Month: May 2024 (Page 1 of 4)
“I don’t know about tomorrow,
I just live from day to day.
I don’t borrow from its sunshine,
For its skies may turn to gray.
I don’t worry o’er the future,
For I know what Jesus said,
And today I’ll walk beside Him,
For He knows what is ahead.
We all go through hard times of sadness and mourning, and it is part of our healing, but let us not get stuck there for we need to let joy come into our lives again. “Weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning.” Psalms 30:5
Where we live at Northern Lakes, many have lost their loved ones and grief is very real and huge adjustments result. I notice that others who have lost their mates, come along side of them, for they have known that darkness of grief but also have known that the Lord will walk beside them and hold their hand. He will shine His light of healing into their lives and one day joy will return. Whatever we go through now, let us be assured we don’t go through it alone, for the Lord will never leave us, but walk us through it.

Because a person is a Christian doesn’t mean we will just naturally get along, but we may need to work at it; Paul gives some good pointers in Ephesians 4 as to how to stay unified. It made me think of our past mission teams to Mexico as we traveled many miles in the church van together, did ministry and then a long trip home again. We had to not focus on what we wanted but what was good for the whole. Some team members were easier to get along with and a few might have been challenging for the whole team. Paul tells us to have humility and “steadily pour ourselves out for each other in acts of love, alert at noticing differences and quick at mending fences.” He goes on to say we need to all grow up and keep in step with one another and be permeated with Oneness. He encourages us to use the gifts we were given and let God reproduce His character in us.
Paul also warns us against lying to each other and to be truth tellers instead, saying what would help them. We are to be gentle and sensitive to one another and watch out for back biting. Yes, we may get angry with one another, but we aren’t to stay that way but quick to make amends. What Paul is telling the people is not just for them but also for us today, whether it be with others at church or our family members, to remember we are on the same team with an awesome destination. Let us not make it harder for them but use our gifts to encourage them. Who knows, they may be ushered into heaven first and will one day reach out to welcome us into our eternal glory.

Devotions from Judy’s heart
It reminded me of II Cor. 518, “Therefore if any person is (ingrafted) in Christ (the Messiah) he is a new creation (a new creature altogether); the old (previous moral and spiritual condition) has passed away. Behold the fresh and new has come!” That was so true of the changed life I saw before me. He was not just reformed but he was made new. When any one of us comes to the Lord in faith, we are made fresh and new, and we no longer live for ourselves but live to please the Lord. It doesn’t matter what we have done in the past for it is forgiven and we are set free. When our heart is changed, it also shows up in our countenance, the way we live our life, and also in our works. It is not to bring glory to ourselves but glory to the Lord, out of His love for us.
Paul also said in Col 2:6-7, “As you therefore have received Christ Jesus the Lord, continue to live your lives in Him, rooted and built up in Him and established in the faith, just as you were taught, abounding in thanksgiving.” Every day each of us should be growing and being built up in our faith and seeking to please the Lord. When we first come to know Himl it is only the beginning of a lifelong process of living our whole lives for Him.
Aaron Renn has written an important book, “Life in the Negative World.” It is meant for evangelicals learning to live in a culture where a biblical faith is seen as a negative influence on others. In a recent blog, Renn noted “About a quarter of the book is an updated and expanded version of my diagnosis of what’s happening in evangelicalism and its relationship with society at large. But three quarters of it is about how evangelicals should start living in this new era I’ve called the ‘Negative World.'”
I have been following Renn on line for sometime. I regard his insights worthy of serious reflection and discussion. In his blog he wanted to “highlight four themes that you can use as a guide in thinking through the ideas I share in the book.” I believe they are worthy of our attention as men who want to follow Jesus.
First, a posture of exploration. In the world as well as the church are in a time of rapid change and uncertainty. We all are experiencing significant change. Renn believe this should lead us into “adopting a posture of exploration.” “Today’s world is much more like a ‘zero to one’ startup. We are in the unknown territory and have to get more comfortable walking by faith rather than sight.” Using the Israelites crossing the Jordan River into the promised land as an example, he suggests, “They had known only the wilderness, which was their comfort zone. Now they had to venture into the unknown, following the ark because they had not been this way before.”
Second, increased focus on being a counterculture. Renn believes, “the evangelical church needs to spend much more time self-consciously and intentionally stewarding the strength and health of its own community.” He sees evangelicalism as internally weak. He suggests there should be more of an internal focus rather then that of an external focus. The image of building an ark to survive the flood would be a good image for the church to adopt
Thirdly, a minority mindset. We are no longer a “moral majority” representing the cultural mainstream of America. “This means,” according to Renn, “that evangelicals need to learn to act like other minorities have always acted. We have to create our own institutions and practices that demarcate and sustain community life and be less reliant on the mainstream institutions of society. Evangelicals do not need to take responsibility for or invest in mainstream institutions.”
Fourthly, raising the bar on church. When Christianity was the de facto national religion, most people were members and attended. The bar was rather low; discipleship and belief were seen as artificial barriers to membership. But Renn maintains, “As evangelicalism becomes more of a minority faith that requires an unpopular choice to embrace, this gives evangelical churches the opportunity to raise the bar for what they expect out of their members. Raising this bar will be crucial to having stronger churches as well.”
These four suggestions can work effectively for any gathering of men, wanting to combat the effects of the shrill voices regarding toxic masculinity. Men, the culture is not going to give us the guidance, encouragement and support to be a godly man. We must be more creative in building communities of men who are about to build an ark, so as to rescue especially younger men. We will need to accept the status of minorities, while calling men to whole hearted allegiance to the Lord. I am thankful for the godly men in my life. Jesus said, “Self-sacrifice is the way, my way, to saving yourself, your true self” (Mark 8:36 – Message).
Eugene Peterson writes how David was anointed to be king while Saul reigned, but it wasn’t until 20 years later that he actually ruled and reigned as king. In the meantime, he learned how to rule with a servant’s heart How about us? What does our work reveal about us? Does it express our values and convictions, or do we do we hide behind our role and present ourselves as how we think others want to see us in a certain way? Some employees are shocked when they see their boss at a Christian rally as they had no idea that they knew the Lord. That doesn’t say much for their everyday behavior at work. Peterson writes, “The place in which God’s purposes are developed in our lives is a workplace in which we learn how to do king work.” The way we do our work is equally important as the work we actually do. That includes being the CEO or being a housewife.
If we are to finish well in life, we need to be aware of the Lord in whatever work we do and do it for His glory. Our work should stand as a witness to others as to who reigns in our lives. Each day God desires that our work will develop our character and express His love. As it says in Isaiah 60:1 (Amplified), “Arise (from the depression and prostration in which circumstances have kept you—rise to a new life)! Shine (be radiant with the glory of the Lord), for your light has come, and the glory of the Lord has risen upon you!”
When we know the Lord things can change in our lives. In many instances where there has been no fruit, we are noticeably transformed as we receive God’s love pouring into our hearts. It is not wise to give up hope not only ourselves but others also. It may be hard to even picture a grumpy, negative person who is transformed into a person of joy, but the Lord is in the business of changing hearts and fruit results! We all can change but not by gritting our teeth and trying harder but by surrendering to the Lord and letting Him make us new. As Jesus said in John 15:16, You didn’t choose me, remember, I chose you, and put you in the world to bear fruit, fruit that won’t spoil. As fruit bearers, whatever you ask the Father in relation to me, He gives you.” Let us be fruit bearing and may it show up in loving actions and spiritual growth in our lives etc.
God values each one of us and He takes the broken parts of our lives and makes us new. We need to give him our fears, our failures, our wounds so that life-changing things can begin to happen. We all have been wounded but we also have wounded others, so the key is forgiveness. We are called to forgive others, even as the Lord has forgiven us. If we live close to the center of God’s love, we will discover who God made us to be and desire to give up our selfish ways to find our true life and fruitfulness in the Lord.
In marriage each couple forms their own routines and rituals. Neither person will be ecstatic and interesting and beautiful all the time, but they find their own rhythm. Marriage will sustain the relationship when they are tired and a bit grouchy, for they will live out their commitment to God and to love one another for better or worse, for rich or poor and til death parts them.
When Al and I first got married we could hardly bear to be apart to go to our individual jobs; but as time went on life becomes more routine and we have those close times together, but we also have spaces to be apart. We both desire to keep growing in our love for the Lord and our commitment and love for each other. That can speak volumes through our actions. While at a previous hotel we found out after we checked in and got the last room, that they were renovating the hotel. I was especially disappointed as I like to retreat, and the desk had no light along with the whole side of the room. That meant as it got dark, I could no longer read and study and write at the desk. Al was thinking of me for when he came back from his walk, he came in the door joyfully carrying a big lamp that he was able to get from the manager. Love willingly goes out of its way for one another and marriage keeps us faithful to the commitment. Marriage gives us the extra push to love in all seasons and causes it to deepen in appreciation of the longevity of the relationship. Though our culture acts like marriage is on the outs and fragile, it is a deepening relationship of mutual love.
As we pray and reach out to win others, a good place to start is in our own neighborhoods. It may simply begin with inviting them for coffee and getting acquainted and then maybe even a neighborhood outdoor picnic. We can ask the Lord how we might pray for them and then follow with acts of kindness as led. If they commit their lives to the Lord, we can follow up on them and help them grow by having a Bible study etc. Our church once had a period of several weeks where we prayed for unsaved neighbors and then invited them to a service where the way of salvation was made clear. We prayed for our unchurched neighbor and yet were so wonderfully surprised when she accepted the invitation, which we knew was only a result of prayers.
Of course, we don’t need to stop by just praying for our neighbors but gather with others to pray for our churches, our cities, and our nation. Jesus told us in Luke 18:1 to pray always and not lose heart.”
I am reading in the book of Ezra, how Zerubbabel led over 42,000 Israelites back to their land after being exiled in Babylon for 70 years. It was God’s doing that the Persian King Cyrus, gave volunteers permission to go to Jerusalem and rebuild the temple. They no more got started with the foundation laid and the altar built and sacrifices offered, when they had to face opposition that hindered the building for over 16 years. Zerubbabel was discouraged and the people fearful; but finally, when their hearts received encouragement by words from the prophets and leaders and reading of the scriptures, they were able to finish the temple and worship there again.
We will have those that oppose us and try to sidetrack us from doing God’s will and we may get discouraged. We should not be surprised or feel hopeless, but rather seek God’s help and move ahead. God may use others to come along side of us, and encourage us and pray for us so that we can complete the work given to us. Let us not be slowed down or to give up but to place everything in God’s hands and go in His power, not ours.
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