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Month: January 2011 (Page 2 of 3)

An Integrated Male

I have been giving quite a bit of attention to a week-end retreat I will be doing this week-end.  One of the components of our retreat for about a dozen guys as to do with the affirmation of our masculine soul and the incorporation of the feminine complement.  It seems to me that this is not talked about as much as it should in men’s ministry.  I personally have found much insight and healing from two authors in particular on this subject.  These two authors are Leanne Payne and the other a Franciscan priest, Richard Rohr. 

I first began to digest Leanne Payne’s material in the early 90’s.  So I have lived with her material for over 20 years.  I discovered Richard Rohr a few years later.  What I would like to highlight in this post is the need for men, after they become secure in their masculine identity, to then embrace the feminine counterpart of their person hood.  Genesis 2:27 tells us of God created man in his image.  “So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them.”  (Genesis 2:27).  The image of God is reflected in both male and female. These are transcendent qualites that we have from God.  

Men we find  true affirmation in relationship to our heavenly Father.  Having found their affirmation in their relationship to God, there is a need to find the balance of the feminine.  Rohr observes, “A man who is secure in his gender identity will have a healthy masculine gender identity as well as the balance of the complementary feminine”.  This can be expressed in such phrase as “head and heart”, “tough and tender”, “rational and intuitive” “doing and being” and “courage and compassion.”   In a culture such as ours, where the feminine voice has been raising a lot of protest over the wrongful dominance of men, men are being forced to look at the feminine complement in their lives.  The problem is that many men are doing so without being secure in their own male identity.  The result are men who are weak and passive. 

There are some leaders in men’s minstry who have pointed out, that the message of the church is geared more for a feminine response.  Surrender and being loving, while showing compassion in relationships is a common theme.  While this is a necessary expression for men, who are followers of Jesus, this can’t be the only message men hear.  Men are naturally geared toward doing.  Payne believes that “at the heart of the masculine is energy to honor the truth and move forward in the truth.”  The masculine is resolute, orientated to work, order and accomplishment.  This needs to be affirmed in a healthy male identity.  Out of this identity comes the capacity to embrace the more feminine qualites of connecting, relating and responding.  But these will be best integrated in the heart of a man who has found his masculine identity in Christ.

Jan. 21st

Devotions based on James Smith’s book, The Good and Beautiful Community

All of us have friends or family that we would like to share our story with that they may be drawn into the life of faith. They are watching us all the time, and our actions are communicating for good or for ill. The author gives us simple activities to help us share without embarrassment. The first thing we can do is to pray and ask the Holy Spirit to send people our way who need the Lord and to be watchful of whom they may be. We can reach out to them by asking them to go to lunch or coffee and asking nonthreatening questions. We can be good listeners and it will give us clues as to the condition of their hearts. What is that person struggling with? Where is God working in their life?  Then we can connect their situation with the gospel.  If they are hurting, share the good news of Jesus wanting to be there in their pain etc.  Sometimes we may be asked to tell our story and it is good to let the person know we are not perfect and we also struggle…but nevertheless have put our faith and confidence in God. At a certain point we can invite the person to join us at church, or a social setting, or a service project, or small group Bible Study. Then keep praying for them and trust God. Let us point others to Him!

Jan. 20th

Devotions based on James Smith’s book, The Good and the Beautiful Community

Our lives are a witness to the world that we have something real and they want to know the reason we have hope. Some people are especially gifted at sharing their faith but we all are witnesses, even when we are not conscious of it. We share Him in two ways: with our life and with our mouth. Our lives are the most profound witness to our connection with God. But there are also times people give us permission to explain what we believe and why. We cannot claim to be perfect but our job is to point others to the One who is perfect. We have hope because of His death, resurrection, ascension and return some day. Our future is bright because of His finished work!  As Jesus story becomes our story, our behavior changes too. St. Francis said, “Preach the gospel wherever you go. When necessary use words”.  Romans 12:1-18 tells us just how to preach the gospel without words.

 Dallas Willard said: “The true social activist is the person who lives as an apprentice of Jesus in his or her ordinary relationships.”
There are times when we are called to share the hope within us in words and we need to do it with gentleness and reverence. ( I Peter 3:15-16)  Timing is important too and we need to be patient and alert to the opportunities. Each day we get to make a masterpiece with our lives that witness to the Hope that is within us.

Jan. 19th

Devotions based on James Smith’s book, The Good and Beautiful Community

How do we keep a balance between spending time with God and caring for others? The author suggests spending 2 hours focused on God and 4 intentional acts for others. ( 2 by 4)  The time spent with God could be intentional as we go to church for an hour but going with a sense that we are meeting God. Or it could be spent in being quiet before Him, or thanking Him as we list our blessings, or reading the Word reflectively, or just listening, or journaling etc. But also let us go on to do unselfish acts of kindness and generosity. Think, what can we do for others starting with little things ( like taking someone’s tray back in the cafeteria) to bigger things like helping someone move?  Be creative! How about letting someone go ahead of us in line? Or simply spending time listening to someone?  The author suggests doing  4 acts of kindness this week, remembering that we are a citizen of another world!  Let us stay balanced between time spent with Him and giving ourselves unselfishly to others!

Jan 18th

Devotions based on James Smith’s book, The Good and Beautiful Community

As we follow the Lord we need to avoid making rules and laws and trust the leading of the Spirit.  There can be a tendency to turn our individual, Spirit-led practices into corporate laws. Because we may be led to live in a poor area to help the ones living there, doesn’t mean that no Christian should own a house over $200,000. The kingdom of God is not about rules, but about the goodness, confidence, and laughter we discover when we let the Holy Spirit lead us. We need to come to our own conclusions on such matters, and avoid turning them into laws that all others must obey, or judging those who do not do as you do. William Penn grew up in the upper class and had the best education available. At age 23 he became a Quaker and it was common in his day to wear a sword, which was not to harm anyone but a sign that the wearer belonged to the upper class. Penn struggled with whether he should wear the sword for it was a symbol of war and a symbol of class distinction, two things Quakers are against. When he asked Fox, his mentor, he was told, “Wear it as long as you can.”…meaning that in time he would be led to make the right decision. William gave up the sword but not right away. As we are changed inwardly, so do things in our lives, but not overnight. So let us avoid legalism and listen to what the Spirit tells us, not our neighbor!

Jan. 17th

Devotions based on James Smith’s book, The Good and Beautiful Community

We are called a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a peculiar people. I Peter 2:9.  Peculiar means different and strange and as Christians we should be different from the world. If we are truly following Jesus and led by the Holy Spirit, we will transcend the laws of our culture.  When persecuted we will bless and love instead of getting even!  When cursed  we will repay with blessings?  Do we live by the higher law of love? Do others want to know Him because they see us a people who have peace, joy, and love?  The God we serve is extraordinarily different than any other god the world has ever heard of. He loves us so much that He became one of us and died for us when it is not deserved. He is generous, good, loving, and peculiar…His ways are not our ways or His thoughts our thoughts. ( Is. 55:8)  His desire is to transform us into peculiar people who love others, even if they don’t love us in return. It is all too easy to be like our culture where we treat people as objects for personal gain etc. Let us cut against the grain and become a community of people rooted in another world. Let us have the courage to love and forgive the unlovely and the unforgivable as He does us.

Jan. 15th

Devotions from James Smith’s book, The Good and Beautiful Community

This book has to do with learning how to love our neighbor as our self.  Any of us can do a wonderful act of service but if we do not do it in a spirit of love, it is of no value.  When we do sacrificial acts for others, it can gain attention but we must beware that it can lead to vainglory and not bring glory to our Heavenly Father. The purpose of doing kind things is not to be seen by others for, ”The heart of the matter is the heart.”   As it says in Galatians 5:6, “The only thing that counts is faith working through love.”  Living faith is trust and confidence in God expressed in acts of love in our relationship with others.  If we just focus on social justice we can become self-righteous and insensitive. We need personal faith as well. It is not that we just do a good deed here or there but our lives should be good deeds, that flow from Christlike character.  Let us live in continuous contact with the kingdom of God.  We love, serve, forgive and care for others because God first loved, served, forgave and cared for us. So the life we are now living with God just spills over onto everyone we meet. Let us remember that daily encounters with others are the arenas in which our relationship with God becomes incarnate!

Jan. 14th

Devotions based on Mark Buchanan’s book, Spiritual Rhythms

In all of the seasons we go through we need to draw from the well of prayer.  Prayer is the key and the secret to opening the doors of the Kingdom.  Prayer is a privilege, not a duty.  It is not an act of exertion but a source of replenishment. We have ready access to the presence of God and can come any time from any where. 
We also need to drink from the well of community. Two are better than one.  ”If they fall down they can help each other up.” A friend makes our lives profitable, comfortable, less lonely, less frail, less vulnerable.   A friend increases life’s goodness and gives us strength.   The author realized one day that he did not have one friend he could call on at 3 am. if there was a crisis. So he dug a well of friendship and spends time now weekly with 2 friends who he can share his innermost struggles with. And of course, Jesus is the best friend we can have and know that He is always right there with us.

Jan. 13th

Devotions based on Mark Buchanan’s book, Spiritual Rhythms

When we are dry and thirsty, we need to draw from the well of worship. The kind of worship He wants is worship in spirit and truth.  He desires that we seek Him in our inmost place and that we worship in truth.  It’s so much more than going through the motions of worship for appearances sake- it is rather meeting Him afresh who lives and sees us.  We need to also go to the well of the Word of God daily, in season and out of season. Go for strength beyond ourselves, wisdom above ourselves, and courage bigger than ourselves.   His Word is our foundation and we can be sure that adversity will test this foundation. As we hear His word, we need to respond in obedience. Let us ask ourselves what do  we already know that we’re not doing? If God has told us, we need to just do it. Let us be doers of the Word and not hearers only!

Starbuck and being restricted

Did you know that Starbucks is dropping the word “Starbuck” from it logo.  This is happening in time for its 40th anniversary in March.  A company spokesperson observed  that people can now recognize the logo without the words.  It was stated that the new logo is a “metaphor for the company dropping the boundaries of itsown business and growing into new areas.”  Being associated only with coffee is to confining and restrictive.  The idea is to keep selling experience with coffee being only a part of the experience.

As I read that article I was preparing my sermon for last Sunday.  The text for last Sunday, which was the Baptism of Our Lord, was from Matt 3:13-17.  It is the story of Jesus’ baptism.  I made the point that there is nothing restricting about the way of Jesus.  If our spiritual life seems restrictive, not giving us life and energy to live for God, we have misunderstood the nature of the gospel.  The same Holy Spirit that came upon Jesus that day, is the same Spirit that fills us with the presence of God when we put our trust in Jesus

I kept thinking about men who read this blog site. The text declares that in Jesus all righteousness in being fulfilled.  The message puts it this way, “God’s work, putting things right all these centuries, is coming together now in this baptism.”  All the preparations that God had made for us to enter into abundant life was now going to be fulfilled when Jesus entered into his baptism experience.  It as after he came up out of the water that he was himself was baptized with the Holy Spirit. Mark tells us, “As Jesus was coming up out of the water, he saw heaven being torn open and the Spirit descending on him like a dove” (Mark 1:10).  Matthew tells us that, “at that moment heaven was opened.”

The implication from the baptism of Jesus is that heaven was opening up in a new way.  God was now becoming involved in the lives of his people in a new way.  Jesus, John tells us, would now be the one who would baptism us with the same Holy Spirit.  The very presence of God would now take up residence in our lives.  Peter in his sermon recalls Jesus baptism, remembering, “how God anointed Jesus of Nazareth with the Holy Spirit and power, and how he went around doing good and healing all who were under the power of the devil, because God was with him” (Acts 10:38).  That same power for doing good could now reside in each of us. 

 One of the continually questions men ask in the secret place of the heart is, “Do I have what it takes?”  This question causes a lot of men to stand on the sidelines, living a passive and silent life spiritually.  They so often think that the spirituality of their wives is much more affective then their own.  But the good news from this text is that we have been given in the person of the Holy Spirit that very presence of God.  Jesus baptizes in the power and presence of the Holy Spirit.  When we put our trust in him, he will carry us through, giving all we need through the work of His Spirit in us.  So don’t restrict your spiritual life and practice.  Turn your heart to heaven, asking Jesus to come a fill you will all you need for the journey. All the requirements have been met.  Our posture is that of being able to receive what is being given.

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