had a wonderful weekend and stayed warm. It was only 36 degrees yesterday morning when I got up and I decided to wear something warm to church rather than a sundress! Today I plan to go to Aldi’s and my exercise class and do some writing.
Devotions from Judy’s heart
Today we live in a society where change is rampant and occurs every day. It seems as if a group doesn’t meet our expectations, we move on to another group. If our job gets difficult and we aren’t treated just right, it’s move on to something else. Church hopping is at an all-time high, for if we don’t like how the pastor is handling a situation or we disagree with a view presented we find another church. Somehow, I don’t think that is what God intends, for if we run away when things get tense, we won’t grow in new ways through our circumstances.
I read recently that the Benedictine monks take a vow of stability and make a commitment to stay with the same community for the rest of their lives. I’m sure each monk takes his time before he makes the decision and is received into a community. We could also say in marriage we are making a commitment to our mate to stay together until death, but many give up on their marriage if they become tired or bored rather than stay in their marriage and work at it.
It’s important we all are content and faithful in the situations God puts us and with the people that He has placed in our lives. These are very ones He has chosen to help us and He will use to speak truth to us so we grow in new ways. We should not rush out the first exit door and go to a new situation where anything goes and we are not accountable. Paul said in Eph.4:15-16 that “God wants us to grow up, to know the whole truth and tell it in love—like Christ in everything. We take our lead from Christ, who is the source of everything we do. He keeps us in step with each other. His very breath and blood flow through us, nourishing us so that we will grow up healthy in God, robust in love.”
We grow as we remain in the place where God puts us, for as long as He determines. We need to be humble, attentive and learn what He is teaching us. We might think of it as God’s school for us and He will let us know when we are ready to move on.
Challenge for today: Don’t run away from the place God has put you, but be an eager and humble learner that you may grow up healthy in the Lord.
Blessings on your week and prayers and love, Judy

May 17, 2025

Dear Ones,
Happy weekend! Hope the weather warms up soon! Hard to believe it is in the 80’s one day and then drops to 40’s. I was perfectly content to stay in yesterday and bake etc.  I plan to clean the apartment and do some food prep etc. today
Devotions from Judy’s heart
I love to see those who have the gift of hospitality and are so eager and quick to welcome others, looking to meet their needs. Sometimes it is so obvious to Al and I and we can nod at one another recognizing the person serving us has that gift. They tend to anticipate the needs of others and are quick to provide. When we stay overnight, those with hospitality usually have a basket in our room with guest amenities, snacks, etc. and we are made to feel welcome and not an imposition.
The monks readily welcome visitors, for they look at each guest as they if they are welcoming Christ. For as we do it for a stranger, we are welcoming the Lord. It says in Matt. 25 that what we do for someone hungry or thirsty or sick or naked, etc., we are doing it for Him. Monks may greet a stranger at the door with joy and humbly bow for they feel they are welcoming the Lord. They don’t base their greetings on whether the person is important in the eyes of the world, for each one is important and made it God’s image.
Many churches have programs for the poor. In Des Moines, we had a clothes closet at our church where any needy person could come and receive all the clothes they needed without price. It was so exciting to see when some of their exact needs were met, often by someone who had just brought a carload of clothes in the exact size. Some churches provide meals for those who are hungry or provide beds for the night. But we all need to examine our lives to know how hospitable we are. It can start on Sunday morning when we welcome the newcomers and offer to have coffee with them after the service rather than with our close friends.
There are times we are tested on how hospitable we are, for not everyone comes at a convenient time and we must make adjustments. Let us not let those opportunities slip by, but welcome the stranger, open our hands to the poor and do it as unto Him.
Challenge for today: Ask the Lord to make you aware of those He would have you serve and do it with joy and grace as unto Him.
Blessings on your weekend and prayers and love, Judy

May 16, 2025

Dear Ones,
Happy weekend! We are blessed that we didn’t get hit hard by the storm yesterday afternoon as we were under a tornado watch. We got some good rain though which is much needed. Lars came for supper last night on his way to the lake.
 Today I plan to make Mexican pie and cookies bake and listen to a good seminar.
Devotions from Judy’s heart
Sometimes we can surely mess things up if we get involved when we should keep out of something. It is best to be still and to let God work. I was reading what Ann Voskamp wrote about what it means to stand still as it says in Exodus 14:14, “The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.” This word came at a very pivotal time when the Israelites were facing the Red Sea, the Egyptians were behind them and they had nowhere to go. But these words were given them and we know they went over on dry land while their enemy was drowned. The Lord did the fighting and they only had to let go and let God do it.

When we are still, we let go of our fears and trust that God will hold us. The more we truly know God, the deeper our trust goes. It’s like letting whatever concerns us to slip out of our hands into God’s hands. VosKamp said the literal translation of be still means to drop, sink down, to let go. We all have situations that could cause us fear, but it is in those times that we need to hush, be still and let go of our worries. As we do, we will come to a greater knowing of the Lord and see His power at work.

We all need stillness in our lives if we want to really know God in a deep way. We have the promise in Isaiah 26:3 that He will keep us in peace if our mind is stayed on Him as we trust. No matter what is happening in our lives, we can live in peace in the midst of the turmoil and not be shaken. We need to hold our peace and not strive and strain as we wonder what will happen. Instead, let us quiet our soul, put our trust in God’s capable hands and watch what He will do. Voskamp’s words, “When you take time to be still, you aren’t falling behind; you are letting everything else fall away, and letting God alone be your way.”

 Challenge for today: The next time you feel stressed, be still and let go, giving it all into the Lord’s hands and watch Him work.

Blessings on your weekend and prayers and love, Judy

 

May 15, 2025

Dear Ones,
Hope you have great day. Rain is expected and we surely need it. It is Donut Day here and later Bible Study. I plan to make egg dishes and listen to a seminar etc.
Devotions from Judy’s heart
Many of us may agree we should talk less and listen more, for it is hard to hear the Lord or others when we are interrupting or thinking of what we will say next. There are many places in Scripture that tell us to listen carefully, so we need to pay attention. Eccl. 5:2 says, “Be not rash with your mouth, nor let your heart be hasty to utter a word before God, for God is in heaven and you are on earth. Therefore, let your words be few.”
We live in a very noisy world, and to really listen we need quiet not only without but within. Years ago, Al and I went to a silent retreat at a Cistercian monastery. They practice silence and even at meal time no word was spoken. It was a new experience and I have to say I took more thought in what I was eating and was conscious of each bite. The silence was quite a change from our noisy world and times like that help us deal with ourselves. So much our lives are lived by reacting to outward things, and even the dings from our cell phones tell us someone wants our attention. But silence helps us to act from within ourselves and we begin to see our real needs and those of others.
When the weather is nice, it is restoring to just sit outside and listen to the sounds of nature, the singing of the birds and the breeze through the trees. We become more aware of the Lord and take pleasure in even the little things.
If we are honest with ourselves, there are probably times for most of us when we realize we have talked too much and should have remained quiet. Some time ago we had a couple over for dinner and we asked about their family and their lives and they shared and shared but never once did they ever address a question to us. I said to Al that they never found out anything more than what they came with as they only talked about their lives but nothing more. Let us all weigh our words and speak as the Lord directs us and talk less and listen more.
Challenge for today: Take time to be quiet and live more in God’s reality!
Blessings on your day and prayers and love, Judy

May 14, 2025

Dear Ones,
Hope you have a wonderful day. Our warm weather is holding until this weekend when it drops to 46! Meanwhile we enjoy the gorgeous days! Today Al is preaching next door and I go to my exercise class and then to Crafts and later to Bible Study.
Devotions from Judy’s heart
We often talk about our desire to hear the Lord, but what about following the Lord in obedience? James tells us we are to be doers of the Word, not hearers only. (James 1:22) We are taught obedience in life when we are young, as parents seek to teach us the importance of obeying.  I remember being in the mountains overlooking a canyon hearing parents telling their children to stay close by their side, for it was a very long way down if they decided to bolt away. We don’t always experience the immediate consequences of our disobedience, but ultimately we reap  what we have sown.
Obedience is a sign of love. John 5:3 says, “For this is the love of God, that we keep His commandments and His commandments are not burdensome.” Jesus calls us His friend if we do as He says (John 15:14). Scriptures are full of verses on obedience and it is up to us to surrender our own way so we can go God’s way, which is far superior. If we obey the truth of His words, we will be set free and no longer a slave to our own desires.
In some ways I think of obedience as a matter of trust. Do I trust the Lord enough to choose His way, even when I don’t understand what He is doing or know the reason why? Do I believe He is all good, all loving, all wise, and able to steer me in the in the way I should go? I remember a verse I learned as a child from Psalm 32:8, “I will instruct you and teach you the way you should go. I will counsel you with my loving eye on you.” It’s so good to know He sees us, knows what is up ahead and has His eye on us. He will teach us, guide us to find His path for our life and we will grow as we obey Him. When we disobey, not only do we suffer, but those around us as well.  We can say we love Him but the sign of our love is obedience.
Challenge for today: Pray or sing the words to the song, “When we walk with the Lord, in the light of His word. What a glory He sheds on our way. When we do His good will. He abides with us still and to all who will trust and obey. Trust and obey for there is not other way to be happy in Jesus but to trust and obey.”
Blessings on your day and prayers and love, Judy

May 13, 2025

Dear Ones,
Hope you have a wonderful day! It is to be another warm day and we are so thankful that the repair man came and got our A.C. going again. I plan to do food prep, write, and later we are having friends over for fellowship and Blueberry Crumble with real whipped cream.Emoji
Devotions from Judy’s heart
Haven’t we all experienced times when a word is preached that touches our heart? Or maybe we read a particular scripture that stands out to us like a neon light and seems to be a direct message from the Lord. He is trying to get our attention and He sends us signs or a spoken word to make sure we hear what He has been trying to reveal to us. I was reading a message from Mark Roberts of Fuller Seminary and his word from the Lord was to be still, stop speaking and be quiet; in other words, let something go, drop it, abandon it and sit quietly.
Sometimes we all get in situations that may cause us worry or anxiety and we have no idea what the outcome will be. But that is the very time we need to call on the Lord and tell Him everything that concerns us. Maybe we are getting ready to go to work and have a lot weighing on our mind since we have to deal with a situation there. It has cost us some sleep and we want to jump in and solve the problem ourselves. But how much better to take even five minutes of time and just sit before the Lord, let Him calm our heart, and in silence give Him our attention. We ask Him to free us from the need to be in control and instead ask Him to take charge.
One night I got up from the chair after watching the news and later could not find my glasses. Since I have two pairs, it was not an emergency but those glasses are my best and it was like they disappeared. Al and I both looked for them high and low and as I write this, we are yet to find them. I wanted to tear the apartment apart, but after we both looked everywhere imaginable, I just prayed and remembered the verse Roberts gave from Psalm 46:10, “Let go of your concerns! Then you will know that I am God.” Another verse said to turn our burdens over to the Lord and He will take care of you. (Psalm 55:22) So I did what Roberts said and spent five minutes or so, just sitting before the Lord, being quiet and did not speak. The Lord calmed my heart and though my eyes are ever alert, I let go. One day hopefully my glasses will reappear and Al and I will celebrate!
Challenge for today: Give both small concerns and big ones to the Lord and put quiet trust in Him.
P.S.  I wrote this devotional a couple weeks ago as I rarely send them out right away. But guess what?  My glasses were found under the bed when Al and I were shampooing the bedroom carpet. They must have slid off the bed and shoved under when I vacuumed. When we discovered them Al and I did a high five and PTL!
Blessings on your day and prayers and love, Judy

Breaking the Yoke

I ‘ve read Ch.9 of Isaiah often,  especially during the Advent season.  Recently I was struck with the sheer force of verses 4-5, when I consider the yoke and emotional burden our nation is under.   “For you will break the yoke of their slavery and lift the heavy burden from their shoulders.  You will break the oppressor’s rod, just as you did when you destroyed the army of Midian.  The boots of the warrior and the uniforms bloodstained by war will be burned.  They will be fuel for the fire” (Is. 9:4-5 NLT). This would be an unbelievable occurrence for people, “walking in darkness……living in the land of the shadow of death (Is. 9:2). 

At the time of Isaiah’s prophecy, the Assyrians had invaded Zebulun and Naphtali, the two northern tribes of Israel. The invasion brought darkness and despair, but the Isaiah was giving the people reason for hope.  “Nevertheless, there will be no more gloom for those who were in distress” (Is. 9:1).  These words are given in the “prophetic perfect.” “Though the events were in the future, they were described as if they had already happened” (CSB Study Bible). Matthew quotes this passage in Matt. 4:15-16,  referring to the ministry of Jesus, who as the light of the world has come to  removing the darkness and lifting the despair 

When a nation feels like they are living in the shadow of death, it give the impression of little hope of a brighter future. “The oppressed nation is compared to an ox weighed down by a heavy yoke and an animal that is prodded and beaten.” (NET)  I have been pondering the yoke as a symbol of our nation’s despair and anxiety. In scripture the yoke is the image of subjection.  We read in Deut. 28:47-8, “Because you did not serve the Lord your God joyfully and gladly in the time of prosperity, therefore in hunger and thirst, in nakedness and dire poverty, you will serve the enemies the Lord sends against you.  He will put an iron yoke on your neck until he has destroyed you” (Deut 28:46- 47).  The burden of carrying a yoke, can be the consequence of a nation having turned their backs on the Lord.

But God in His mercy will also release a nation from the yoke that they carry.  “They will know that I am the Lord, when I break the bars of their yoke and rescue them from the hands of those who enslaved them” (Ezk. 34:27).  Isaiah prophesied Israel being freed from the Assyrian yoke. “I will crush the Assyrian in my land; on my mountain I will trample him down.  His yoke will be taken from my people, and his burden removed from their shoulders” (Is 14:25). 

Isaiah points to David’s victory at Midan, when he was victorious with only 300 men.  It was unbelievable victory against a great army.  Isaiah promises a similar future victory for the people of God.  It will be a decisive battle, even though it will be bloody.  “The boots of the warrior and the uniforms bloodstained by war will all be burned.  They will be fuel for the fire” (Is. 9:5).  “The burning of the boots and the bloody clothes of the enemy soldiers….signify a victory in holy war where spoils were dedicated to God and military equipment was se on fire” (CSB Study Bible).

As a nation we are under a cloud of darkness, causing much despair.  There may be some hope and relief as light beginning to shine.  But ultimately, the burden and the rod of despair can only be lifted by the Lord. Only he can “break the oppressor’s rod.” Is. 9:5 reminds us that it will be messy before it gets better.  

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