I noticed a most unusual sight as I watered my plants today. I have a 4 tier plant stand and a plant on the second level has also planted part of itself in the soil of the pot on the 4th level. It is trying to take over not only it’s own pot but that of another.  God has given each of us a pot or place to fit and to flourish, that is not like any one else. He is the one that places us and we are to “bloom where we are planted.” But we are not to let anyone else take over our life as we are each responsible before the Lord. ( Rom. 14:12 “So then, each of us will give and account of himself to God.”)  We hear so much about enabling others, or being controlled by others and neither one is good.  God wants us to be free to be ourselves and to grow in the way He has ordained for us. He is watchful over us for,  “No creature is hidden from His sight, abut all are naked and expose to the eyes of Him to whom we must give account.” Heb. 4;13